How does it feel to have someone around you who is messing around?

Since it is said that it is a person around you, it must be someone who usually has more contact and is closer. In this case, you can't avoid contact with him, but after getting along with such a person for a long time, you will be very annoyed. It is said that it is nonsense, and the person who is messing around must be unreasonable.

It's really tiring to get along with an unreasonable person, because he will need you to accommodate him endlessly, and the more you reason with him, the more unreasonable it will be, and sometimes, he understands the reason, but he just wants to find a way to solve the problem that makes him the most satisfied. So no matter how you tell him, how you explain to him, how you reason with him, he won't listen. He's not unreasonable, but he just wants everyone to compromise.

This kind of person is really very selfish, because he doesn't think about other people's feelings when he does things, and he is really tired of getting along.

You can compromise him the first time, the second time, but in the long run you will slowly lose all patience. When you face him next, you will be very irritable, unable to calm down to deal with things related to him, and your emotions will also be significantly fluctuating and affected. But most of the time it is said that it is the person around you, that must not be easily given up, you still have to pick up your patience again and again, to get along with each other, only by facing the problem, can you solve the problem.

To put it bluntly, having such a person around you, you will really feel very annoyed, and sometimes you are so annoyed that you want to give up the friendship with him, but because it is a close person, you have to. Choosing to forgive him again and again, or accommodating him, is really a very helpless thing.

We are always surrounded by all kinds of people, some of whom have deep wisdom. There are some people who are humorous and funny and are our pistachios. There are some people who are cold and ignore us.

There is also a kind of people who are messing around, have to refute everything, and there is no reason to do it, these people really make people very tired. How does it feel when there is such a person around us?

The first thing I felt was that it was very annoying. This kind of person is completely unreasonable when he talks and acts, when he does something that makes you unhappy, ordinary people will reason with him normally, but he doesn't care about this thing at all, and feels that what he did is his business, and it has nothing to do with you. Although this incident indirectly harmed your interests, this person was messing around and resolutely defended that this matter had nothing to do with you.

And this kind of thing is fine once or twice, but if it is too much, it will make people feel very bored with him.

The second feeling is nausea. There is a person around you who is messing around, and when he does something wrong, not only does he not apologize to you, but he insists that he did the right thing. This matter has already harmed your interests, and it is understandable to let someone apologize for harming your interests.

But this person insisted on saying that it was not his fault and resolutely did not apologize. Let us feel his personality from the attitude, and over time we will feel disgusted with this person, and finally stay away from him.

The third is that we will unconsciously stay away from this person. There is no one who wants to get along with someone who is messing around, and who not only does not apologize after doing something wrong, but also feels that it is not their fault. And this person is not reasonable, reversing right and wrong, making it difficult for people to contact him.

Over time, you will get bored with this person and don't like to get along with him. Because of his character, people will unconsciously stay away from him, and it is difficult to get along with him.

I'm so annoyed, I really want to kick her into outer space!

I don't have such a person around me, but my girlfriend has one by her side, or her so-called "good friend", and she has always stuck to her. I'm with my girlfriend, and I can't help but be angry with her, and the most important thing is that I'm a boy because my girlfriend has to endure it, and I'm really about to explode!

My girlfriend has a roommate who has been together since junior high school, and fate has brought these two similar people together in college. I'm really glad that in the days without me, my girlfriend didn't lack someone to keep me company.

But when I joined the camp next to my girlfriend, this person refused to give in at all, and kept pestering my girlfriend to accompany her in whatever she did. Unfortunately, this girl is very not independent, everything has to be accompanied, once he wanted to go to a place in the school, a few steps away, but insisted that I accompany her, I said I still have something, in fact, I really have something, she is dead or alive do not agree, shouting outside the campus, people are speechless, no choice but to accompany her.

With the sincere prayers of both of us, she finally found a boyfriend. But I didn't expect it to be the beginning of another nightmare, this person is simply too willful, every time he quarrels, his boyfriend has to write a check for her, and once he actually asked for more than 10,000 words, if you don't write, you can't do it! Oh my god, I don't think she's written enough words to write more than 10,000 words since she went to college!

When I quarrel with my boyfriend, I always stick to me, let us accompany her, it won't work if you don't accompany her, it's just to pull you to death, after all, it's not good to be too stiff if you're a friend, so I endure it again and again!

The biggest experience of talking to this person is that you don't argue with her, even if you say she is right to you, otherwise she can choke you to death! is brutal and willful, and at first glance she is pampered at home, and it is a nightmare to bring this habit to people who have nothing to do with her.

Angry for no reason, every once in a while, every other trouble, and the pain that doesn't make sense, they all want me to beat her up, and care about her boys and girls!

I don't like unreasonable people very much, so most of my friends and relatives around me are sensible people, but inevitably there are still unreasonable people who mix into my life. My high school homeroom teacher, Mr. Wang, is a self-righteous and unreasonable person, in his heart, everything he does is right, and we students should listen to him and should not disobey him.

