What to look at those who swear? How to deal with people who swear properly?

We are more common in this kind of people's life, personal feelings are determined by personality and social experience, generally embodied in young people, acute children speak without considering the consequences, we sometimes encounter unpleasant things in our life and work, some people are more impatient, the so-called young and vigorous, easy to gamble, speak by their own mood, easy to make themselves regret things, there is a type of people, poor reading grades, belongs to the problem of talent, his logical thinking is not fast, in some business fields, some parties face. Some small details he can't understand, he will say or do embarrassing things, those who are older, after all, have more social experience, have seen more things, will be more experienced in coping, not easy to get angry, according to their past experience, properly handled.

There are such middle-aged people around me, who speak so foul language every day, scolding people viciously**, others don't like her when they speak, they scold when they open their mouths, and turn out the three generations of their ancestors. Either she is treacherous and mean, either digging people up, or beating people, as if no one in the world is as good as her. We ignore this kind of person, she says her, no one answers to her, she is the most rubbish person I have ever seen, please the boss, even the boss's dog she respectfully smiles and greets some ordinary employees, not that this is not good or that is not good, in fact, she is a cook in the kitchen, although what she says is like a fart she has, she can't hit people but disgusting people.

I wish there were fewer such people in the world.

It is difficult to change the way a person speaks since childhood, and she is happy to use foul language, with everyone except the boss. She thought a lot of people liked to hear it. Foul language can be ignored and not responded.

In the face of such a person, it is better to reprimand him than to tell him. That is, he may not be aware of his language mistakes, and you remind him tactfully at this point.

If it is an entertainment occasion, everyone is in a happy and entertaining attitude, then you will laugh at what you say without intention, but your brain will be laughed at as entertainment. After all, it won't cause any bad results, and the biggest damage is just discomfort in the heart. But if it's on business, it's a different story, because your brain is dissatisfying the customer, because your brain is damaging the collective interest, because your brain is stirring up trouble.

Then don't blame me for being ruthless and disgrace you after you've finished talking in your mind.

Let's talk about dividing people first, if this person is my junior, I will be more tolerant, and get by in line with the principle of childish words. If it is really excessive, I would like to mention a few words in the spirit of friendship. If it's someone my age or older than me, then I try to stay away from it, can't I hide if I can't be provoked?

This kind of person who can't even control his language well, aren't you finding fault for yourself when you fight with them? Besides, they didn't mean to say it for a while, they won't have the slightest ripple in their hearts, and you're half dead here, it's not worth the loss.

We can only ignore the fact that these people have lost the great traditional etiquette of the Chinese nation, and they can't even do the most basic things well.

There is a woman in our unit, who has not recuperated at all and always speaks foul language, this is her habit of speaking, and she has a sentence before she speaks, what birds, x, etc. This kind of person is of very low quality, has no culture and knowledge, makes loud noises every day, talks to himself as if no one is around, and does not see the disgusting eyes of others.

If it really doesn't work, you might as well return a tooth for a tooth and let him feel the taste of being scolded. If you still can't move him, mobilize everyone to ignore him. When a person is lonely, he will always think that his words and deeds are wrong.

Psychological pressure is too high, and I hope to solve it by swearing.

I don't have quality, and I think it's trendy to swear.

I got used to it, and I couldn't change it for a while.

I'm okay with ordinary swearing, but I'm angry when it's too ugly.

Summary. One is to keep your distance. For such people, if you can't get in touch, you won't be in touch, if you can talk less, you won't talk less, and if you can't meet, you won't meet.

In short, he deliberately distanced himself and kept his distance, afraid of being polluted, afraid of being taken badly, and afraid of being disliked by others with a foul mouth like him. The second is to control emotions. When you have to get along with these people, you must not be provoked by swear words and return the mouth, you must not respond to anger in front of your face, be calm, calm and calm, keep smiling, no matter what he says, just be unmoved, that is, calm.

The third is to always introspect. I hate people who talk dirty, and I'm afraid of being like that. So I will always introspect myself, remind myself not to swear, and write a diary every night to reflect on my words and deeds, and think about how to express it to make it more comfortable and acceptable to others.

One is to keep your distance. For such people, if you can't get in touch, you won't be in touch, if you can talk less, you won't talk less, and if you can't meet, you won't meet. In short, he deliberately distanced himself and kept his distance, afraid of being polluted, afraid of being taken badly, and afraid of being disliked by others with a foul mouth like him.

The second is to control emotions. When you have to get along with these people, you must not be provoked by swear words and return the mouth, you must not respond to anger in front of your face, be calm, calm and calm, keep smiling, no matter what he says, just be unmoved, that is, calm. The third is to always introspect.

I hate people who talk dirty, and I'm afraid of being like that. So I will always introspect myself, remind myself not to swear, and write a diary every night to reflect on my words and deeds, and think about how to express it to make it more comfortable and acceptable to others.

Fourth, it is pointed out in good faith. For some friends who have a good relationship, I will communicate with him privately and remind him that swearing is uncivilized and should be controlled. Of course, you will definitely pay attention to the way, and you will never hurt the other person's self-esteem, and you must not hit the other person's self-confidence.

Let him be aware of the problem and be willing to correct it.

Swearing is an instinct of people.

Research has shown that humans are born with swear because of the "limbic system" in the brain.

It is the cerebral cortex associated with the cingulate gyrus, hippocampal gyrus, and its vicinity involved in olfactory function. This discovery was first made in 1952 by Dr. McLean of the American Institute of Mental Health.

The limbic system is an important part of the brain that influences and controls emotions, and later American neuroscientists discovered the key frontal lobe system in it.

That is, normally, the outer areas of the brain allow people to remain rational, while the frontal system is responsible for emotions, and human swear words are born in the frontal system area.

Under normal circumstances, the outer regions are responsible for alerting humans that "swearing is bad", thus keeping humans intellectually civilized.

However, when the frontal system of the brain is too emotional, and the outer nerve cells cannot block the violent impact of this emotional nerve current, the swear words will blurt out.

So, if a person's limbic system is damaged, he will have dirty words in every sentence: it's not that I want to curse in every sentence and have dirty words in every sentence, but I really have a damaged brain and a disease.

For another example, in the 80s of the last century, medical staff found in their research that some people with limbic system damage had mental disorders, and they could not control themselves at all when they suffered from delusion, and the swear words were gushing like water bursting the embankment.

People who often swear have two personalities.

Born to be arrogant and unreasonable. One of my classmates is such a character, which is inherited from Dongpai. His father and grandfather were all scolding.

The peasants call this kind of person who scolds when he opens his mouth and beats when he raises his hand is called a "dog"! I think it's the environment. When they were in the first grade of primary school, their family bought Nahuaixian color televisions, while most people did not have black and white televisions.

After my family bought a TV, I realized that everything he did was learned from those movies. And those swear words that we people here don't say.

Born with a fragile shirt. These people are relatively timid, and they are bullied by others. When dueling with others, "scolding" is the main thing, such as Ah Q. They have difficulty venting, and often talk to themselves and curse.