At what moment do you think that ideals are nothing, and having money is the most important thing?

At what moment do I feel that the ideal is not important, but the most important thing, I guess that is when I understand the importance of money, that is, when I finally grow up.

When I was a child, I always fantasized that my ideal when I grew up was to be a doctor, a doctor, benevolent, or a scientist, a hard worker, or a teacher to teach and educate people, and then when I grew up, I found out how much money, time, energy, and personal ability it takes for our family to cultivate such a talent, and whether it can support you to become such a person. The ideals of childhood are really different from the ideals of growing up, and we will not be so naïve when we grow up, and we will not feel that ideals are so important when we grow up. On the contrary, I will feel that life is really not easy, and it is really difficult to make money to support my family.

The world of adults is no longer what we could imagine when we were children. When you grow up, you will find that the world can be loyal forever except money, and only money can treat you as before, and there is nothing else. Money can buy everything, and nothing can be bought without money.

In our lives, we are constantly working hard for money all our lives, and we want to make the money behind us thicker. I also want to make my waist more straight, speak more neutrally, and live a more satisfying life. <>

Later, I learned that when we don't have money, we are nothing, and sometimes even family affection can become nothing, and everyone may turn against you because of money. Money has this ability, this kind of thing that makes people can be together and can also make people enemies in a second.

Ideals are just something that can be thought of by some people whose families are wealthy and do not have to worry about food and clothing, while people like me, who have daily food and clothing will become a problem, cannot think about whether the ideal can be realized.

I've been thinking about this every moment since I really started my adult life. What is the ideal? Can it be eaten as a meal?

Can it be used for fun? It seems that the ideal is getting farther and farther away from oneself, out of reach. Gradually, the ideal became a luxury, and began to accept all kinds of real life, why don't you need money?

Without money, there is no stable social status, and no one can afford a poor person called Hanako, not even charity.

If I had money, even if I was a very selfish and despicable person, there would still be people who would still be willing to revolve around me because I had money. I can bring them certain benefits and benefits. Since the value of this society can be measured by money, such an unrealistic thing as an ideal has been suppressed.

You can go to colleges and universities to interview those students and ask, what are their ideals? Then ask, what do you want in the end? In fact, those so-called ideals are ultimately classified as wanting to have more money.

Perhaps the worldview of adults is more direct, not as simple as that of children, "I want to be a scientist, I want to benefit mankind, and in the end scientists benefit mankind, have fame, have remuneration, and have superior living conditions." "All our beautiful visions for the future are to want our future life to be better and better, but the conditions and premise of a better life are: you have to have a lot of money.

So I'm very realistic, I just think that the ideal is far away for me, and making money is faster and easier to achieve than the ideal. Those sworn declarations have long been dispelled by the reality of lack of money. A person who can make money while realizing his life ideals is respectable.

Own a small house with your own, have your own study, have your own small kitchen! Go out and travel in your spare time! How easy is it to have such a life?

I'm not a rich daughter, I'm not a child of an official eunuch, or even a white-collar family, I'm just an ordinary girl living in a third-tier city and living a 9-to-6 life! I have to be busy every day for work, I have to worry about rent every day, and I have to run around for firewood, rice, oil and salt! reluctant to buy extravagant clothes because there is not so much money; I am reluctant to eat out because I may not have a meal after eating; I am reluctant to cultivate my second hobby, because it will burn money; I like to paint, I like baking, I like photography, but I just don't want to go, and these can only be regarded as luxuries for life!

Since I was a child, I have always regarded money as dung, and I feel that what is the use of earning so much money, I can't spend it all, as long as I have enough to spend! It is only now that I slowly realize that it is really difficult to move an inch without money! I don't have a house of my own, so I have to send someone under the fence; There is not enough money to support yourself, so you have to work hard so you have to work hard; There is no capital to show off, so you have to desperately enrich yourself!

I will start paying rent again next month, and my girlfriend is about to enter the palace of marriage, I took a look at my poor bank card, shaved off the rent, and found that I didn't even have the money to buy gifts, let alone my living expenses! I've never been a big spender, but really, I feel like I'm desperate! What can I do?

I'm a poor girl who has no support, I can't reach out to my parents to ask for money, I can't reach out to borrow from others, if I do, I will feel like I'm living in this world in vain!

Ideals, if there is capital, who doesn't want to realize the ideal! But without money, what can we talk about ideals! Life, what is life?

Life is colorful, life is romantic, life is infinitely beautiful! Just as life has taught us how to grow, life has taught me how to face reality. There are also all kinds of cruelty in life, in the face of birth, old age, sickness and death, in the face of life's betrayal, we are always powerless, we are so fragile!

If I could, I would earn a lot of capital, and then realize my unfinished ideals little by little; If I can, I will try to make life full of beauty; If we can, may each of us be born like summer flowers!

I think that's when you're really in trouble.