It s not clear if I should love him, it s not clear if I love her

On the one hand, your girlfriend is not self-reliant enough, if she is a very assertive and modern white-collar woman, then she will not care too much about the man's economic conditions, the money she earns to support herself, do not rely on the man, and at the same time can continue the relationship with the man. From this point of view, instead of raising a daughter in the future, it is better to find a partner with whom you share your career and life.

On the other hand, your temptation for your girlfriend is also wrong. And very wrong. According to this logic, does the world's richest man ask his daughter-in-law to recruit a son-in-law to let them pretend to be poor and live in the slums?

People grow up are more realistic, as they grow older, girls will be nervous, the so-called "women are afraid of marrying the wrong man", she is still in a better family condition, but after getting along with you for four or five years, you are still the same, she knows the truth of "poor couples mourn", so she has not gotten your commitment to get along with you for four or five years, and sees your potential, and in fact, with her strength and ability to find a better home, why not? And I admire the two of you very much, she can be with you for four or five years, which shows that she cares about you very much, and at the same time you have been hiding from her during this period that you are a little rich, you are really calm, I think you are very sensitive, worried that girls will take a fancy to your money. But a girl who has been with you for four or five years, you can't be honest with her, so how long can you test someone?

How many four or five years can a woman, even a man, have to waste?

Finally, I want to say, if I were that girl, I would leave you without hesitation, because you have not been honest enough and wasted four or five years of affection, even if you are a millionaire, money can't buy real feelings, I have already been hurt in this relationship, so why pretend to continue to be nice to you? It is recommended that you take a good look at your feelings, not whether you should love her, but whether you have the courage to spend your life with her, the more you worry about others taking a fancy to your money and being nice to you, the easier it is for you to miss the right person.

So, you're missing out on a nice girl! Good luck!

Friend, I support you not to tell her, because when a woman doesn't love you, she will measure you with money, why bother? I just broke up a few days ago, and I was reluctant at that time, and then I slowly didn't want her to feel that there was nothing to pull, you have to know that her greedy character was exposed....Imagine that you want a woman who understands that you care about you, not a woman who puts money first.

You need to ask your girlfriend if she loves you or not, this is the most important thing, every girl will think about the family, then they will be happy! If she doesn't love you, don't say anything, if she loves you, you can tell her the truth!

Well, I think it's better for you guys to break up.

After all, this situation also makes it clear that she is just a money worshipper.

So even if you reconcile, I don't think you're going to be going to last long.

Well. So the decision is still up to you, make your own decisions! I'm just analyzing it for you.

Most people from civil service backgrounds are snobbish.

Even if you have money, maybe your parents will dislike you as a nouveau riche or something, and find fault with you for having no social status and no ......education

It's better to divide it This kind of girl values money more than love.

Upstairs all said to break up

Actually, I also think I need to break it up

She puts money first, doesn't think about other people's feelings, and doesn't deserve your love

Actually, you can find a better one

Really if you're telling the truth

You can find a very beautiful, virtuous, gentle, and considerate woman, hey, envy....

That's right. My personal opinion.

You can tell her if she still breaks up.

You should be waiting for her to chase her.

If she doesn't break up again right away, then the person who said the breakup should be you.

She has her own problems, and you shouldn't hide it from her.

Your girlfriend is a money worshipper.

I thought about it myself.

If you want to love, you love, if you don't want to love, don't love

Good evening, dear, according to your description, if you have any of the following behaviors, it means that you don't really love her: 1. You don't want to introduce her to those who are more important to you Friends and family are important. If you don't want to introduce your boyfriend to them, or if you don't want him to be around when you're with family and friends, or if you don't care what your family and friends think of him.

At this time, you should think carefully about whether you should end the relationship. 2. You don't care if he goes out with other women If you usually go out with other women and you don't care, it means that you don't care if he really likes you, because you don't have much interest in him. If you like someone, you will want to see only you in his eyes, and hope that you can get all his attention, although sometimes it will make you lose yourself, but this is really a helpless thing.

3. Often make excuses not to meet with him You are at home with nothing to do, and then you receive a text message from him: "Come and meet :)" or something like that.

Even though you're bored and don't have pajamas or a TV show you want to watch, your reply is, "Sorry, you can't go," and it's better for both parties to cut it off as soon as possible.

I'm a sophomore now and have someone I love.

In fact, I was just like you when I first started, I didn't know if I really loved him, and I was very confused. But now I know I love him.

I think about him all the time, really all the time, he's like growing in my head.

I can see his strengths, I can also see his shortcomings, although I don't like his shortcomings, but I know that it is him, the real him, and can tolerate it as his characteristics (of course, if his shortcomings are very bad, not good for his life, I will try my best to use love to bring him back to the right path), and I have not thought of asking him to change for me, I respect him and want him to be himself, because I love him, the real him, not the person I imagined. I know that there are many, many people who are better than him, but in my heart he is the only one, and no one can replace him.

