Can a marriage that is often separated from each other be happy?

I have the same life experience as you, I think the more we are not together, the more we must trust each other, and we must understand that the separation between the two places is also for your common little family! Idleness is not the same as emptiness, idleness is a state of life, emptiness is a psychological state, if you always feel that space emptiness is actually a mental illness.

It's not worth it, there are two reasons to refer to:

1. There will be problems in marriage, which are divided into 3 aspects

1. Physical and mental harm: Sex is a normal human need and the most basic part of maintaining the relationship between husband and wife. And separation, it means that two people have to endure, which is harmful to both people's body and mind, and will affect their emotions and mentality.

2. Emotional alienation: No matter how convenient the network is, it can't replace face-to-face communication, because feelings can't be transmitted through the network cable. An unintentional word will make the other party feel cold and stiff, but the other party can't feel it, and in the end the relationship will be estranged.

3. Intensify conflicts: It is inevitable that husbands and wives will have misunderstandings and contradictions, but because they live in two places, it is difficult to solve the problem in time, and it is easy to cause greater misunderstandings and contradictions.

Second, it is difficult to make money without purity

In the long run, once intimacy.

If something goes wrong, people can't make money.

If the two places are separated, they will not be nourished by the sense of family affection, and people's emotions, states, and thinking will be affected.

And while thinking about home, but can't go back, I have to work, but no one takes care of me, double pressure, I can't concentrate on my career at all; So, if you want to make money, you must first have love. If you have a home, you can be rich and rich.

I amZhou Xiaopeng, oneMarital Emotional Counselor.

In marriage, some couples often live separately, in fact, this situation must be because of work, either because the woman will take care of the children in her hometown and take care of the elderly, and then the man will go out to work, or the husband and wife both have their own good careers, but they are in different places.

If the husband and wife both work in different places, and both will not give up their jobs, in fact, it means that the two people may be more career-oriented, and this situation must be childless, because there will be a bond when there are children, unless the two people have better economic conditions, they may hire a nanny, so that family and work can get a balance.

In addition, there are a lot of jobs now, and some people may travel frequently, and even most of the month may be in other places, so this situation has caused the separation of the two places.

After all, two people are seeing each other every day, and sometimes they can't get used to each other's small problems, and some friction will occur between two people, and some people say that the separation of the two places is the culprit that leads to these divorces or extramarital affairs.

But husband and wife must trust each other, and to be tolerant, I think the culprit is not because two people are separated, but that there are some problems between the husband and wife themselves, or there is no trust at all, they will be suspicious of each other, and this suspicion will make the other party particularly old-fashioned, and then meet a woman who is empathetic and beautiful and generous and understands herself, at this time it is very easy to throw herself into the arms of others. <>

So I think the situation of separation in marriage is not very special, but husband and wife must remember to call, this most important contact is necessary, even if there is no time to call, it is definitely necessary to send a message to call, even if it is not together, it is necessary to give each other some care, so that the other party feels that he is not alone.

There are many situations in which two people are separated in marriage. For example, if both parents are not in the same place, and the parents need to be taken care of, then the husband and wife will live separately. If the work requires one party to travel for a long time, then the two places need to live separately.

After the husband and wife get married, the reason why the two places are separated is mainly because of work. Although many couples are married, one of them is in a foreign country, so it is easy for two people to separate after marriage.

I think this is because some couples live apart in order to have a better income or to have a better space for development.

This is because after getting married, two people will choose to separate for work reasons or family reasons, but this is also a helpless move.

This is because of work or because of the child's schooling.

As long as two people's hearts are together, the distance will only make each other love each other more, and the distance will be very happy.

People who truly love each other will trust each other and be loyal to each other even if they are in a different place; People who don't love each other, even if they meet every day, will be suspicious. The most important thing depends on how the two treat this marriage, and if they manage it well, they will definitely be very happy.

Many people are still separated from each other even after getting married because of their work, which is a huge test for themselves and this marriage.

How to deal with long-distance life after marriage:

1. Create opportunities for reunions.

Although they have to be separated for their own work, they can find ways to meet often, such as every weekend, holiday and free time, they can go to each other's cities to see each other's lives, although they can't get along every day, but they can maintain the freshness between husband and wife.

If the two are far away, they can agree to have a ** call at a fixed time every night to talk about what is happening around them, and these topics can bring each other closer.

3. Give the other party enough security.

No matter whether it is a big or small matter, you can report to the other party, reply to the other party's news and ** in time, and give the other party a sufficient sense of security, especially women are more likely to think too much, so men must pay more attention.

The two did not live together after they got married, and the inevitable problems were: helpless loneliness, nothing to talk about, and the problem of physical and mental exhaustion of the two. But these all depend on whether the two want to live a good life, so as long as the two of them have the right mentality, a problem will be solved.

Where there is love, there is meaning.

01. Improve the quality of communication between the two parties.

The premise of communication should be that both parties have the intention of exchanging the shape of the dust. Because it is a different place, it may be difficult for both parties to have a suitable communication opportunity, and the communication time will be limited. Communication after marriage is different from communication before marriage.

Marriage involves more practical issues such as the upbringing of children, the relationship between the parents, and family expenses. If you constantly talk about trivial things, it is easy for the other person to lose the desire to communicate with you. In this case, we need to improve the level of communication and create a relaxed and comfortable communication environment.

02. Long-term separation between the two places will inevitably produce the following three problems.

1.Psychological and physical torture, there is no way to describe the suffering.

2.The loss of affection and trust, the affection is not connected.

3.The other half has betrayed and cannot be unredeemed.

The above three situations, I think couples who have been separated for a long time can empathize, especially the third point, which is what many couples are most worried about, after all, the two places are separated, thousands of miles apart from each other, the state is that you are busy with yours, I am busy with mine, and you can't communicate in time when you encounter problems, and you don't know what the other party is doing, and betrayal is also very easy.