I was broken up today, I m so sad, what should I do????? 20

Updated on psychology 2024-04-19
25 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    When she doesn't love you anymore, don't lose your self-confidence. Because loving someone is not her beauty, but just a feeling. She makes you feel that way, and you love her.

    In the same way, if she doesn't love you, it's not that you aren't good. Excellent, not a reason for love. Look at the fact that there are so many people who love themselves, and a faint smile is also a different kind of sweetness.

    Be sure to bless her when she doesn't love you anymore. With love, there should be no hate. Love is wonderful.

    Hate but ugly. Why let the best things in life turn into ugliness? Don't feel unfair either.

    About leaving. What she loses is someone who loves her, and you lose someone who doesn't love you, but you get a chance to live again, to love again.

    When she no longer loves you, please don't lose your temper, although a relationship has ended, it is necessary to leave a beautiful back for the other party, after all, once had it is fate. Instead of making yourself hideous because of hatred, you might as well make yourself better! Make yourself a little better, both externally and internally, exude a charm that can touch a woman's heart, so that it is possible to have another and better relationship.

    When she no longer loves you, please gently embrace the warmth of the memories and gently gaze at the withering tenderness.

    My dear, please take a deep breath, the road of your life is paved with love buds, and there is always one that belongs to you, not to comfort you. Rather, it is predestined for life and life.

    Who doesn't want to hold hands with her until she grows old, but fate is over, and who can stop her. Is it sad or not? Sad!

    Isn't it sad? Saddened! Depressed or not?

    Extremely depressed! But people in the rivers and lakes, which man is not hit like this, what he loses is just a relationship, you shouldn't lose yourself again, if you fall out of love, don't lie down!

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    Can it be so easy to break up after such a long relationship? You can try again if there is still a chance to make peace, man, you have to learn to forbear, learn to bow your head, as long as you are sincere like redemption, you still have hope, come on!

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    I must have just broken up, and I felt ashamed or something. I felt like I was empty all of a sudden. But time is the antidote to love, and it will fade slowly.

    If you want to cry, just cry. There's no shame in it, everyone goes through this. Believe that you will find a better one.

    Be strong, everyone can live without this world.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    Hello friend, in fact, I am similar to you and miserable. I still can't sleep, and the thought of her heart hurts terribly. When I heard that she had a boyfriend, how uncomfortable did you say I was?

    However, friends, I believe that time will make us happy, let's cheer together, believe that true love is waiting for us. The love of breaking up can't be repeated, let's forget it. What we need now is someone to talk to and talk to.

    If you want, we can talk to each other and go through the emotional trough together. It's mine.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    Break up, break up, the old doesn't go, the new doesn't come.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    It's impossible to break up, but the best way is to let time fade away! My girlfriend also broke up in 4 years, I hope buddy you can cheer up! I wish you the best of happiness!

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    Sleep, sleep can make you forget everything for a while.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    Try to fight ** to redeem, if it doesn't work, drink until you get drunk, and then go to sleep.

  9. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    The reason for the breakup is very important!

    Hurry up, now is the best time to redeem yourself! i

  10. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    Emotional wounds should fade over time.

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    It's okay if you don't belong to you.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    You're only 25 years old, so there's a lot of chance!

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    The old doesn't go, the new doesn't come.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    Dude, take a look at this, I believe it will help you!!

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    1. Time**Everything.

    Even if you have just separated and you have to be sad, time will ** everything. Of course, if you have a deep relationship with each other, I have no objection to you fighting for it, after all, your own happiness can only be grasped by yourself. But time will forget a lot, because sooner or later your path will have to go your own way.

    2. Keep going.

    If it's irretrievable, let it go. I also believed that I could protect her with this life, and I believed that I could grow old after 4 years of experience with my first love, but I was defeated by her sentence "forgive her selfishness". There's a lot of road ahead and you have to move forward, and there's nothing better than the "next stop".

    3. Avoid meeting people.

    Meeting again will only make you more sad, and breaking up and being friends will only create embarrassing and painful memories for both parties. Her (his) presence is just to teach you something, and to really accompany you to the other half of the faltering is already on the way.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    1.Let yourself cry.

