Crush on a girl, should I confess?

If you really like that girl, and she doesn't have a boyfriend, you can confess. In my opinion, love is such a thing, you really need to take the initiative to pursue it, because as long as you don't take the initiative, it's easy to miss it.

When my friend Xiaoqi was in college, he had a crush on a boy for two years. In the past two years, Xiao Qi and the boy have been in a good friend relationship, because she is afraid of losing it, and at the same time worried that she is not worthy of him, she has never dared to confess.

For two whole years, Xiao Qi stayed with the boy as a friend, and until she graduated from college, she couldn't reveal her love to the boy, so she also missed him. Later, every time Xiao Qi mentioned this incident to us, he couldn't help but regret it, regretting why he couldn't have been braver in the first place.

Some people miss it for a lifetime, and if you don't want to regret it, you should be more proactive.

Best friend Xiaowei and her boyfriend met shortly before the college entrance examination. Because the handwritten letters of the two names are the same, the boy sits in front of Xiaowei every time he takes a mock test, and he knows each other after coming and going.

Xiaowei told me that she fell in love with the boy at first sight, and asked me if I should confess to the boy. I thought more realistically at the time, thinking that everyone was about to graduate, and even if the confession was successful now, there would be no chance to meet in the future, so I persuaded her not to confess.

But Xiaowei really liked that boy very much, so she resolutely confessed to the boy despite my objections. As a result, the boy actually liked her too, and then the two came together naturally.

Although they have been in a long-distance relationship in college, the relationship between the two has continued unabated. Not long ago, I saw their wedding photos in the circle of friends, and it seems that they are not far from getting married.

You must know that all love is fleeting, and since you like someone, express your truest emotions. Seriously, people live for a lifetime, and it's not easy to meet someone you really like, so please take advantage of it.

Of course, you have to confess, if you like someone, if you don't be brave enough to confess, how do you know if the other party will accept you, do you have to wait for the other party to take the initiative to confess?

As a boy, if you like someone, you must confess, because girls are more passive, generally speaking, unless the other party is really a more active girl, and you will take the initiative to confess if you like you very much.

As a girl, I also have a crush, but I just like it silently, I don't have the courage to confess, and finally part ways, in fact, even if a girl likes a person, she looks at each other silently and likes each other, because she doesn't know whether the other party likes herself, so it's just self-guessing.

If you find out that the other party doesn't like you, you will be even more afraid to confess and be rejected! In fact, boys are also afraid of rejection, but I think that if you don't dare to take the initiative to confess as a boy, then girls are even less likely to take the initiative to be with you.

Many times we have to try, if you don't confess, you never know if the other party is also liking you, maybe the other party also has you in their hearts, just wait for you to take the initiative to break all this.

Even if the confession is rejected, you can pursue the other person openly, as long as you like her enough and want to be with her, after a long time, the girl is likely to be willing to be with you.

As long as you try it yourself, you won't regret it, but if you don't choose to confess, you will definitely regret it later.

There is always a better chance of confessing than not confessing, you have tried, maybe you will be together.

If you like someone, you have to be brave to confess, brave to pursue, if you don't pursue and confess, you will never have a chance.

I hope you can confess your success and be with the girl you like! <

I couldn't give an answer at the first glance when I saw this question, I didn't know if you should confess or not, such as what your situation is, whether you are a student or a staff member, whether you are rich or poor, whether you are a handsome guy or not good-looking, whether you have been in love many times or a teenager who has not been in the world, I don't know. So I don't know how to advise you, you should make your own decisions about this kind of personal matter.

I'll share with you about myself, and you'll see if you need to confess. Because of the confession, there are actually hidden dangers, once the confession fails, it basically means that the two of you will not be friends in the future, of course, this is also my experience as a student in school, I hope to help you.

I've chased ten girls.,When I first started chasing girls.,It's always like the subject you're now.,I don't know if I should confess or not.,It's all a crush.。 But I quickly broke this notion, and I felt that I was not afraid of losing face, and although I was not ashamed to like other people's things, I did feel very shy at the time. Then I said, I'm not afraid of losing face, I like this girl, I'm going to make friends with her, and then I'm going to confess and write love letters to her.

