How to be a personal and beloved old man

When a person is seen and loved, it is not something he can deliberately shape. Although there are very few such people (some people think that there are no such people), it is already extremely successful to be recognized and liked by more than 80% of the people around you.

First of all, you have to love others, don't look down on other people because they have some shortcomings, no one is perfect.

Be sincere with everyone, even if someone has done you badly, attacked you with words and deeds, it does not mean that the person's words and deeds are correct and effective, it may indicate his ignorance or incompetence, and therefore he needs to be influenced with sincerity.

Everything you do should be done with the consequences in mind, but not with care. Don't be sorry for others' words and deeds, especially don't scold the country, spit on the ground, etc.!This kind of "little thing" often shows the level of a person's personality.

Do what you can, that is, do your job well;Do whatever others need to do, even if it's something that is right and out of your ability, i.e., helpful. Don't do anything that is bad for yourself, bad for society, bad for others, that is, don't do bad things.

insist on being a good person, so you are the person everyone loves. Although it is difficult to do, it can definitely be done!

1. Remember your age.

Being old is not a cost. Everything is worth a little in these years, but years are not worth much.

Don't have so many "shoulds" or "shouldn'ts" in your heart. There is nothing wrong with calling you "old man", calling you "old man" is the other party's upbringing. Young people use their strength to take the lead, that is biological instinct. If someone gives you a seat, be sure to say "thank you".

2. Forget the past.

I think that "not everyone likes to listen to it." This is not the time to remember the bittersweet and bitter times, and no one wants to listen to your glorious history and ups and downs.

After all, the times are different, and the wild vegetables you have eaten have now become high-end dishes;You have reclaimed the wasteland, and now you have become the destruction of the ecology. The story of the Red Army boiling a belt to satisfy hunger made young people unable to understand that cooking a belt now is not as economical as stewing a few catties of meat. Therefore, the topic of "thinking about the past" should be stopped in moderation, after all, "back then" is not as practical as "now".

3. Be less nosy.

Be nosy, especially the "gossip" at home. The education of your grandchildren is your child's business, not your responsibility.

Today, it's the era of "Ultraman" and "Big Big Wolf", and you're still talking about "Once upon a time there was a mountain, and there was a temple on the mountain......"That's what you call ruining people! When getting along with children, we must not stop chattering, and we must have a sense of the position of the "CPPCC", which can not be overstepped or misplaced, but must be in place. Take a stand on major events, and don't care if you don't listen.

When your children ask for your opinion, you are respectful, and you should take the initiative to pursue a leisurely life.

First: do not interfere in the life of children, especially the emotional life, now young people are very disgusted with being forced to marry by the elders in the family;

Second: no nagging, no verbosity. For the life of children, it is less to point fingers from the experience of the past, because the social living environment of the older generation and the current younger generation is completely different, and the situation they face is also different, and the experience of the past may not be able to know the life of modern young people.

And young people have their own opinions, and they don't like to listen to the nagging of old people.

Third: Live your own life, love to eat, drink, and do whatever you like. Really don't worry too much about your children, the elderly are happy, which is the greatest comfort for their children. In this way, they are also more motivated to pursue the life they want.

It's hard to be a good person. There are a few people around the music, the family is big, he is the boss, he is against you whatever you say, it depends on you if you are not pleasing to the eye, it is difficult to be a good person, and it is even more difficult to do a person who is loved by everyone!