    Acknowledging the sad truth and facing your vulnerability is your first step. Think about the reasons why you broke up and tell yourself that he doesn't love you anymore. He lost someone who loved him, and you just got rid of someone who didn't love you.

    Your destiny has not yet arrived. You can go to a bachelorette party, you can drink a breakaway drink alone, and you don't need to force yourself to squeeze a smile. Believe that the scars will become a medal for your growth, and you will be more complete from each relationship.

    2.Resolutely do not try to keep it.

    Someone said that if you love him, you have to fight for it. However, the situation is different now, it is you who have broken up, not that you are in an unrequited relationship. These fantasies will only make it harder for you to accept the fact of falling out of love, and they will only make you more uncomfortable.

    Pursuit and retention are completely different concepts. If the other person loves you, he will come back. If he doesn't love you, you can only bring humiliation on yourself, and in the end you beg for more pain.

    3.Rationally analyze the reasons for falling out of love.

    Why is it painful to fall out of love? It's not all because they still love each other, it's probably caused by unwillingness, especially the kind of boy who is dumped by a girl, he will be even more unwilling, thinking that he is so good Why was he dropped? Then you have to think calmly, the real reason for your separation, if the reason is you, then don't make the same mistake when correcting the new relationship, if the fault is on the other party, then you don't need to be sad.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    The end of any intimate relationship is not a whim, perhaps a long-planned one. No matter how sweet the past looks after separation, it looks particularly glaring, even if you think that you are the injured party, no matter how innocent you are, it will not help, so relax yourself, let it be, the happiness that cannot be kept is a bubble.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    Then don't think about him, it's impossible for the two of you anymore, then give up.

    The most important thing for you now is to be strong, work hard to make money, take care of yourself, and make yourself better. Only you have gotten better, and there are a lot of little wolf dogs, little milk dogs coming after you.

    Is it worth it for the sake of a scumbag? If you live a wonderful life, people will naturally come to you.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    Time can dilute everything, and after a long time, it will slowly fade away. He may not be your beloved. You can also go for a walk and don't always think about it. It is also possible to start a new relationship all over again and forget it quickly. In the world of feelings, whoever leaves can live.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    First of all, give you a hug and embrace you who are uncomfortable at the moment.

    Second, girl, no one else's words can comfort you, and others can't say as much as your own little decisions.

    Thirdly, people live in the world and are destined to experience joys and sorrows, which is what you are experiencing right now. Just like Phoenix Nirvana, the process is painful, but one day it will succeed. It's like you're feeling bad right now, but one day you're going to forget every moment you've been experiencing.

    No one else can replace you.

    Fourth, if you don't love yourself, then others won't love you. You have to please yourself, not others. Take care of yourself like a friend and lover.

    Fifth, it's a thousand times better to stop thinking, working, or anything meaningful than if you were thinking about it right now.

    Sixth, good horses don't eat back grass.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    There's nothing to feel bad about.

    Since it is not suitable, there is no need to be reluctant to be together, it is better to break up as soon as possible, or to find another happiness that truly belongs to you as soon as possible.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    Hello answer, I have seen your question, and I am sorting out the answer, please wait for a while 1, no matter what the reason is, two people break up, after we break up, the lamp should be rational to reflect on themselves, to see if there is something wrong with them when two people get along, so if it is our own problem, we need to correct our bad things as soon as possible, so as to avoid such problems when we fall in love next time.

    2. If you are particularly sad, we need to find a good friend to talk to, because if you hold it in your heart for a long time, it will definitely become a knot and affect your mood. A bad mood may cause your life and work to be seriously affected, so choose to talk to a good friend at this time. Or if you want to cry, cry out loud and vent it.

    3. You can also choose to participate in some social activities with more people, many people will lock themselves at home after falling out of love, do not go out, do not communicate with others, and fall into pain, which is very undesirable, and will only let yourself continue to recall some bad things. So at this time, no matter how bad the mood is, we should go to some social activities to let ourselves forget the pain of falling out of love as soon as possible.

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    Of course, it will be very uncomfortable to be broken up, but you should calm down and analyze what is wrong with your relationship.

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    If you break up, it means that the other party doesn't like you anymore, doesn't love you anymore, and still hopes that you will come out of the pain, because that was the past.

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    Well, in a relationship, if such a situation occurs, it is also a headache, so what to do? Only I can relax.

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