Is there any way to be able to hold this high flying relationship?

Updated on society 2024-04-15
33 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    I can understand how complicated your feelings are now, aggrieved, depressed, painful, sad, and unwilling. I whispered and lost my dignity and begged my boyfriend to change his mind, but not only did he not get the result he wanted, but he was annoyed, and he guarded the relationship that he had been operating for so long, and it was gone all of a sudden, and his boyfriend, who used to speak sweet words, threw himself into the arms of others. I know all of this.

    So, don't suppress yourself, it's okay to cry, it's okay to cry out loud, it's okay to find a shoulder.

    My dear, we are very single-minded, we are so affectionate that when we finally break up, we swallow the pain of clenching our teeth alone.

    So, I'd like to share my thoughts. First of all, your boyfriend is not as good as you think, and he also has many shortcomings that you can't see, and even intolerable faults; In addition, it's not that you can't live without him, the earth will still turn to summer and still prosper, we used to think that no one will be miserable and will not be able to live, in fact, we just expand someone's importance, look down on yourself, you underestimate your self-esteem and charm, the world knows how to appreciate you, there is definitely more than one person, he once said that he wants to give you happiness, but he forgot that he is not the only person in this world who can make you happy. You're just amplifying the power of love.

    In the face of your current insomnia and painful state, my advice is, 1. Don't condescend to beg for his attention and sympathy, and keep sticking to yourself, it will only make you more sad and he won't have any pity, then, don't want him, he is not worthy, a person who really knows how to deal with the aftermath, even if he leaves, will first appease you, rebuild your self-confidence, and make you stronger before leaving, but he didn't do it. This fully shows that this boy, he really doesn't know how to be considerate. 2. Don't lie in bed every morning, wake up and find something to do, you must have abandoned your hobbies, so you can bask in the sun in this morning, or go to work to enrich yourself.

    At work, if you really can't concentrate, then go wash your face and tell yourself, I'm going to get this done, and I don't allow myself to think about anything else during this time period. 3. Go for a run every night, running can not only make you healthy, but also make you sleep well at night; 4. Drink a glass of warm milk an hour before going to bed to help you sleep; 5. Go out on a trip, take a break, and in front of the scenery you have never seen, you will find that you have overlooked too many beautiful things; 6. Take out a piece of paper, divide it into left and right sides, write down his advantages on the left, write his disadvantages on the right, and write as much as possible on the right, when you think about him, cover the left and look at the right; 7. When you are in love, you spend too much time on him, then it's time to care about your former friends and family members who have been neglected, we think that a lifetime is so long, there is enough time to honor or be good to friends, but once we miss it, we really don't have time.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    Equal feelings can last long.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    Generally such feelings are very humble.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    Find some details that move her, and then seize the moment to talk to her.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    You'd better calm down first

    From "Possess a lot.

    woman" calmed down in the excitement

    Maybe they're choosing, too

    If you still have the wrong time

    Even if you know it's wrong, you have to be wrong once.

    It's like you're in the desert.

    What's behind the desert, you ask?

    I said that behind the desert is still the desert.

    You won't believe it

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    Since you're starting to get annoyed with your girlfriend, break up with her and hurt her one more day for a day with her.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    Whoever you like, you can choose whomever you like, and you have to share it with the new one first, otherwise it's shameful.

  8. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    Personally, I think it's better to choose someone who loves you than you love!

  9. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    You know.

    Bai, a girl's mind is the hardest to figure out! She said.

    du, you're not handsome, maybe it's because she doesn't want dao to know what she really thinks in her heart, maybe someone else's girl Rongsheng thinks you're not bad!

    Caring so much about her shows that you really care about her in your heart!

    If you want to meet other girls, courage is not enough!

    Before I went to her, now.

    It's all just you.

  10. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    Sometimes love is really a very confusing thing, think about whether to have a person to live a lifetime or a version to play with power.

    People who play and forget it, perhaps, you will find that the people around you now are not necessarily the people you want to live a lifetime, what is it about her that attracts you?

    To see your own heart, people are easily influenced by the consciousness of others, and often this will cause you to lose what you really like.

    Remember, don't look for something you like for someone else's eyes.

    That's not you.

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    "Girlfriend" is a fact, not a promise.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    Or is it more likely to become a dependant with the original girlfriend, and how many chances of success there are in the current university, think about it yourself.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    Young people really like the new and hate the old for feelings. Maybe you'll get bored with this girl after a while.

    However, people live for themselves, there is no need to consider "her friends", the key is whether you can honestly explain your mind to your original girlfriend, and then decide according to her attitude!

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    Don't want any of them, it's better to be a monk.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    I agree with the above point of view, for you who are so cowardly, you still don't want anyone, go to be a monk! I don't even know how much I love that! Also pedal two boats! Don't hurt others anymore, choose whoever you love!

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    Of course, it's to choose what you like, and you can see that you have become a girlfriend who doesn't love you before, what's the use of being reluctant to be together, tell her clearly, don't step on two boats anymore, so her friends won't blame you.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    Find the one you really love.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    Then who do you like from the bottom of your heart, of course, whoever you like will be with whomever you like.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    It's a bit messy, it's hard to say, I don't know who you like.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    If a love is painful ... Then this source.

    A relationship is destined to be a tragedy...

    2010-09-09 09:12If du a love is zhi

    Painful...

    Then this relationship is destined to be a tragedy...

    Let's give up...

    FIND YOUR TRUE LOVE AGAIN ...

    Give up and you will find that time can dilute everything ...

    Many times when love has become a burden, why not try to take a step back and think about it? Is this person who is making you miserable right now? If it really suits you, then even if it's pain, it's a feeling of happiness!

