When a man is trapped in love, why is it difficult to extricate himself?

Everyone yearns for a beautiful love, and love is a very important part of a person's life. Men are very affectionate, if a man loves a woman deeply, if he is abandoned or rejected by this woman, then this man will be very painful, it is difficult to get out of the grief, and he can't extricate himself.

The situation in which a man is trapped by love is nothing more than the following aspects. One is that a man has a crush on the woman he loves deeply, but for various reasons, he can only keep it in his heart and can't say it boldly. A man loves a girl very much, but he doesn't dare to confess it, so he can only bury this love deep in his heart.

In this way, the man will be very distressed, unable to extricate himself, and will be troubled by this love that has not started and does not dare to start. <>

The other is the woman whom the man loves deeply, and also dares to express his love to the person she loves, but she is rejected, and she finally musters up the courage to confess, but unfortunately she did not get the desired result. Confessing again and again but the ending is the same and being rejected, such a man is the most painful, the most sad, and some may lose confidence and ruin themselves in this way, so many men will be unable to extricate themselves if they fail to confess. There is also a situation where two people are very affectionate, but then the woman dumped the man, and the man can't accept this reality for a while and is unwilling to accept this reality, recalling all kinds of good memories of being together before, living in pain all day long, unable to extricate himself.

Although men's feelings are not as delicate as women's, men are particularly emotional. Many men also dare to do anything for the sake of feelings, and some will feel that it is worth losing their lives for the sake of feelings, so for these men who value feelings, it is difficult to extricate themselves once they are trapped by love.

Love is like a song, it comes and goes without a trace". Love is not only a thing for women, but also for men, when men are trapped by love, it is difficult to extricate themselves, and the same is true for women, when they are trapped by love, it is also difficult to extricate themselves.

In fact, during the period, whoever pays more [affection], who pays more effort, and who is more specialized, will be more difficult to extricate himself. Therefore, whenever the feelings are hurt and cannot extricate themselves, there is no distinction between [men and women] who is light and who is heavy, but depends on the [depth] of the affection of both parties, which is one of them.

Second, that is, it depends on your stomach, your heart, and your endurance, how much is it?

Third, all together, you can see when you will be able to come out of a failed relationship.

A [love] word, how can it be obtained, it is easy to speak, difficult to do, and it is really not [trapped] by love, not disturbed by love, and not [tired] (tears) by love. If you are not annoyed by love, if you are not troubled by love, if you are not annoyed by love, how many people will there be in the world?

Whether it is a man or a woman, everything comes from the requirements of oneself, and self-consciousness is very important.

Men are also people, men also have feelings, and there are people with heavy feelings, crying, crying is not a sin, crying is just a catharsis, a kind of emotional control ability, but the way of choice is different, some people put it in their hearts, some people like to vent it, some people may not be able to control themselves on occasions that should not appear, that person has no tears? It's just that we don't see it, and it's the best way to cry out, it's much better than putting it in our hearts, do you say?

Have you ever seen a man crying because he was trapped in love? How do you feel?

If you want to ask how you feel, you can only say sympathy, and you won't laugh at it, because everyone has a different ability to accuse. Have I seen it? Of course I've seen it, and more than once or twice, there's nothing strange about this, people are not grass and trees Who can be ruthless, love will naturally cry in the depths, no matter what kind of love will make ** tears, love, family, friendship are all love, and they may make a man cry.

Failed in love and lost a loved one.

This kind of thing has been experienced by many people, nothing strange, but sadness is always inevitable, people who have experienced the pain of being abandoned will know, some people will not show it, some people can't control their emotions, they will cry, no matter which way is a result, sad and sad, all say that men have tears and don't flick, it's just that we don't see many people secretly crying by themselves.

If a person leaves you and you don't feel pain, it only means that you don't have a real heart or no love at all.

Love is something that each of us will experience, two people who love each other together, it can be said that the sky is not afraid of the earth, because with love it seems that the whole world is its own, there are no terrible things, the power of love is amazing, love can make a person uplifted, love can also make a person fall.

When a person loses love, loses his beloved, sometimes he will lose his mind, his emotions will get out of control, it is simply the end of the world, everything will be disheartened, some people will have a revenge mentality, some will go to extremes by themselves, some will endure silently, and some people will cry out loud, no matter which one is to the point of sadness.

Lost in love, but not discouraged.

Some people will think that a man is trapped in love, and it is a shame to cry in public, I don't think it's a shame, but his control ability is too poor, and he is not mature enough, which means that he is still young, he has experienced too few things, and he is not mature enough.

People can fall out of love, but they can't lose their will, pain is only temporary, don't let the pain lose their ambition, cry, don't be ashamed, lose your ambition is shameful, a man's husband can bend and stretch is the true color of a man.

Men cry, cry, cry is not a sin, to turn tears into motivation, as a man should dare to hate, dare to love, dare to speak, dare to do, dare to cry, dare to act, dare to anger, dare to speak, crying is not ashamed.

I don't think men are trapped in love; The man's self-esteem is very strong, and his heart is relatively strong, and if the relationship fails, they will immediately devote themselves to work.

Of course it will; Because boys are also human beings, they also have their own emotions and their own favorite people.

No, it won't; Because boys are very rational and will not be trapped by love.

The appearance of every kind of regret is not an accidental thing, but the inevitable result of some reason, when you think you can control everything, the crisis is already lurking, when you think that love is just an instinct of ordinary people, the adventure has happened.

Gambling on feelings, adventurous love, is a common mistake people make, if you can prevent the slightest, prevent it before it happens, so as not to be in a hurry in the relationship, panic, prepared people are often easier to grasp happiness.