Then I was rejected quickly, because I was not good-looking, dark, fat, and not good-looking, this is the reason for the rejection, and it is not that the trick of writing love letters is not good, it is simply that others can't look down on me, which is of course, so I started to ** later, look at the outfit, and then it also turned white, and it looks a little better, and it will not be so difficult to chase girls at this time.

Therefore, if you are very handsome, just confess directly, 90% successful, there is no girl who doesn't like to be handsome, there is no doubt about this. And if you don't look very nice to girls, then you'd better dress yourself up, don't slip on big pants every day, wash your hair frequently, dress up handsome, learn a little dressing, cut your hair, become a little better, and just go to confess.

And then there's what kind of relationship is already between the two of you, if it's the kind of relationship where you're just in love, and the two of you haven't said a word at all, unless you're particularly handsome, otherwise the confession will definitely fail, since you have a crush on each other, the other party must be very good-looking, and you shouldn't agree. If the two of you are good friends, the two of you have nothing to talk about, the relationship is very good, and you have a crush on her, then it's better not to confess, unless you can feel that the other party likes you, otherwise once the confession fails, how awkward it will be between the two good friends.

In fact, in the final analysis, it depends on you whether you should confess or not, otherwise it won't help you much if I talk about whether to confess or not.

The most beautiful love is that the person you have a crush on is also secretly in love with you, but if neither of you speaks, this love that should be beautiful will end without a problem. So, be bold and confess, what if she happens to like you too?

I know a warm little story about the heroine who has had a crush on her senior for three years and is about to leave this school after being a senior. So the heroine plucked up the courage to confess to her beloved senior. As a result, the senior was very angry and said, why did you confess to me so late, if you don't come to me to confess again, I will also go to you.

The ending, of course, is that the two of them are together sweetly.

Confession is responsible for one's own feelings, a possible opportunity for oneself and the other party, and a complete end to the crush.

If this girl has no partner now and is single, then you have a good chance of success in confessing, what if you are together? Even if she rejects you, you will understand her mind because of the confession, and you can end this fruitless relationship.

If this girl already has a very stable and very fond of someone, then I still have to advise you to confess, because this is responsible for yourself. One cannot stay in the past forever, nor can one linger in an unfruitful relationship all the time. Confess to her and explain your intentions, but she doesn't ask for anything, just an explanation to herself, love, it's enough.

Only after the confession can you really put yourself in this crush and make room for your heart to meet the feelings that really belong to you. It's as if everything has an ending, and the end of a crush is the beginning of a confession. This start can be surprising or difficult.

But no matter what, there is a beginning and an end that is responsible for your own emotions.

Crush can be a very special emotional experience, and sometimes you struggle deep down and are afraid to reveal your true feelings. Confession is the process of a person being honest about their inner thoughts and expressing their emotions to the person they like, which is a very courageous and determined thing for many people. So, to what extent can you confess?

Here are a few things you might find helpful:

1.I'm mentally prepared.

First of all, the most important thing is to be mentally prepared before considering whether or not to confess. This means that you are fully aware that even rejection will not affect your friendship and that you have been able to face the outcome calmly. When you make that confession, make sure you really know yourself and are ready to let go.

2.Establish a good relationship with the other person.

Before you start thinking about confessing, make sure you've built a good relationship with the person you like about Hunger. This means that there is already a stable and trusting and respectful friendship or relationship between you, rather than just making it your "goal". In this case, the likelihood of a confession will be greater.

3.Find the right moment.

Choosing the right time is very important. You shouldn't talk about your feelings when the other person is in a high-pressure, irritable, or depressed mood. Instead, wait for a calm, relaxed, and comfortable moment so that communication between you will be smoother.

If you can accurately grasp the pattern of the other person's emotional fluctuations, then choose the best time to testify!

4.Be direct and honest.

When it comes to confession, directness and sincerity are very crucial. Make sure you can convey your true thoughts and feelings to the other person, and impress them with a clear, honest and honest confession. In this way, even if you are rejected, you will not lose the good impression in the other person's mind that you are honest, courageous, and honest.

To sum up, before choosing whether or not to make a crush confession, we need to be well prepared and carefully consider various factors to choose the best time and method. But no matter what the outcome is, we should cherish our true feelings and courage to grow and be strong.