Love him, I now feel that only the happiness he gives is the happiest, the pain he gives is the most painful, he gives not only happiness, but also a lot of pain, despite this, I don't want to give up, because I know that everything is because of love, and I am trying"People who love each other should be together".

Love Him and you will feel lost in yourself, but you are still willing to continue. There are some feelings that you think only he can give you, and he may not be strong, but in his gaze and in his arms you feel really safe.

When you see him hurt, you will feel more pain, you will be happier than him when you see him happy, and he doesn't care about you but is nervous.

The love in my heart is loyal and unique, I belong only to him, and I want him to belong only to me. The thought of him hugging other women in the future makes my heart ache, but if there really is such a day, I will give him my most sincere wishes? : May he be happy forever!

Love is a feeling, it doesn't need too many words, even if there is a language, it is a language that only you and your other can read, and at that moment, the whole world is him. Even if you hold hands, you will feel the warm current he gives you, spreading to the bottom of your heart.

Let me tell me what I think, I don't know if it's correct? You think about him when you're lonely, and you think about him when there's no one around to talk to. Because you don't have anyone else in your heart, your feelings are pinned on him, just a temporary sustenance of feelings, but after seeing him, you will feel a lot of his shortcomings, and you will be annoyed.

Because his shortcomings make you unacceptable.

From a psychological point of view, you don't really love him, to put it mildly, he is nothing more than a partner when you are lonely. Think about it: if you were married, would you still miss him if you were together every day?

Isn't it annoying every day, you haven't really found your other half, if you find it, when you don't see your real lover, you will think very much, you will be very happy when you are together, and you will not be annoyed!

I think it's good for you to be friends, but it's hard to be friends if you already have a relationship. It's an ordeal for both of them! If you think about it and can't come together, just break up!Friends don't have to do it either.

Let's make a miss a miss. How many things are that individuals can't turn the tide, and it's not that everything is done by one's own thoughts.

Even if you still love him, don't go to him.

If there are no regrets, how can it be unforgettable.

If you really go to him and associate with him, you will find that it is not as good as you thought at the beginning, and it will be too late to regret it.

Let the missing become a memory. Don't think about it.

You're right, that's what you have to miss out on in life.

Like you, too, I missed him, and I think it's a regret that I will never be able to make up for in my life.

To miss is to miss. Heaven will not give us a second chance.

Even if we are together again, it is not as good as we imagined.

Sadly, we don't care when they love us the most, and when we want to love them the most, they don't love us anymore.

It can only be said that everything did not come at the right time.

I can finally understand what it is, fate is inseparable.

After a long time, you will forget, and you will meet the person you want to love again. It's just that when I think of him from the past, I still have a faint pain in my heart.

There is no way, life is like this. Maybe it's a little regrettable, but it's complete.

There is no love and no love.

In fact, there are 1,000 people in a city who are suitable for themselves.

Meaning to tell you; Maybe you reconciled with him and lived happily ever after.

Maybe you know someone else and live a similar life.

You don't know until you try it. Understandable.

When it is broken, it is broken. Judging by what you added. Even if you reconcile, the relationship will definitely be different from the past, and it has deteriorated. Let's find a good relationship and manage it again. Don't miss it...

Well, in life, there will always be such and such regrets, many of them are like this after a breakup, as long as it is not because of betrayal or some unforgivable mistake that leads to a breakup, many of them will want to recover, I don't know if it's love, but my choice is to cherish that beauty in my heart for a lifetime! Rather than breaking up again for unknown reasons in the future, I would rather cherish that memory forever and remember it occasionally!

You love him, but now he is not the same person he used to be Your sister saw him say that we are not suitable I advise you to let go as soon as possible I will meet someone I like again.

I think you can tell him by now that you still can't forget him. Hopefully he will give you a chance.

If he doesn't want to, then forget it, you can try to accept others, maybe there will be better people.

Send a text: "I want to be your girlfriend again, is that okay?" This is the last time I ask you this, if you don't reply or don't answer me I'll die of this distraction! "Straight to the point!

You still have feelings for him in your heart.

In a word, understanding what is lost is the best.

Once you're together again, it's a paradox that it's boring again.

People who like you: Watching you online in the middle of the night will drive you offline.

Someone who likes you: He says things that care about you, but usually seem like a command.

Someone who likes you: He will help you distinguish between right and wrong, but you will feel that he is too much to control.

Someone who likes you: He can only assure you that he is the happiest when you are with him.

Someone who likes you: When you are sick, he will care about you and force you to go to the doctor.

Someone who likes you: He cares about your every move, tells you what is wrong, what to do, and how to relate to others.

People who like you: he will help you buy supper, but will remind you what is healthier; He will give you a ride to and from class or to work, but usually by the way; Because he won't skip classes or work for your sake. For he knows that he will work for your future.

People who like you: They care a lot about what you do and who you associate with. He will also warn you not to associate with anyone.

Someone who likes you: He has foreseen the future, how to work himself, and give you happiness.

Someone who likes you: He will say "I love you".