How do you feel when your friends look for you when they are sad, but ignore you when they are happy

Updated on psychology 2024-04-19
55 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    I won't be happy, because I want me to be by his side, no matter what is happy or unhappy, but even if the happy one doesn't look for me, I think it's because he cares about me very much, and he feels that he has a good heart, and he goes with the flow...

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    It's a lie to be unhappy, it's a lie to say that you don't care, just like a friend who comes to you to borrow money when he's in trouble, and he has fun with someone else when he's rich but doesn't remember you, I don't think anyone will treat it with a normal heart.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    Ordinary people will feel very different in their mood, and they will feel very sad and unfair. But it's good to look at the point, and I can still look for you when I'm sad, at least I still have you in my heart.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    To quote a passage, I hope to help the landlord:

    What is "true love"? When we give, the first thought is no longer to make ourselves happy because we must get something in return, no longer to always put "my" happiness first, but to really do "other" happiness first without asking for any return, and to be able to generate joy from the process of benefiting "others and her", that is "true love". Otherwise, it is nothing more than "selfish love" that loves oneself.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    If it were me, I would be very sad. Maybe you take your friends too seriously, that's why you care so much. 1. Try to relax. 1. Make more friends, so that your probability of being noticed will increase! 3. If you have time, add me as a friend!

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    Sometimes you must be in a bad mood, but you have to think about the song "Friend": Friend, friend, have you ever thought of me, if you are enjoying happiness, please forget me. Friend, friend, have you ever remembered me, and if you are suffering misfortune, please tell me.

    Friend, friend, have you ever remembered me, if you have a new one, you have a new shore, please leave me and leave me. Think about these lyrics, you are not so sad, if they will come to you when they are sad, it means that he or she still treats you as a friend, doesn't it?

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    It's normal for a friend to have someone to help you when you're in trouble.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    At the very least, they will think of you when they are sad, and you can be trusted.

  9. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    I was worried about this for a while today, but then I figured out that as long as I am sincere, I have no regrets.

  10. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    Remember you in his most difficult time!

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    It may be sad! But think about it, you should be happy, and they all say that adversity sees true love.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    I will be true to my own ideas, friends are not friends, only I know, only by facing my true self, can I deal with this aspect of the problem

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    Don't worry too much about that! Do you want your friends to be unhappy? Whatever it is, it's good to be happy with each other!!

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    Be calm, look down on everything, and there will be less troubles

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    It only shows that he is not your real friend.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    It's very good, it shows that you really are the deepest in his heart.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    Hehe, you should feel happy, because this trust is the rarest. It is also because in their hearts, you are their last bottom line, and they know that there is still you in the most helpless time!!

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    Then you have made a real friend, because it means that you have an important place in his heart. They know that there will be you when they are helpless.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    I think that's a real friend, it's rare to think of you first when you're unhappy, if I don't trust you, how can I look for you.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    There's no chance, she doesn't value it, but she knows you value her

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    Spare wheel! No way, that's the reality.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    You're just her spiritual friend, not an emotional friend, why are you still in love with her? There are so many good girls, why are you afraid you won't be able to find them?

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    She doesn't like you, give up, this will only make you fall deeper and deeper, and it is you who is sad, so why bother.

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    It shows that she is just that you are the spare tire, let it go, it's yours, you can't run, it's not yours, you can't catch it.

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    Too arrogant to confess, he's just treating you like a brother, not a boyfriend. I advise you to continue like this.

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-14

    Think of something happy and forget about your troubles, or you can listen to happy songs and do some happy things.

  27. Anonymous users2024-01-13

    Stop thinking about those unhappy things, and believe that tomorrow will be better!

  28. Anonymous users2024-01-12

    Always find something to do for yourself, don't be idle and stop thinking.

  29. Anonymous users2024-01-11

    Think about what you have fun and do what you want to do. Thinking that everything is the best arrangement....

  30. Anonymous users2024-01-10

    Do more things you haven't done before but you've always wanted to do.

  31. Anonymous users2024-01-09

    An ordinary friend.

    Friends have never seen you cry. A true friend has the shoulders to get your tears wet and a normal friend who doesn't know your parents' last names. A real friend has their** on the address book.

    An ordinary friend will bring a bottle of wine to your party. A true friend will come early to help you get ready and leave later to help you with cleaning. An ordinary friend hates you calling after he sleeps.

