When you live apart, will you give up your original life to be with your lover?

If it were me, I would definitely choose to give up my original life to be with my lover. Since fate keeps us together, then we should not live up to it. And I don't think it's that hard to give up, but maybe you will get more after giving up!

As long as two people can live happily together, other factors are nothing!

I'm a girl and I hate being separated! I like to stay with my husband, I like him to take care of me; The last thing I can bear is to live alone. I think it's a very happy thing for two people to help each other and rely on each other together!

There are bound to be a lot of problems when we are separated, and I am not confident that neither of us will have problems. First of all, people's physiological needs are a problem that must be solved, and everyone is an adult, so they will definitely do what adults do. But even if my husband is only with other women to solve his physical needs, I can't stand it either.

I think those people are very dirty, so I will choose to be with my husband all the time.

If two people have been separated for a long time, they will give others a chance to take advantage of it! If someone takes a fancy to him at this time and knows that his wife is not around, he will definitely take the initiative to send him to the door and deliberately seduce him. These people will try all kinds of methods, show all kinds of charms, and will do whatever it takes to take other people's men for themselves.

Once she conceives her husband's child in various ways, then I will most likely be forced to divorce, which is something that every woman does not want to happen.

I feel like I'm going to live the same life in any city, so it's not a problem to give up my current life and go to his city. I lost my job here, and I can find another job in my husband's city, as long as I have a skill, I am not afraid of not finding a job. And I care more about the relationship with my husband, I don't want to give up the relationship I have worked so hard to build with him to other women.

So, since I love him, I will leave everything behind and follow him!

For now, I don't think I'm going to live with my husband and I'm very happy with my life now. I've been staying with my mom and dad, and although my baby doesn't often get to see my husband, he's still young.

If I'm here, my mom and dad can occasionally help me, so I don't have to work so hard with the kids alone. Whether it is the convenience of life or the level of consumption, it is still quite okay, and I grew up here, so life must be very easy, without any uncomfortable or unfamiliar feeling.

I deeply understand the importance of my father's baby, so that the baby will be healthier physically and mentally, but this should be two or three years later. I also thought about living with my husband before, but I went to live in Shanghai for a while on May Day, and I was very dissatisfied.

The period when I went to Shanghai was the busiest and most tiring since I gave birth, and my husband was used to working 9 to 5 and coming back at night to work overtime, so he could hardly help me.

Because the baby was brought up by me almost alone, he was very nervous to go to a strange environment, he wanted me to be with him every minute, even if I wanted to go to the toilet, he didn't allow him, just crying in the living room.

And my husband can't help me even after work, he still has a lot of work to do, so I have to cook, watch the baby, I don't even have time to eat. Only during the confinement period, I had back pain for a while, and I never felt pain again, but during the time I went to Shanghai, I couldn't sleep at night because of the pain.

No matter how strong and brave I am, no matter how motherly I am, but I am not made of steel, I don't have time to eat, and I can't sleep because of the pain, even if I am a strong person, I will probably be exhausted sooner or later.

There is also a very real problem, the house where my husband lives now is a unit, if it is our own house, it is also our small family, but my son and I live with him will affect his work, and it will also cause others to have opinions about him.

For me now, I have gone from looking forward to reuniting with my husband at the beginning to now with an indifferent attitude, after all, every mother who revolves around her child will be worn out by her child's enthusiasm for life, at least she no longer expects everything related to her person, and only taking care of her child is the greatest wish.

I think this kind of thing has to be discussed and compromised by both sides, not unilaterally.

First of all, it is definitely not okay to live apart from the two places, you have to say that it is okay to have a long-distance relationship when you are in love, and you are still married and separated, so what is the difference between it and divorce, so one party must make a sacrifice and move to the other half of the city, which is a complete home and marriage. However, you said that you are not together, what ...... are you married?

Secondly, as for who is going to make changes, it mainly depends on how well everyone mixes, I think, it should be the bad mix, and the good ones should be found, so that the two people are generally average, or about the same. Here, I especially condemn those who blindly believe that the woman should give up everything to find the man, or that the man should accompany the woman if he loves her. You say that you don't even look like a person, why should people give up their careers and connections to find someone who has nothing?

So it depends.

In the end, no matter who goes to whom, there is no shame, because many boys will feel that I go to find a girl is to eat soft rice, which is very embarrassing, in fact, as long as you have the ability, you can have enough food and clothing to go to **, why bother with a momentary ability? Moreover, life is like this, is it still life that remains the same? After a long time, it is also a very good choice to stay in another place, maybe you can also meet the second spring of your career!

Anyway, if it were me, I would be willing to give up my current life in order to be with my lover, because I feel that everything in this world is not as good as being with my beloved, if there is no one I love around, then what is life called?

As soon as the husband and wife got married, they faced separation between the two places, and as women, they must go to other cities for their lovers to develop. Because the husband and wife spend more and more time together, they will have a good understanding of the feelings of the two people. If women are reluctant to give up their jobs in their cities and lose the people they love the most, it is obviously not worth it.

