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You should ask him what he thinks.
There are no further plans.
If his idea is to take one step at a time, in the end it really can't be broken up.
I advise you to leave him, for it will delay you.
If he loves you very much.
You love him very much, too.
I'm sure you'll overcome it all together.
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Judging from your boyfriend's reaction, he should be the kind of person who listens to his parents very much, this kind of man really can't be married, I have several friends who have similar invitations to you, and I feel shocked after witnessing their lives. You must know that love is not only about flowers, but also about family life and interpersonal relationships, which are important factors that determine your marriage! It's better to let it go, his family already has this attitude, and he won't be happy after getting married.
They will feel that you are not worthy of their son, and even if you are married, they will feel that you are married to their son as a blessing in your life, a favor from their family, plus buying a house and so on. Then you will have to live in the shadow of their home for the rest of your life. They will also feel that your family is climbing them.
Reconsider your relationship, a marriage that doesn't have the blessing of your parents won't be happy.
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If you don't have that, you will be scattered, otherwise you won't be happy after marriage.
If that, and you really love each other, especially if he loves you, hurry up and get pregnant, and resolutely don't **, pretend not to take care of their family, don't use pregnancy to stalk, they will surrender. Give you a step, and you'll go down the slope to the donkey.
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First of all, I feel that he is too weak, he should introduce you to his parents and talk more about your strengths, so as to know whether he likes you or not, they can all be changed, which can only show that he was persuaded by his parents that he was a little shaken, otherwise it would be impossible to break up on the same day.
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Parents are against it, and it's out of the picture.
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If the boyfriend's parents are against the two of you falling in love, of course, you need to know the reason first, then some parents may choose one for their son, they think it is better, and then they are worthy of or a good girl like this, maybe they will feel that you are not worthy of his son, if it is because they look down on you and don't let you fall in love, I think this kind of relationship should end as soon as possible.
Or if your boyfriend loves you enough, then he still wants to continue to fall in love with you, then you have to use your own actions to conquer his parents, because if you are reluctantly together, even if you get married, then the man's parents' attitude towards you will not change, and you will become very tired at that time.
Just like in TV dramas, everyone often sees some plots, such as the man finds a girl he really likes, but he is always not blessed by his mother, because the man's mother has found a woman who she thinks is worthy of her son, but she forgot to ask if her son likes it.
Of course, marriage is a matter of two people, it depends on whether your love is firm, after all, it is not blessed by your parents to be in love or marriage, in fact, it is quite difficult, this may be a difficult journey, you need the two of you to work together to resolve this situation with your own actions.
As a girlfriend, it is definitely impossible for you to confront his parents head-on, which is actually a very important factor, that is, what is your boyfriend's mind, is a filial child who obeys his parents, or a man who will have his own opinions.
If your boyfriend doesn't fall in love with you because of his parents' opposition, then you must stay away from such a mom boy, and you won't even have an upright three views of your love to treat, then you will have a hard time, of course, this doesn't mean that he wants to quarrel with his parents, or whatever, just that he should use his own way to persuade his parents and really ask for their consent.
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You can behave a little better, try to increase the other party's parents' good impression of you, and your parents will slowly accept it after a long time.
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You need to be brave and persevere, so that your parents can see your determination, you have to behave well, understand you so that your parents will accept it.
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It is difficult to achieve happiness in a relationship that is not approved by the parents. Your boyfriend's parents are against you and you should let your boyfriend do the work on his own. Otherwise, you won't be happy.
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As long as the boy's love for you is sincere, he should have his own principles. He can protect you and has the ability to solve the affairs of his own family. Then you can hold yourself to love.
If a boy can't solve the problem of his parents, he can talk about feelings there, and he shouldn't be worthy of your love.
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I think it all depends on whether you can resist the pressure yourself, and if you can't, you can only break up.
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If the man's parents are against our love, at this time take a look at why their parents do this, whether they feel that they are not good enough, or that they are not worthy, if the two people love each other very much, they should explain it like this.
Silly girl, you shouldn't have done it at the time, do you know how much damage it did to your body! Poor child. I understand your current situation, in fact, there is nothing disgraceful about your matter, you should not be too inferior, since it has happened, it should not be your responsibility alone, I think first of all, the man should bear the main responsibility. >>>More
Personally, I think it's better to break up directly.
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Stick to your principles while being able to support yourself. For such a big person, the opinions of parents are very important, but the decision is still in our own hands.
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Well, it's up to you whether this question is worth it or not, as long as you love him, why care so much. >>>More