He is very serious and discerning.

People who are very serious about their way of doing things or attitude towards life have a big regret and weakness in their feelings, that is, they like to trace a result, for example, the two have been together for a long time, but they find that they can't get along and get along unhappily, so they still want a clear result and answer, and finally the other party can only cruelly inform that everything should be fulfilled, and the implication is that fate is not enough, and it should be another choice.

What does it mean to take everything too seriously? First, paranoia, truthfulness, lack of self-preservation and decency, it is easy to give people a hint of profligacy; Second, having a beginning and an end is serious, having a beginning and an end is the intention, and having a result is the conservation of energy, which is the regret that serious people are most likely to return to, they have high hopes for every fate, if there is no result, they will be unwilling; If you don't have a clear answer, you will keep waiting, and you will be very stubborn.

A person with a clear eye, the most common mistakes to make in the love between men and women are none other than these:

First, no matter how far the relationship between the two people develops, they all hope to express their attitudes, whether they are separated or accompanied, they should have attitudes;

Second, they are full of extreme desires and expectations for the future, they do not allow themselves to give up easily, let alone allow others to do so, but feelings are a matter of two people, we can only control ourselves, and cannot restrain others, and even hints and reminders are not feasible;

Third, I always like rationality, but I ignore that a little sensuality is more touching and warm, and a moderate show of weakness may make the other party cherish and love more.

Being hurt by love is not beautiful at all, at least in a sense, love hurt is mostly a sign of regret and bitterness, and rarely sweet and perfect.

If this is the case for you, you might as well try not to be so rational and strong, moderate gentleness and weakness, maybe it will be more cute and interesting, and you will not miss the happiness of marriage in the camp of feelings.

The reason for the divorce is also very simple, that is, the man is too irresponsible, he is the so-called "good man" in everyone's mouth, but whether it is good or not, only he, who lives with him, really knows.

He is a well-known filial son in ten miles and eight villages, but in his own eyes, he is a typical "mother treasure", they have been married for so many years, and his mother-in-law has never been satisfied with herself, and she has never opened her eyes to look at her daughter-in-law, and what about her husband? Not only did he not help her, but he also bullied him with his mother-in-law.

He is a very cowardly person in his bones, with a good temper that there is no bottom line, he believes whatever his mother-in-law says, and it can be said that he responds to requests.

If a man can't take on the responsibilities of a family and treat his wife sincerely, no matter how good he looks, it's fake.

I tell you from my own personal experience that when a woman gets married, she must stay away from these three so-called "good men", otherwise it will be difficult to be really happy when she marries.

One: A man who is good to everyone.

If a man is good to everyone, he is likely to be what everyone usually calls "** air conditioning", such a man actually has no bottom line, he only does what he thinks is right, no matter who he is, he is very good to others, but he doesn't know that in this way, he is invisibly hurting his wife.

No matter how good a friend is, he must have a certain sense of boundaries, especially after getting married, he must automatically distance himself from some friends of the opposite sex. Not everyone deserves to be nice to him, and knowing how to tell whether it is right or wrong is what a mature man should do.

Two: A man who is too infatuated.

There is a kind of man who is easily trapped by love, they have really loved someone, and they may not be able to forget it for the rest of their lives, even if they are not together in the end, that person has always been hidden in their hearts, and it is not at all whether this is unfair to their current situation, whether it will hurt their current feelings.

A really good man can afford to let go, he knows that everything in the past can only stay in the past, people can only look forward, and what should be cherished most is the person in front of him, not the impossible person in the past.

Three: A man who is too indecisive.

This kind of man has a typical characteristic, that is, he is good at being a "peacemaker", but they often can't get things done, and they will only blindly make peace with the mud, especially on the issue of the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law.

My ex-husband is a good example, with his existence, my relationship with my mother-in-law has always been more and more stiff, his character is too cowardly, it can't be a big deal, whether it is for the family or for marriage, he has no responsibility, otherwise it would not be in the case of us who have been married for so many years, and the expenses of the whole family basically depend on me.

Do you know why men are trapped in love? It's because the two strangers gave too much to the girl from start to finish, and finally separated because of a little thing. It's not that I can't let go, but I can't figure it out, and I can't figure it out, I've never paid for a person like this.

Boys will think that even their dearest and dearest parents have never treated them like this, why do they try their best to treat a person like this, but in exchange for a breakup. A little worse is deception, and even worse is betrayal. In a word, if you don't pay, you won't be sad.

If a person does not spend a lot of energy, money and time on one thing or a person, in fact, there will be no sadness and sadness at all, at most just regret. It is precisely because I have invested too much that what I have received is very different from what I imagined, so it is difficult to let go.

That's true.

Dear boys are fragile people and easily trapped by love, boys. And then there are the boys who are not very strong-willed.

What kind of boy is easily trapped by love? Careful and scheming, love to drill the horns, such men are often like this.

Hello, need to give this man some time, can't be too rushed. A man who has lost a relationship and wants to come out of it has to go through five stages (1) At first, he denies that it happened to him (2) And then, he is angry, why did this happen to me, why me? He will blame others (3) Later, he will regret and blame himself, praying that the other party can come back (4) If the man still can't see hope, he will be miserable and helpless, and he will begin to be depressed and give up on himself (5) Finally, after the torment of time, he will slowly accept the facts, and he will realize that life will go on, and then gradually come out.

Judging from your description, this man is most likely in a depressed stage, so give him more warm company, empathize more, understand his mood at this time, and be sure not to blame him, and don't talk a lot of big truths. As long as he changes a little bit, give him affirmation, make him confident, and make him believe in himself. It should be noted that: