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I think there are many ways to marry a girl from other provinces, and the first thing I can think of is that you can participate in more club activities in college and make more friends with girls from other provinces.
In this way, it is possible to find the one who really belongs to you among many friends, and many couples in the university are not in the same city, if the graduation season has not broken up, then when it comes to talking about marriage, then your marriage partner must be from other provinces.
The second option is that you can choose to work in other provinces. When you go to that city, you definitely have a very high probability of meeting a local girl.
Most of my friends who went to work in other provinces, boys and girls, were in the same city where they worked.
There is also a possibility of chance encounter, for ordinary people, this probability is very small, but as long as the opportunity comes, everything is possible, and the possibility is still very large.
If you meet by chance, it can be a bus, subway, train, shopping mall, and everything can be a place where you can have a half-word communication with the opposite sex.
However, I think it's more likely to be a chance encounter on the train, after all, everyone travels long distances, so it's rare to be in the same city as yourself. And it's very boring not to talk to someone on the train. As long as you're willing to strike up a conversation and someone accepts your pick-up, then you're a tenth of a success.
In fact, I personally think that if you can find a city that is the same as you, it is the best, after all, your living habits and language communication, at least there are not so many barriers.
Living is completely different from falling in love, I don't know why you want to find a provincial one, you are because you have a bad relationship with your parents, and you want to go to live in your city where she lives, far away from your parents.
It's still for the sake of your next generation to be smarter, no matter what your reason, I think it's better to be close to your parents, and you can take care of them conveniently in the future.
If you want to pick them up and live in another city, but have you ever thought that your parents are used to living in your hometown, and going to live in another city is not what they want at all.
Of course, everyone's pursuit and future planning are different, as long as you think it is feasible, you can do it.
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To be honest, this one is hard. Because whether it is relatives, friends or classmates around me, I have chatted with them, and found that they really only want to find a local province or do not want to marry in another province, and even only want to find a local or local person. Many out-of-town classmates in college don't plan to fall in love at all, since they can't find a place where they like and can't be together, they just hurt each other, so why bother doing it?
Therefore, if you want to go to another province, your efforts are not the main factor, the most important thing is that the girl can endure the pain of leaving home. <>
So when you like a girl from another province, you can first understand her intentions through all aspects, ask her if she can marry to a province, so far away from her parents, if she can really accept it, you can consider chasing hard, otherwise it will only increase sadness. I have a female classmate next to me, she and her ex-boyfriend met on the train, it was love at first sight, and the love was in full swing, but they broke up, and the girl still cried for a long time. Because when they talked about the future, the girl said that she was reluctant to leave her parents and her hometown.
A love that is destined to have no future is not necessary to go on.
There are two reasons why girls are generally reluctant to leave their hometowns, one is that they are really reluctant to leave their parents and do not want to be too far away from their parents; The other is because most children are only children, and when they leave their parents, they have no one to take care of them when they are old, so they want to be closer to their parents and help them. So you can start from these two aspects, you can find a girl from another province, but you can take into account that the province is too far from each other, or you are a special tyrant, go to their house and drive directly by private jet, then you can also do it. The second point is that you can consider finding a girl who is not an only child, or you can persuade the second elder to bring the second elder to live with you.
However, when people are old, they are generally more nostalgic for the old, and they should not leave their hometown easily.
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The best thing to do is that you choose to work in that province! Then you'll meet some girls from that province! If you are fated, you may enter into marriage!
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I think that at this stage when information is so developed, and there are a lot of outsiders, I think it's quite easy if you want to go to a girl from another province, you just need to go out and socialize more.
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Personally, I think if you want to marry a girl from another province, you can choose to go to another province to study, or work there, and then first get used to the customs there, and then see what kind of boys they like. That is to say, if you are a provincial, it is easy to attract other girls, and it feels like you will be different, and then it is easy to attract girls, and of course you must have a certain material foundation.
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In the university, every university has students from all over the world, and through this platform, you will meet a lot of female students, depending on whether you can grasp the opportunity.
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When I think about this topic, I don't feel like most people don't agree. I have also seen women who marry far away and do not lose, and they still live a colorful life, and there are also people who marry not far away who have a mess, and many times it is not the distance that determines the future, but the person and the family.
Although there is a geographical distance between you, I think this is not the main factor that can affect the subsequent development of the relationship, the daily relationship between you, the attitude of the other parent's towards you, I think this is the ultimate problem. Don't attribute all those reasons to distance, if you don't understand this kind of problem, you will lose wherever you marry.
I always hear people around me say that someone has come back from the province again, (the return here refers to leaving home from the province and returning home after divorce) and others are talking about what they say that no one who marries to another province has a good life, and uses this kind of point of view to educate the unmarried people around him.
This is not the case.
Why is it that the part of the woman who marries outside is not having a good time! Let's start with two points.
1. Young and immature.
When he was very young, he chose to drop out of school and go out to work, met what he thought was "love", got pregnant early, had to get married, and found that the man was not what he imagined after marriage, so he chose to leave.
2. Someone you met through the Internet, choose to run.
If the two parties don't know each other well enough, they will bring fantasies into this person, thinking that they have found their true destiny, and they don't have enough time to understand each other's family and choose to get married. After marriage, he found that the other party exposed his true nature and chose to leave.