In any city, women can find a job that they are satisfied with, and even if they do not have a job, being by their husband's side will make them feel a great sense of happiness. <>

When many couples are considering getting married, they have no way to compromise with each other because of the different regions where they live. If you choose to maintain the status quo, you will definitely get into trouble with each other to the point of divorce, because not long after getting married, the relationship between the two people is not particularly stable. As the separation becomes longer and longer, two people will also feel emotionally that they have nothing to talk about with each other.

Slowly, men will have ideological desertion, and after being with other women for a long time, they will have feelings for others. <>

Many women want to be able to show their abilities at work, but as the old saying goes, a woman is virtuous if she is not talented. Women should realize that after getting married, they should put their minds on the family, even if their husband's work ability is not as strong as that of women, they should be back to being a little woman in their relationship. Let her husband work hard and be her husband's strongest backing.

It is a very happy thing for my husband to be able to see that there is still someone waiting for him to come home when he comes back from work. <>

Both husband and wife must learn to compromise with each other in career problems, and if the wife is unwilling to give up her job, then as a man, she should also change her relationship for the sake of the two people. If neither of them makes an effort for this, the two people will always live apart from each other, and they will also be blamed by their parents. Parents think that young couples who have just gotten married, two people should live together, no matter what the feelings of the two people are, being together is to cultivate the feelings of the two people.

As soon as I got married, I faced the separation of the two places, and I think I should go to other cities for the sake of my lover, because no matter how I go, as long as the other party is there, there will be a taste of home, and everything can start again, which is more conducive to the relationship between husband and wife.

The so-called newlywed Yan'er, if the two places are separated just after getting married, it will definitely affect each other's feelings, after all, they need each other's company at this time, and a long time of separation will make the feelings of the two people questioned. No matter how much you go to work, it is not a problem for newlyweds, as long as you love each other enough, you will overcome all difficulties, and at the same time make the relationship between two people stronger. <>

We must know that the purpose of work is to live a better life, and if we can't even take care of our family, we will regret it even more, not to mention that the other party has just married us and needs more companionship. In fact, for most people who have just gotten married, no matter how they go, as long as they are there, they will have the taste of home, they will not care where they are, as long as they can see each other at any time, it is the greatest happiness, and they will bring satisfaction to themselves. Money is never enough, and a long time in a different place will definitely affect each other's feelings, and it can be imagined that it is unstable at the beginning.

If you really love each other, you will treat each other as your own, and you will not compromise for the sake of your work. No matter what decision you make after marriage, you should think about each other, don't just think about yourself, this will definitely hurt the other party, and the existing problems cannot be solved in different places, and only face-to-face will better deal with conflicts.

Don't choose to live separately when you get married, this will have a great impact on each other and will make the distance between each other's hearts widen. If you really love each other, you should think about each other and bring each other to your side, so that you will have more protection and dependence, and bring warmth to each other.

I think that if you are facing separation as soon as you get married, you should not go to another city for the sake of your lover; Because if they are just married, the separation between husband and wife plays a very important role in their lives, because this plays a very important role in the future run-in between the two of them to a certain extent, and the proper separation will also make the relationship between the two of them deeper.

I don't think there's any need to go to another city for your lover if you're married. Because they are already married, the proper separation of the two places also helps the relationship to become deeper, and it is inevitable that there will be no freshness or boredom when two people are together, if the other party goes to the other place and returns home once in a while, so that the two of you still have a sweeter and happier relationship.

Personally, I think it should be, because for a good relationship, the important thing is that two people go both ways, and if the two places are separated frequently, the relationship between these two people will fade.

I think it depends on the situation, because if you develop well in this place, I think you can develop in this place now, but if the two of you just want to develop in one place, I think you can go, but since you are married, you may definitely have a better relationship, and this can be done.

Because why, that is, if you get married, two people may be in the same place, you may help each other some, because you are at work, in daily life, there must be pressure or problems, at this time, if two people are together, it may be easier to bring support to each other, or let encourage each other is to persevere, that is, when encountering difficulties or problems, they can support each other to go on.

But if you are in two cities, you may only have to fight **** or chat, so there is definitely no actual meeting that is more beneficial to be able to meet every day.

And if you are in two places, you may not feel it at first, but when you are in the future, you may have children or other things. So my personal feeling is that in fact, if two people can develop in one city, it is actually the best, because the two of you are married, not the process of falling in love, if two people fall in love, long-distance relationship or what? It's still okay with this, but you're married to this.

It is best to try to live together if you have the ability or the conditions.

Because if you live together, it is not easy to have problems, and if there is a problem, the two of you can solve it quickly, because you are together, but if you are in a different place, you may be easy to have problems, and if there is no way to solve them, it is easy to have problems, or the breakdown of the relationship.