Friends who have broken up and reunited come to help, kneeling and begging for a way to save love.

Wow.. The woman spoke to her heart. It's amazing. My temper is the same as mine,,, I can't see the future, I can't see hope, what's the use of that, it's not that I can't let go,。。

You haven't grown up, you love him, but you haven't grown up, it's still the same as before, you just work hard to create her future, give her hope、,, it's simple to say, when you do it, it's so difficult, work hard.

Brothers! Don't feel bad! I'm just like you, it's just that I'm more stressed than you! If you were replaced by me, you would go crazy! Really, my girlfriend is such a fucking thing! Because I'm from the Northeast.

She doesn't have faith in you, understand?! Find the reason in you, I'm sure, she'll figure it out!

Mine is in Zhengzhou, and I am ,...... Hulunbuir, Inner MongoliaWe're very similar, listen to me, you can't be wrong to listen!

You give up! There is never such a thing as a relationship that can never be turned back. Even if you look back, what you get is not the same as her.

First, accept the breakup first, if you think about the breakup all day long, sadness will easily cause emotional loss of control, leading to doing something that is not conducive to your own recovery, stalking will continue to put pressure on the other party, then it will only make the other party more psychologically negative you, thinking that the breakup is right, it will only make it more difficult to recover.

The only criterion for happiness is to stay away from negative energy, solve it when you have negative energy, help others solve it when they have negative energy, and stay away from others if they really can't help.

Reflect on why you broke up.

2. Make some changes.

After a breakup, many people will regret that it is their fault for not cherishing each other well, causing the other party to break up with them, and they regret it while thinking about redeeming it. In fact, the best way to win back the other party is to make the other party feel regretful.

Let him regret it, make him feel that his decision to break up with you is wrong, he will want to be with you again, and your redemption will be successful. So after a breakup, what can you do to make the other party regret it?

Self-improvement and show your personal charm. Conduct self-improvement, reflect on your own shortcomings, and then improve them. If you are not confident in your appearance, you should improve your appearance, exercise more, and learn to dress up. Let the other person feel the next time they see you.

3. Get along like ordinary friends.

If you really want to redeem the other party, then, if the other party is still willing to be ordinary friends with you after the breakup, you should accept it generously; If the other person is not willing to be an ordinary friend with you, you should also try to maintain a normal friend relationship with the other party. Why do you want to be ordinary friends with each other after a breakup?

Because, if the other party is still willing to be an ordinary friend with you after the breakup, it means that you have a good chance of recovering him.

If there is connection, there will be hope, and he has opened a back door for you—the window of connection, and it's up to you to push it open and walk in.

Feelings are such a thing, cut and straightened out and messy, and no one can forget another person casually.

He broke up with you, maybe not because he didn't love you anymore, but because he couldn't find a reason to continue. Because it's always too easy to fall in love and too difficult to get along.

There are thousands of reasons for a breakup, and you all have to stand far away to see the truth. And as the saying goes, distance produces beauty, so there is nothing wrong with temporarily returning to the position of ordinary friends, but you can give love a vacation, let yourself go back to the furnace for further study, and then re-attract each other.

Retrieving love is actually a process of dealing with grievances, many people have a chance to redeem success when they break up, before I searched for love information when I read a real case to help me a lot, the article is called: Forty days to successfully save the boyfriend experience, you can also search to see if it helps.

To be honest, the teacher is most afraid of encountering the kind of "only know to cherish when you lose", because in the process of not cherishing before, you have already hurt the other party severely, so that the other party has very serious negative emotions, and such negative emotions are often the most difficult to eliminate. For example, if you crumple a blank piece of paper, no matter how hard you work and how hard you put your heart, it will always have wrinkles, and it will not be possible to change back to its original flat appearance.

Therefore, this kind of recovery is actually relatively difficult, and it takes a lot of time to let the other party forget these injuries.

Love is a process of running in with each other, two people get along with each other, understanding is essential, if you really want to redeem you can go straight to the hundred (Wang Lingling's successful redemption experience) Wang Lingling's successful redemption experience draws on the recovery process inside, I wish you an early redemption of love, come on!

If you want to redeem it, here are a few suggestions for you:

1. Don't redeem for the sake of redemption.

Do anything, do not take recovery as the ultimate goal, otherwise you will have a strong sense of purpose in the process of operation, and it is easy to make some radical behaviors.

2. Learn to manage emotions.

In this relationship, the other party has been hurt a lot, and your bad mood has a great impact on the other party, so as soon as you leave, it is likely that you can't wait to block it.

It is recommended to learn to manage emotions:

Learn to deal with your tone and intonation, don't be rushed;

Pay attention to expression, not submissive expression, but correct expression, and do not make people feel "thorny" in their speech and make the other person feel uncomfortable.

3. Circle of friends construction.

Concentrate on building your own value, you can post some original information related to life in the circle of friends, not too much, just two or three days a day. Put more ** in your life, try to be clean and tidy, it can be the book you have been reading recently, it can be the reading experience, it can be a hearty dinner. See if the other person will like or reply.

Let the other person feel that you have changed, for the better.

The other person has been hurt in the relationship, and it may take some time to calm down these emotions or start a new relationship, but in any case, do not have sarcastic, yin and yang weird behavior and language, and at the same time reduce your own needs, otherwise, it will be difficult to recover.

If you jump out of your current state, do you want to be with her.

She has become full of freckles and wrinkles, has a fat body, has a three-layer swimming ring, and has a greasy face on top of it, will you still like her?