The above are all incorrect ways, when you choose any of them, your marriage will not be consummated, don't say that it is not good to marry far away, in fact, you did not choose a good one.
Girls can choose to marry far away, but if you want to marry a girl in the past, you must first be independent, earn money to support yourself, because you have to face a strange environment, your circle of friends and contacts have to be replaced, you must be able to stand the loneliness, when your husband and friends chat and party, work and dinner, you must be able to tolerate yourself alone.
Secondly, I can endure being away from my parents and being cold-eyed in a foreign country and no one knows.
A lot of my emotions are emotions that I want to digest by myself.
If you can't accept the above, and you want to be a little padded jacket for your parents, then you must not choose to marry far away, because you will definitely regret your original choice. A good marriage is not about whether you marry far away, but about the person you choose in your heart and who will not fail you.
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Carried away by love.
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Because the girl loves this guy so much.
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There are many girls who are in love, they will find a boyfriend in a different place, because they are young and have not considered what problems will be brought by distant marriage, just a momentary impulse, love each other, coupled with the development of transportation and communication, regardless of the opposition of their parents, between true love and distant marriage, choose true love, and then choose to marry to a different place without hesitation, but after getting married, they found that there is a big problem in marrying far away, regretting that they chose to marry far away, and finally the two ended in divorce because of family problems. I didn't understand it when I was young, and I regretted it when I got married. In fact, there are many such cases around me, getting married and finding a long-distance husband, and then because of the distant marriage, not adapting to the local customs, and having no place to cry after the quarrel, I feel very lonely, and my parents are not around, and I can't feel a trace of warmth, etc., which leads to the final breakup and divorce.
What kind of impact will distant marriage have on us women?
Personally, I think that the first thing to bring about is isolation, parents all over the world feel sorry for their children, when the daughter-in-law and son have a conflict, the father-in-law and mother-in-law will be towards their son, but as a woman who marries far away, there is no one to help when parents and friends are not around, and the only husband who can rely on is not able to rely on it, and women will feel like losing their wings on one side and feeling isolated.
Secondly, if you have a child, the child can only be taken by the parents-in-law, and sometimes when the parents-in-law have other things to do, when they are busy, there is no one to help them. Especially when you encounter a person who is in the field and has no parents-in-law, you can only rely on yourself, once the husband is not good, the girl will often be on the verge of collapse.
There is also the fact that after girls marry in other places, they have a lot of living habits, and folk customs will be very different from where they grew up. It's okay if you can quickly adapt to accept this way, but if you can't accept it or the other party's family has requirements for her daughter-in-law, this woman will live a very difficult life, and over time she will have conflicts with her husband, and if there are many quarrels, the relationship between the two people will naturally fade, and finally she will choose to divorce.
Therefore, long-distance marriage needs to be carefully considered, and without a certain economic foundation and conditions, it is best not to choose long-distance marriage. Parents are here, not far away. It is best for parents to be close to their parents, so that they can take care of each other, which can not only help parents reduce their burden, but also help themselves to reduce their burden, and they will live a happier life and have a longer marriage.
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A lot of them are willing to do it! this society. Material society. People run after houses and cars. If you have money, you can do anything
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Choose the right time to arrange your trip, consider your work and life situation, and confirm the time you can take off and the number of days you can travel. Decide on a budget: Based on your financial situation, set a budget for your trip and try to plan your trip within your budget.
Book your flight or train ticket: Choose the right mode of transport according to your travel time and budget, and book in advance to get cheaper**. Book your stay:
Depending on the location and time of your visit, book your hotel or homestay in advance to ensure a safe and comfortable stay. Research the destination: Before you set off, research the customs, transportation, culture and other information of the destination to better understand the local situation and plan your trip.
Prepare your luggage: Depending on the day of your trip and the climate, prepare appropriate clothing and necessary travel supplies such as passports, wallets, mobile phones, chargers, etc. Stay safe:
When going out, safety is the primary consideration, especially for girls. Be vigilant at all times during the trip, avoid casual contact with strangers, avoid traveling alone, and ensure the safety of your belongings.
Is it to study in other provinces, or to work?
Learn. Did you go to college in the past?
No. Are you talking about skills training or middle and high school?
I'm already at work first, and I just want to go out and have a look.
If you want to travel or experience life in other provinces, you can follow the steps below: Confirm time: Choose the right time to arrange your trip, consider your work and life situation, and confirm the time and number of days you can take on vacation.
Determine your budget: Decide on a budget for your trip based on your financial situation and try to plan your trip within your budget. Order a flight or train ticket:
Choose the right mode of transport based on your travel time and budget, and book in advance for cheaper**. Book accommodation for the Imitation family: Book a hotel or homestay in advance according to the tourist location and travel time to ensure a safe and comfortable accommodation.
Research the destination: Before you set off, research the customs, transportation, culture and other information of the destination to better understand the local situation and plan your trip. Prepare your luggage:
Depending on the number of days and the climate of your trip, prepare appropriate clothing and necessary travel supplies such as passports, wallets, mobile phones, chargers, etc. Pay attention to safety: When going out, safety is the primary consideration, especially for girls.
Be vigilant at all times during the trip, avoid casual contact with strangers, avoid traveling alone, and ensure the safety of your belongings.
I don't know what to do, you are so thoughtful.
Good. Then I'll take a break and kiss <> first
Looks like you're on pretty good terms.
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