How to get along with people who don t have the same personality and are always considered acquainta

Communication is a bridge between people, as long as the communication is good, the bridge will be strong, and it will be difficult to have problems. When you meet someone with a different personality, communicate. Sometimes any solution is better than sitting down and communicating calmly, so that a lot of unpleasantness can be effectively solved.

Be polite to people who don't match your personality, it's your cultivation. And if you are not polite to people who are not compatible with you, then he will also offend you and be prone to conflict. If the other party can't get used to you and gossip about you, don't pay attention to it, and the more you ignore others, the more energetic you will speak.

Don't care too much about what others think of you, just be yourself. Let go of prejudice, just talk about things, don't look at people everywhere because others and your personality are not in line, everywhere for others, if you have work contacts, you must separate work and private emotions, let go of each other's prejudices, and work together.

Personality is the sum of a person's unique psychological characteristics. When you don't like others and don't listen to them, you might as well think about it, after all, others are others, and I have no reason to treat them as myself. In this way, the mood will gradually calm down.

To do this, you need to change your perspective, assume others as yourself, assume yourself as someone else, compare your heart with your heart, put yourself in the shoes of others, and compare yourself with this.

Everyone's personality is different, there are people in this world who are compatible with you, and naturally there are people who are not compatible with you, don't deliberately alienate others, but don't be too close, just keep a certain distance. People with incompatible personalities will generally have different values and living habits from you, if it is not necessary for work, try to avoid in-depth communication, so as not to cause disputes and contradictions. Respect everyone's differences, disagreeing with your personality does not necessarily mean that others are not good, but not suitable for you, don't always point fingers at others and say bad things about others.

Politeness is the most basic etiquette of a person, whether it is with close people or unfamiliar people, this point must be done. No matter whether your personality is impulsive or subtle, when you do this well, meet and say hello every day, say sorry even if you make a mistake, speak in the eyes of others, etc., and no matter how much people who disagree with you, there will be no complaints.

Water and fire are so discordant, in the end, they still can't stay in the same space. Therefore, some things are destined to not fit together no matter how much effort you try, so there is no need to force them. The same is true of how people get along with each other.

If two people's personalities are not compatible, then contact less. When you encounter something you can't help but touch, such as work, you need to spend a little time communicating. For the rest of the time, don't communicate too deeply, so that the sparks that are very likely to be encountered will be difficult to end at that time.

Avoid in-depth discussions on topics that are not related to work, and treat people who are not compatible with your personality at work. If it is not necessary for work, you can try to stay away from the other party to avoid further negotiations and disputes caused by different opinions, which will lead to further deterioration of the shutdown.

I believe that the most unbearable thing for many people is that there is always some twitter behind them, and often they can't help but talk about some things sometimes. There is nothing wrong with having your own opinion on some small things, what is wrong is to say what you dare not say in front of people behind your back, this kind of person is undoubtedly hated by many people. At this time, no matter what, you must keep your mouth shut, and no matter how dissatisfied you are, don't speak ill of others behind your back.

No matter how bad someone else is, they must say it to their face.

In life, you will meet people with all kinds of personalities, and some people agree with their three views, and they feel that there is a topic when they meet every day. Some people have completely different views, and they feel bored when they say two sentences. Then, in the face of such an uninvited "acquaintance", I suggest that you should still be polite, distant, and softly reject the other party.

1. Why be polite instead of outright refusal

Since the other party is the kind of person who is naturally acquainted, his personality is extroverted and belongs to the kind of person who is very arrogant. Whether you are familiar with the other party or not, you like to joke, and sometimes, the scale of the joke will be relatively large, which may be unacceptable to the people around you.

If you directly refuse his approach, it will not necessarily make the other person retreat, and it is likely to bring new troubles. For example, when he chats with others and mentions you on different occasions, he criticizes you for pretending to be "cold" and very difficult to get along with, which is unnecessary trouble.

2. Why should there be distance, not hospitality

There is an old saying that is very good, it is called "hit the snake with the stick", which means that you were going to fight the snake, but you didn't expect the snake to climb on the stick. And in the face of people you don't like, if you are embarrassed to refuse, reluctantly let yourself accept it happily. The other party thinks that you like this, and it becomes "inch by inch".

Since you don't like each other's personalities, you can continue to talk when you get along with each other as "not interested". The topic is always interrupted by other things, intentionally or unintentionally, so that the other person feels that he does not want to talk to him, and does not talk to himself.

3. Why soft refusal instead of giving a chance

The best way to keep someone out of the door is not to close your own door, which may result in the other person knocking on the door until you are annoyed and open the door for him. Instead, you should tell the other person that you are going out before they are ready to knock on the door.

For example, when he comes over and wants to pretend to be familiar, or even wants to pat you on the shoulder casually. You pretend to see another person, or have a ** temporarily, or have something to do temporarily, and don't give the other person a chance to speak. After doing this many times, the other party will understand that you hate him.

Therefore, when you encounter this kind of stranger in life who is not compatible with you and keep approaching you, the best choice is to deal with it calmly. Let yourself fade out of the other person's sight, and also give your world a piece of cleanness. is not like in "Journey to the West", Sun Wukong feels that Tang Seng is constantly "buzzing" all day long, and he is upset.

Then keep a proper distance, you can find like-minded friends to play with, if it's not a big contradiction, you don't have to say it, just have a degree in your heart.

In fact, as such a we should not be too entangled, we must maintain a normal heart to treat it correctly, since we do not agree, then we reduce exchanges and communication, do not care about other people's opinions.

You can keep your distance from it tactfully. That way, the other person will feel what you mean. I'm sure she'll slowly drift away from you.

If you have incompatible personalities and are always considered acquaintances, you can get along without taking the initiative, arguing, or responding, so that the other party will not be pestering you after a long time.

We should be good at enlightening her, guiding her step by step from introverted psychology, or changing our inner thoughts, and becoming a real friend with him.

If the personality is not compatible, you can try to avoid contact or less contact with people with incompatible personalities, it is very difficult to get along with each other, in order to prevent the occurrence of conflicts, this is the best way to solve the problem.

Try to keep a calm mind, don't have too much contact with him, and do your job when you have to do your job.

At this time, you need your skills in dealing with the world, and the friendship of gentlemen is as light as water, although it is not appropriate to use it here, but we can also do this, we don't have to communicate every day, you can visit every year's holidays, and the point is up.

Find common topics, things he has experienced and his own interests, so that he knows what he likes.

It's okay to go with the flow with such people, and there are many times when you deliberately do something, but it will be self-defeating.