I care about others, and others know how to care about me

Friend, I think you should be confident. Don't think about it so much. Indulge yourself and make your own decisions. >>>More

I used to care about what others would say about me like you, and even be careful that I had to do every word and action I had to do deliberately, but in fact, this is really not good, because when you pay too much attention to yourself in the eyes of others, you will often make yourself suffer from gains and losses, and ignore what you should really do, so that you live your whole life as if you are not living for yourself, but living for others, why bother? Furthermore (purely personal opinion) I think that people who care too much about other people's opinions may actually be people who want to be taken seriously, or people who don't know enough about themselves, because if you don't know yourself well enough, don't know your own strengths and weaknesses, it will be difficult for you to make a correct judgment on yourself, so others' evaluation of you has become a yardstick for you to evaluate yourself, but in the final analysis, how can anyone in this world know more about you than yourself? What others say about you, no matter how good or bad it is, it is what you see in the eyes of others, and the most important thing for people is to make themselves better in their eyes, just like someone even if everyone evaluates him very well, but he himself feels very bad, then he can only live a painful life in the end, so people should judge for themselves what kind of person they are, what kind of ambition you have, how you should work hard, and what will make you feel happy and happy, And these have to rely on their own personal experience and continuous attempts to obtain, other people's evaluation of you, you should only make a reference, can not be completely indifferent, what is said is indeed correct, you will seek change, because this is also a process of self-improvement, as for those who say bad things about you, it may be that your character does not let them like, but character is a unique sign of a person, some people do not like it, some people naturally like it, why should you lose yourself for some people do not understand, remember, as long as you feel happyThat's the most important thing, because it's what you're happy for yourself, it's what you really experience (of course, you can't do things that hurt others), then it's okay for you to feel happy, why bother what others are thinking? >>>More

You have to calm down! Your heart is not strong enough! You have to be strong inside! >>>More

First of all, are you sure that he really loves you? Isn't it just talking? Second, are some of the little things you said really just small things in his eyes? >>>More

I am a lively and cheerful person on weekdays, and I don't quarrel with people very much, but I know my character flaws, first of all, I found that my vanity is too strong, but I am "strong when I am strong, weak when I am weak", if someone bragged in front of me that they bought very expensive clothes or cosmetics, I also competed with her, saying that I bought more expensive, if I was a plain and indisputable person around me, I would not compare with her, but would be with her ** which house when the things were discounted. But now I am surrounded by people who love to compare, and my vanity is getting stronger and stronger. I don't like this kind of self, and I reflect on it every time I'm alone, but when I get to those people, I go back to the way I was. >>>More