I m a person who doesn t admit defeat and loves face, is this normal?

This is normal, and it probably has something to do with the fact that you had a shadow of your mind when you were a child.

Your psychology is very hypocritical, you are not strong, but you are always in the ocean of your own consciousness, extremely strong and confident.

Your problem is not serious, and you can get rid of it with a little bit.

To be low-key, we are low-key.

You just do that, and it won't be long before you feel normal.

Isn't that the case.

When you meet such people, not only are you prepared, but you're even thinking about how to fight, how to do it, what gestures you have, even what to say, even though they haven't done anything to you, or some of them have hurt you (unintentionally or intentionally), and in the end, it's all your victory, or your rhetoric, or even the other person's instigation.

Let me ask you a question: Have you ever suppressed some of your desires in your life, especially among these people, in order to be able to fit in or "mingle with" them, and you suppress certain true thoughts or behaviors and do things that you think they like or that you think are good for your relationship? Or is it someone who is older than you who has hurt you so much that you are on the defensive against this kind of person.

Whether that's the case or not, I think your ultimate desire is to want them to be convinced of you, or to make you the center of attention, and when there is a sense of fear in your heart, because you want to go against your desires or you don't want it, you take the most primitive way to get rid of the fear, to fight them in your mind, to reduce your anxiety with the satisfaction of winning or being superior.

The last question, Do you seem weak and make them feel like bullies, is there real evidence or are you putting together ideas from many ambiguous examples?

If it's the former, then exercise more and keep a low profile.

If it's the latter, then isn't it all your own way of feeling?

Don't admit defeat and love face.

Normal people have a mentality, it's normal.

But what is a little abnormal is that you behave ...... behavior

There's no need to see people who are stronger than you or older people have that kind of mentality.

Why can't we live in peace or something?

If people do something to you, you should be like that

Don't worry, I've had this mentality, it may have something to do with your experience, that's how I got it, you can first think about the good of others, try to care about others, divert your attention, and shift your energy to work or study, then you will definitely succeed, try to communicate with others. I wish you a speedy enquiry, come on.

You have to refine your courage to overcome your psychological fear and believe in yourself that you are the best.

Your psychological effect, is it always beaten or scolded by your family?

<> "People who dare not go on stage.

You can never win.

Xiang Tai said a paragraph, which makes a lot of sense:

A person has low self-esteem, and when he comes to the stage, he is timid and cowering, because he does not understand a truth, and behind all the calmness must be practice makes perfect".

For example, if you have never driven a car before, you will find it very difficult to drive, so you need to pay attention to your feet, your hands, the condition of the left and right front and rear vehicles, and occasionally respond to the words of the passengers.

But when you practice in driving school for a few months, and then officially go on the road for a few years, you will feel that driving is a very simple thing, nothing more than being bold and careful, you will not deliberately think about the movements of your hands and feet, and it has become an instinct to adjust the seat and adjust the mirror to observe the car condition at any time, and you will unconsciously become an old driver in the mouth of others.

In the same way, the reason why people with low self-esteem are bold is that they have seen less of the world, and if you see more and have more contact with cattle people, you will get used to it.

It doesn't matter if you don't know how to use the knife when you eat Western food for the first time, but the second time you will, the embarrassment will disappear.

The vast majority of people in life do not have any natural talent and innate high emotional intelligence, and chasing the tide is simply practice makes perfect.

Once you're familiar with the rules of that circle, you know what to do and what not to do. You have seen a lot of people, who you see and what to say, you are naturally handy.

So everyone said that you had seen the world, that you were elegant, that you had high emotional intelligence and that you could speak.

What is it that has really seen the world of Lu Que?

It is to pretend to be a pig and eat a tiger, to be humble upward, and to be compatible with a number of people downward. I have my preferences and opinions, and I respect your choices and words.

What are you afraid of, I don't know how to pretend to understand, or I am thin-skinned and afraid of failure, self-internal friction, and constantly blame myself, am I stupid, no one else is smart, such a simple thing will not be, this is definitely the wrong way of thinking.

In fact, everyone is very busy, and others don't care too much about your appearance and embarrassment, maybe it passed with a casual smile at the time, but you are the only one who is immersed in it and can't extricate yourself.

Young people must exercise their blunt sensibility, improve their trial and error space, and make full use of existing resources to maximize their self-improvement. Remember:

Those who are afraid of losing, those who dare not come to power, will never win. Dioscore.