    A true friend will ask why it's only called now. An ordinary friend comes to you to talk about your troubles. A real friend comes to you to solve your troubles.

    An ordinary friend is curious about your romance. A true friend can threaten you to speak out. An ordinary friend, when visiting, is like a guest.

    A true friend will open the fridge and take things himself. An ordinary friend thinks the friendship is over after a quarrel. A true friend understands that true friendship is not called when you haven't fought before.

    An ordinary friend expects you to always be there for him. A true friend expects him to be by your side forever.

  32. Anonymous users2024-01-08

    In fact, the sky is very blue, and the clouds will always disperse] [In fact, the sea is not wide, and this shore is connected to the other shore] [In fact, dreams are very shallow, and everything is natural] [In fact, tears are also sweet, when your heart is as you wish] I believe that whether you are happy or not at this moment, seeing these words will make you feel much more relaxed! In fact, people living in this world can only experience a lifetime if they taste all the ups and downs, and how can they know what happiness is without pain and trouble! So friends, you have to learn to mediate your emotions, live bravely, and believe that fulfilling every day will make you feel happy!

    I wish you happiness.

  33. Anonymous users2024-01-07

    I will be very disappointed in my heart, but I won't use too much sincerity!

  34. Anonymous users2024-01-06

    I will feel sad, but I have to warn myself: it was he who did wrong, why should I be sad? As long as you recognize him as a person, there is no need to be sad, and you can't punish yourself for the shortcomings of others.

  35. Anonymous users2024-01-05

    What will happen when you find that you are relieved, and he seems to be relieved, but the feelings can't go back?

  36. Anonymous users2024-01-04

    Sad, I've been through it, and it takes a long time to come out of the shadows.

  37. Anonymous users2024-01-03

    Go straight to him and make it clear! No, do it!

  38. Anonymous users2024-01-02

    Very calm, because he made me recognize a person.

  39. Anonymous users2024-01-01

    Ignore him forever, the mood must be very bitter.

  40. Anonymous users2023-12-31

    It's complicated, it's definitely not comfortable, and I won't bother him in the future.

  41. Anonymous users2023-12-30

    Old classmates don't know what's wrong with you now, but when I'm generally in a bad mood, I will sing and dance, so that I can vent out like crazy, and when I'm so tired that I can't walk and have no strength, it's about the same, but it's mainly to see how I adjust my mentality.

  42. Anonymous users2023-12-29

    The best way to do this is to travel outside, but remember not to bring some unnecessary emotions with you.

  43. Anonymous users2023-12-28

    Go out for a walk and talk to friends again

  44. Anonymous users2023-12-27

    Happiness comes all at once, making people feel unnatural and unreal, and pinch themselves when they feel floating. It hurts, it's not a dream. Then live well and keep it up. Time will make all uneasiness disappear.

  45. Anonymous users2023-12-26

    It's yours and yours all the time, life is so short, so happy, what are you worried about? So many people are still worried about food and clothing, since you have so much, be happy, live a good today, is the most important thing, all the unhappiness is sent from your heart, put your mind in a good way, get married once in your life, that day must be happy from the heart. What a wonderful thing it is to have someone grow old with you.

  46. Anonymous users2023-12-25

    I'm a little afraid of marriage!! It's okay!! You just have to believe that the man is what you want!! You've been waiting!! Your happiness!! Nothing is a problem!!

  47. Anonymous users2023-12-24

    Panic after marriage caused by premarital sex, worry about being unfaithful to the law, worry that he is a casual person, worry about women outside, etc., read the Bible.

  48. Anonymous users2023-12-23

    For premarital phobia, you can contact a psychologist to solve it, or you can ask a married friend.

  49. Anonymous users2023-12-22

    It's normal for a woman to have a child, and her heart is messed up, don't think too much.

  50. Anonymous users2023-12-21

    The pregnancy mood is unstable, my daughter-in-law is pregnant which guy tossed me! It's good to be born if it's okay!

  51. Anonymous users2023-12-20

    Don't think about it too much, for the sake of the children, live well.

  52. Anonymous users2023-12-19

    Happiness has come, why should we doubt so much? Be brave!

  53. Anonymous users2023-12-18

    Well, it's good to be happy if you feel worthwhile.

  54. Anonymous users2023-12-17

    It's called thinking too much.

  55. Anonymous users2023-12-16

    I don't know how to speak.

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