I remember one time, the head of our dormitory had problems with their studies and life recently, and as a teacher, he not only did not help his students out of the predicament, but made his students even more sad. <>

The head of the dormitory was because something happened at home, but it was not easy to tell outsiders, so he didn't say it, and the head teacher suspected that she was in love and affected herself, so she talked to her several times, and forced us to ask, we all explained, and he only recognized his own reasoning.

In the end, the head of the dormitory was forced to cry in the playground. It's really annoying to have such a messy person around, and it should be the best way to treat them if you ignore them.

I feel annoyed, I won't talk to him about anything, I don't want him to participate, and I don't usually communicate with him.

It's going to be very upset, and staying away from these people who are messing around will only make you more irritable.

I once rejected a person, but he still stalked me, I felt that he was very annoying, and he made me very embarrassed by his confession in public, and I really annoyed him, and I wanted to disappear from the earth.

One of my roommates likes to mess around, and I feel very annoyed, so I don't bother if I can.

Unreasonable people speak justifiably, thinking that they are wrong to others, they have no cultivation and quality at all, flying and trekking, and even beating and scolding and hurting others, in the face of such people, we should think of some coping strategies!

1. Persuade the other party to correct their mistakes.

We should pay attention to one point, that is, we must not give up our own ideas, also known as not forgetting our original intention, we can't feel that this problem is tricky, and we can't solve it all at once, so we just give up, we should stick to our own ideas and not give up easily.

2. Try not to rush to the stool head-on.

We should try our best to avoid head-on conflicts with unreasonable people, because there is a saying that Xiucai can't be justified when he meets soldiers, and when he meets unreasonable people, you can only communicate and explain properly in Zheng Zhong and try to persuade as much as possible, but you can't counter violence with violence.

3. You can ask for help from relevant personnel.

If we encounter unreasonable people in our work, we should actively ask for help from our superiors, and if it is a matter of life, we can ask the street, the district police station, etc. to help coordinate and solve it.

4. If the other party is too much, don't swallow it.

We should maintain a correct attitude, because if we condone his unreasonable words, it means that our attitude has been compromised, and his rudeness has triumphed, which can only further fuel his arrogance.

5. It is necessary to stick to your own principles.

If the other party is unreasonable, we should also talk to him about the truth of Zao Congzhou, try to persuade him, and find ways to make him understand through other channels, and correct it in time.

If you really can't do it, you just stay away from people who are right and wrong. We have to judge according to the situation, if this person is something we have to face, we should try to solve it, if it is dispensable, we can also choose to stay away, try to avoid it, and not be disturbed by them.

Some people always seem to be able to ignore facts and logic and show considerable self-confidence and persistence. They don't seem to care about other people's rebuttals and criticisms, and still stick to their own opinions. So why can these people be so confident and justified?

First of all, these people may have a "nihilistic" attitude. They may think that the real world doesn't have any meaning or value, so they won't be limited by facts and logic. Instead, they will choose what they believe in at will, based on their own subjective wishes.

This attitude allows them to deny any factual and logical contradictions without any scruples.

Second, these people may have an overconfident personality. They may be naturally confident and always believe that their abilities and insights are better than others. This self-confidence can make them immune to criticism and Jane's rebuttals, as they believe they can handle any challenge.

In addition, these people may also have a tendency to "cognitive biases". They may distort or distort any information that does not align with their own views in order to conform to their beliefs. This bias allows Li San to build his arguments on the basis of logic and facts, even if they may not be appropriate.

The most vexatious people usually exhibit extremely emotional behavior, such as arguing loudly, crying, or threatening others. They often ignore facts and reason, and only care about their own emotions and needs. They may deny other people's opinions without thinking or overreact to others' criticism.

These people tend to be very attached to their own opinions, constantly repeating their claims and trying to convince others. They may present themselves as victims, or as severely neglected and misunderstood, which often elicits an emotional response from them.

In conclusion, whether they are unreasonable or the most vexatious, they usually exhibit certain unhealthy behaviors and psychological traits. These people may need to think and explore more deeply in order to look at things more rationally and balancedly.

Summary. Let the other person let their guard down. The other party is often very sensitive when it is unreasonable, and has a strong sense of self-protection, so it is best not to be aggressive at this time, but to let the other party know that he is not a "threat", so as to "cool down" the other party's emotions.

How to deal with people who are messing around?

Let the other person let their guard down. The other party is often very sensitive when it is unreasonable, and has a strong sense of self-protection, so it is best not to be aggressive at this time, but to let the other party know that he is not a "threat", so as to "cool down" the other party's emotions.

Stay calm and make good use of "empathy". Empathy generally refers to psychological transposition, which is often referred to as comparing the heart to the heart, that is, putting oneself in the other person's shoes to experience the other person's emotions and cognition, and trying to think from the other person's point of view.

Be positive and live well. Stay away from negative energy.