    If it only makes you feel bad, then leave! After all, there is more than one person in the world who loves you, and sometimes it is a wise move to maintain your dignity and future Love him, don't you feel tired? Too tired feelings, in the end, individuals will only be exhausted Why not leave the best moment!

    Loved, that's enough! Isn't it? Because there is no happiness barely!

    Don't think about the disappointment.

    Maybe you'll find out.

    There is also beauty between you.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    When did we Northeast people become so entangled? It's not easy to solve.

    1.Ask yourself what you really want!

    2.If you think about it, you can do it!

    What the hell are you doing with those useless things? Did his parents disagree? I don't know what my son did?

    Your parents are easy to do, just communicate well, after all, your parents want their children to be happy in the future, if you are not happy, can your parents still impose on you both? It's just that the old man doesn't know much about the situation, and he has the attitude of reconciling if he can!

    Open Highlights!! There's no need to grind!

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    Originally, it was to save others from the sea of suffering, but he fell into the water by himself. Testifies to a sentence; People are confused.

    A man who has no opinions, a man who wavers emotionally, a man who is sloppy...

    Love is emotionally single-minded, and the initiative is in your hands.

    If you can't let go of it, what's the harm in being tolerant once.

    Get out of the shadows as soon as possible, knowing that there are many waiting for you to save ...

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    If the boy wants to break up, there's nothing to worry about The boy's elders like you very much, but you'll still be boys in the future, either you two will have a good face-to-face interview, or you'll be talking in a few years, it's yours, it's yours, and no one else can take it away if it's not yours

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    I can understand your sadness, very understanding, emotional things, only those who have experienced it can understand, now in such a situation, you must be exhausted, because your boyfriend is now looking back because of his parents, you are more difficult to let go, this is very normal, after all, in love, everyone has exclusive things, but in the country of love, betrayal is intolerable, the problem you are facing now, I suggest that you calm down If you feel that there will be a shadow in your heart Then you let go If not So go ahead.

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-14

    In the end, it's up to you how you choose.

    1 Break up: You should consider the thoughts of your family, but you don't have to do it too much according to your family's ideas, after all, what your family wants most is that you can be happy in the future, if you really want to break up, talk to your family, they will understand you. But after the breakup, if you can find another one within a few months, the painful time will be interrupted, otherwise it will take at least a year and a half to get out of the pain, provided that you don't contact him again.

    2 No distinction: It stands to reason that if he really changes his mind and has not been in bed, he can still continue. However, he changed his mind after considering his family, so it is difficult to guarantee that he will be wholeheartedly devoted to you, what if one day he also wants to regain his youth?

    Besides, it is not easy to reunite the already fragmented relationship.

    It is recommended to divide it decisively and be yourself. Falling out of love is not necessarily a bad thing, it can make you see a lot of things.

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-13

    1. Marital happiness is your own, follow your feelings. The reason why you will break up, I think the biggest reason is that when dealing with emotional problems, you always don't know how to compromise, always have a lofty attitude, no matter right or wrong, never admit your mistakes, and he always "kneels" for you to make peace, as a human being, dignity can not withstand the destruction for a long time, emotionally he loves you very much, but from the dignity may be more to escape you, as long as the two of you do not spread out the cause of the problem, it is difficult for the relationship to continue, and now there is a relatively gentle third party, It's really not good for your situation, but from the perspective of personal feelings, it is recommended that you travel alone for a period of time, relax and relax, and then face the problem calmly after you come back, 2, parents always want their children to be happy, as long as you explain your pain clearly, you will generally understand, whose parents want their children to live in hatred and misfortune? It is very difficult for divorced people to find a home again, because divorce will bring shadows, and there will be more fear or timidity about marriage! As a result, you can't face and deal with feelings correctly, which will affect you for a lifetime.

    Therefore, I hope you put aside the feelings of your parents first, and your own choice is the most important and important.

  27. Anonymous users2024-01-12

    It's terrible for a boy who doesn't have an opinion, and besides, he is still determined to be friends with that woman and resolutely supports breaking up!

  28. Anonymous users2024-01-11

    Your feelings matter! Maybe parents pay more attention to all kinds of things in real life!

    If the foundation is not strong, it is easy to fail.

  29. Anonymous users2024-01-10

    Break up decisively. That's it before marriage? How to protect you after marriage?

    Stand your ground for your own well-being. You can explain your difficulties and struggles to your parents, and they will generally understand it. Could it be that you don't want to get married, and they will tie you up?

    Stick to your own position, this kind of thing, a woman only once in a lifetime.

  30. Anonymous users2024-01-09

    You can talk to your boyfriend well, tell her directly that you don't like him to have an affair with that girl, can't accept them to be good friends, let your boyfriend control the degree of doing things, if he loves you very much and cares about you, he will be considerate of you, even if he is a boy who doesn't know how to reject people, you must learn to protect your girlfriend from harm, instead of defending others and wronging your girlfriend. After you talk to him, figure out what his feelings are for you, and then carefully consider whether to continue to be together, otherwise you will be reluctantly together, and there will be problems in the future, I wish you to find the right person for you.

  31. Anonymous users2024-01-08

    In fact, what you said is quite right, I think you should be very filial, you can make mistakes emotionally, but marriage is not good, you are now planning to get married, in fact, in this case, only ask your own heart, calm down and think about it, do you want to be a good girl, or your own happy life, now you have adopted the advice given to you by others, maybe you will regret it later. What you need most now is to take it easy and decompress yourself

  32. Anonymous users2024-01-07

    If you love him, don't give up, take a gamble.

  33. Anonymous users2024-01-06

    I just want to ask you, do you still love him? If you don't love, don't force it, don't give up if you love, otherwise you can only add troubles to yourself, and you can see if you feel it when you are not together!

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