I feel weak, flustered, insecure, afraid of death, and have complicated thoughts

This is a normal phenomenon, people will basically have this psychological phenomenon at this age (there are exceptions) It is recommended not to think about some unhappy things, be sunny, go out with friends more, and don't let yourself feel empty.

You can go to the hospital for a check-up or consult a psychologist. Personally, I think you can get it is an anxiety disorder.

Ask yourself where your value is? If you are worthless, you will be empty-hearted, and if you want to die, the key is to be strong!

Summary. Hello, when two people get along with each other, many times it will make the other party insecure and suspicious, this is because the other party does not feel your love and thinks that you have a lot of uncertain factors, so it will be like this.

Hello, I am a cooperative emotional analyst, good at marriage and family, love, psychology, interpersonal communication and other aspects of problem analysis. I can feel that Zheng A, you are very confused now, if it is convenient, tell me your specific situation in detail

Hello, getting along with two people will make the other party insecure and suspicious many times, this is because the other party does not feel your love, and thinks that you have a lot of uncertain factors in pure laughter, so you will do this.

No, no, no, no, there are no objects.

You can try to be kind to him and be attentive, mainly in action, it is difficult to make the other party feel sincere just by mouth.

So what are you trying to ask in this sentence?

It's that I'm always suspicious, unsafe, and there's no object like that.

Oh, this is because the individual's perception of the world is defective, and in this case, he can only go out more to increase his knowledge and read more, and people will only feel insecure about the unknown, and once they fully understand the concrete things, they will reduce the fear in their hearts.

I don't know if we are the same, we are not sociable, we don't have many friends, life is like a blank sheet of paper, and our grades are average, because we dare not express that we have missed many opportunities. Always afraid of bothering others. Often because of the fear of making a fool of yourself and the fear of failure, I dare not take the first step and miss a lot of opportunities.

At that time, I couldn't see what the future would hold. I can only go down crying in the dark. No matter how many people there are around, I still feel very lonely.

I feel like I'm the corner of the darkness where the sun doesn't shine. It's been a mess for years.

I like to travel by myself, I don't care about other people's opinions, I don't care about other people's opinions, I go wherever I want, I think about what is not tired enough to climb the mountain, if there is any unhappiness that disturbs you, go to the wind and climb the mountain, and blow away all those unhappiness.

Don't say what others say, and many times if you're unhappy, just say it, right? If you don't want to talk about it, it doesn't matter if you are Jingmeng, wear headphones on the Lianghuai Bridge and think for yourself. When you learn to think, your mind will be more active.

In the face of love, it is too normal to be suspicious, controlling, and insecure, because they are part of love, so these performances mentioned by the subject are not because you are not good enough, Mingpi is not confident enough, but because you really like her. So don't be distressed, love is never only sweet and romantic, you and me, it also includes all kinds of troubles and anxieties.

Put a little more energy on improving yourself, two people are attracted to each other, instead of spending time glued to each other to annoy others, it is better to enrich yourself, some of your changes may surprise each other.

The country is easy to change and difficult to change, and I think it is impossible to change my emotional personality by myself, or to take time to mature. When you really care about the other person, that's when you don't like it. Learn to control your emotions and read more books on the subject.

That's all for that, I hope it will be helpful to your questions!

The sense of security must be given to yourself, you must make your life more interesting, you must become more fulfilling, you can move the vertical bridge with rock fiber, you can read, you must focus on life or work, and you must find things that can make you happy.

I think you should first adjust your mentality. Calm down, don't think about it. Do something you enjoy to distract yourself.

Study more and improve your hail skills to increase your self-confidence. Confide in your friends about your struggles. Sort each other out.

You should divert your attention to filial piety, or you can do something that you are more interested in, and when you have doubts, you can talk to your good friends.

You can take the initiative to communicate with each other, and you should slowly adjust your mentality to become more optimistic, and reduce dependence.

Suspicious people are usually very sensitive, if others don't understand, it's normal to have different opinions, let him say it, you have to have your own persistence and self-confidence. Don't worry about people, such as when others meet you today, you are not as enthusiastic as before, you don't necessarily have opinions about yourself, because others are not dealing with you alone, and there are many things in their own lives, others don't necessarily have to smile at you every time. In addition, if others do things that harm them, it is not necessarily intentional, but often unintentional, don't ask others too much, don't interpret others too much, and trust others.

Be confident in yourself, as long as you are in a public heart for people and things, emphasize the form of love during the relationship, and mark the exclusive label of love, such as emphasizing my male (female) friend in front of mutual friends, and focusing on taking care of lovers in common activity venues, caring words can gradually eliminate the suspicion of lovers and enhance the happiness of lovers being loved. Find a reason to love with your heart, cherish it with your heart, study more, read more positive books, let yourself improve, have a broad vision, and have a broad mind, and there will be no more doubts. It is necessary to let go of suspicion, embrace true love, fertilize love, give love sunshine and rain, let him grow normally and healthily, and let love bloom into gorgeous flowers.

Because I like each other, I think of them as very good, and I feel that I may not be worthy of them.

At this time, you will be worried that your lover will be snatched away by others, so you will always be suspicious and suspicious of each other, and this situation can only be relieved of your suspicion by gradually improving yourself and enhancing your self-confidence in the process of interacting with your lover. Since the two people in love have not experienced a lot of ups and downs together, they will always feel that the other party has different intentions, and even a small reproach from the other party will be infinitely magnified, the main reason is because they don't trust each other. Don't trust each other because you don't know each other well enough, and want to know each other better to strengthen the trust of both parties, which takes time to accumulate As the saying goes, feelings can be cultivated, only after the two parties in love have experienced the wind and rain together, they can cultivate an unbreakable relationship of trust, so that there will naturally be no suspicion.

First of all, we must adjust our mentality, we must maintain a good emotional state, we must become strong in our hearts, and we must have our own self-confidence.

First of all, you should distract yourself and do something that interests you, and slowly you will become satisfied and feel secure.

You have to give yourself some self-confidence, and you have to trust your husband, don't doubt your husband, and that's it.

Guidance:

Hello, generally speaking, this is a psychological problem, and the cause may be related to the environment in daily life and one's own personality and behavioral factors. It is recommended to pay attention to maintaining a good attitude and self-regulation and inhibition. If the symptoms are severe and cannot be relieved by self-regulation, it is recommended that you consult a psychologist in person.