Was she helpful to you?

Is her personality really what you like?

Basically, the first item is enough to pass 99% of the people, not that the other party will necessarily become such a person, but I hope you understand that a big reason why you like her is her appearance, and appearance is a replaceable thing.

So, don't treat her as the only one from now on, and live and die all day long.

It depends on your specific situation, what caused the breakup, whether the other party has a new partner, your previous conflicts, what is the relationship foundation, etc., after determining that these beliefs contain the necessary conditions for you to recover, you can see if there is a chance to get back together, and the plan and time that need to be implemented for the reunion. A look at the SLM emotion repair model will inspire you.

I think it's very difficult to get back in love, especially after both of you have broken up, and I really don't know what to do.

From time to time, shush the cold and ask for warmth! Pursue it step by step.

First of all, you must analyze the occurrence of your marital emotional problems, and then formulate a rescue plan according to the detailed analysis of the situation, which can help save the marriage in practice

Find Master Cai Tengfeng to use the harmony technique.

If you want to redeem your love, then you need to give your sincerity, only in this way is it possible.

Reduce demand, rebuild secondary attraction and build your circle of friends.

The relationship after you break up is a kind of ordinary friend, if you want to win back the other person, you don't want the other person to hate you more, the best thing is to reduce your desire to compound with the other person.

Rebuild the second attraction, many people break up, it must be two people who are disappointed in each other, facing a person full of shortcomings, they really can't accept it, they really can't see a happy future, and they just see endless gray memories.

If you want to get back together, you need to do a good job of your own circle of friends business card, give yourself a circle of friends, and make a setting Although you are out of love, you are very motivated.

Now that you haven't been in touch for so long, if the other party's attitude towards you is also very cold, the chance of saving this relationship is very low.

You can redeem the other party after the breakup, but the best way is to let yourself help you redeem it, not everyone can redeem it, such a thing.

When you break up, don't ask for help, because if you can't get along, you will break up.

There are many ways to break up and save each other, in the right way with the right method, in fact, it is easy to redeem, the most afraid is that some people don't know how to redeem, stalking, so that this relationship is completely useless, and the heart and emotion will talk about how to redeem the other half today

If the other person breaks up with you because of your personality and makes him feel that you are not suitable, then your personality should be masked by some other reason, and that is to make your personality reasonable. For example, he thinks you have a strong sense of possessiveness. Then you can tell him why you have become insecure and possessive.

The reason for this is to let him know your personality and you should let him know that you are aware of this and willing to change. Everyone has secrets and inner weaknesses, even in intimate relationships. If the other person is a person who is particularly afraid of trouble and stress, the best way to recover is to apply indirect pressure.

If the other person is a goal-oriented and stubborn person, the best thing to do is to take a step back and try to soften the other person's emotions. Instead of sticking to it. Be tough on each other.

Your attitude is very important in the process of redemption. Perhaps your angry words will push your relationship to the point of no return. There is no way to do any redemption in a simple chat, and put it into the actual event.

It is only when we have actual communication and contact that we can completely pull the other person back to a familiar feeling.

The two of you are too impulsive, so you should take the initiative to admit your mistake and tell him why I did this in the first place, so that the girl will be moved.

When a man gets his girlfriend back, he always thinks that saving is to get rid of those things that she can't bear, such as always caring about her, such as not caring enough about her before, such as not being generous enough to her before. Even some men who have gone through many separations and still have this idea.

But is it really a simple matter of solving those superficial things? Still like after a cold war or quarrel in love, saying nice things and doing some romantic actions can repair the relationship?

You forget that the breakup is the result of the inability of the two to get along, and the reunion is the result of the mutual attraction of the two. If you can change the way you get along when you haven't broken up, you probably won't break up; But people who have broken up and want to attract each other, it is definitely not a change in the way they get along. Therefore, redemption is to carry out in-depth improvement, and at the same time change the way of getting along, carry out the secondary attraction process.

In fact, as long as you want to redeem the situation, I think the best problem is to express to him directly that you really like him or this kind of love for him.

If you want to redeem, you must first meet, express your sincerity and correct your mistakes, do more touching things to influence each other every day, and give each other more small surprises and small touches.

Break up and redeem, ask for help, since you broke up so decisively, there must be a particularly big contradiction, if this contradiction does not disappear, it is useless for you to redeem it.

This kind of redemption, I hope you use sincerity, generally a girl is to impress her with sincerity, she will feel your happiness and happiness.

You definitely have to redeem him, and if you can't really redeem him, you have to ask your friends to help you redeem him.

If you want to redeem it, go to a lover agency to help and see if you can redeem it.

If you want to redeem a breakup, first show yourself well and let your friends know that you are good.

If you want to redeem yourself, you have to pay your sincerity, if you don't have sincerity, the other party will not be able to accept you, so you must tell him well.

First of all, you must think who was wrong at the time, if he was wrong. I don't think you need to chase her back, if you're wrong, start with your wrong side, and then slowly make amends.

I think it's like this now, and to be honest, the chances of you getting it back are really gone. The other party really doesn't like you anymore.

You can add him back first, and then I ask him how he's doing, if he has a boyfriend or girlfriend or something.

There must be a reason for your breakup, you now, I actually don't have any meaning, you should ask him the reason, if it is some problems that you can't solve, then you can only break up, because the same problems will occur together, tormenting each other.

If he hasn't found a friend yet, I think you can go to him. You two have a good conversation.