My colleague always likes to rub my car at work, and I hate it, how can I refuse?

I think that when you encounter such a situation, you should decisively refuse, anyway, my colleague is already shameless, and we don't need to give him face again.

You can deliberately leave late, and tell your colleague that you have something to do today and can't bring him to work, and he will definitely understand what you mean.

Tell him directly if you can share the fuel cost, since he can cheekily rub your car, then you don't have to be polite to him.

You directly say I'm sorry, I don't go home with you every day, and this way of refusing is more tactful.

If you don't want to be rubbed by a colleague, you can refuse directly. Each other is an adult, and they should know how to deal with people, and they can't be so dead-faced. If you are embarrassed to say such words, you can indicate to the other party the current oil price.

It is very expensive, and if you want to rub the car, you should pay half of the gas price. If the business quotient is higher, half of the money will be paid. If a colleague is unwilling to pay, you can just decline the colleague's request to rub the car and ignore them.

There are a lot of strange people in the workplace, and some people think that they live on the same road as their colleagues who have cars, so they want their colleagues to take them to work and then send them off work. Such a person is also very speechless, although rubbing the car did not delay anything, but others let you take the car is love, not letting you take the car is also duty, not at all is your exclusive driver, why let you seep into the car all the time? If you are too good to your colleagues, it will make your colleagues take your contribution for granted, and they will say irresponsible things to you, than now Cong Jufeng asked you to bring a little breakfast, and let you come a little later tomorrow, because he wants to go to bed and doesn't want to be so early.

Such a colleague is very low EQ and not worth getting along with, you can cut off contact with him and only be a superficial colleague.

If you feel that the above is too blunt, you can say that you are going to pick up your girlfriend or boyfriend in the future and have no time to pick you up. Colleagues who have a car should have a bottom line and not be too weak, otherwise they may be bullied by colleagues in the office to become their driver. The current oil price is relatively expensive, and the daily fuel consumption is very high.

If the other party still refuses to let him take the car, thinking that it is very wrong for you not to let him take the car, you can not drive yourself, you can go to the subway to experience life, and escape for a while. Then go for a drive, and come a little earlier or a little later, and don't bump into your colleagues.

Everyone must know how to refuse, especially part-time workers, otherwise they are very likely to delegate a lot of things to others, and they will also be very unhappy in the workplace.

You can directly say to the closed party, the recent pressure is very strong, and the recent oil money is also very expensive, I hope the other party can pay attention to it, and also guess that the other party can reimburse himself, and the other party will know what it means when he listens to Feng Liang.

You must refuse outright, and never feel embarrassed, because you are not obligated to do so, you can say that you are going elsewhere today, and you are not on the way with him.

The most active to tell the other party that there will actually be a lot of pressure in life, and the recent ** is also very expensive, hoping that the other party can go home by himself.

Ask a friend to play together, and ask a friend to play together when a colleague rubs the car. I complained to my friends all the way, saying that I don't have money to refuel now, and I am so poor that I joke with my friends about sharing the gas bill. Then ask your friend to offer to share the gas cost.

Even if your colleagues don't talk all the way, you already know it. If you want to continue to rub the car, you can share the cost together. If you don't want to share, don't hesitate to continue rubbing the car?

Of course, there are such "cheeky" colleagues, it doesn't matter, try the next method.

When it comes to "cheeky" colleagues, it's okay to deliberately stagger off work. I haven't finished my work today and have to work overtime, so my colleagues can't wait for you all the time. If I'm waiting for you, let him wait.

It was fate to meet such a patient and thick-skinned colleague. Perhaps, people have feelings for you, intentionally, and you don't react to your own head attack. Or leave as soon as you get off work, and before the other person can react, you've already opened up the situation.

There is also a way to "eliminate" 99% of car rubbing and borrowing money from each other. Don't borrow too much, borrow thousands. If he refuses, there's no reason to rub your car again.

The human psyche is like this. If they reject you, they won't ask you to do anything. If he still wants to rub your car, he may lend it to you.

If that's the case, you borrowed the money and didn't pay it back. Don't mention it, he rubs your car and doesn't make you pay back. That person wants you to pay back, so don't show it off and put things on the table.

The above moves are useless, what should I do if my colleagues are invulnerable? Don't drive yourself, take the subway for a few days or cycle to work. You may have to work on your own, but in order to get rid of the phenomenon of rubbing cars, you can try this method.

It's all a tactful approach, because colleagues express favor. If euphemisms don't work, stop bothering your colleagues and just say no. Tell them directly that I don't want anyone to ride in my car.

Say what is in your heart, and we will achieve our purpose. Don't put up with it. Sometimes it's best to be clear.

Sometimes with good intentions, just along the way, with others, in line with the principle of convenience for others. The essence of this is good, it is good, but sometimes good intentions do bad things. If the car accidentally has an accident on the road, resulting in injuries to the people in the same car, the owner of the car is liable.

If a passenger is seriously injured, disabled, or killed, then these troubles may affect their later life and career, which is actually a risk.

If you refuse, you can find an excuse, such as making an appointment with a friend to go shopping or dinner in advance, and then take you home next time you have time. Or that I didn't drive today, and I drove again another day.

You can tell a colleague that you have something to do after work and are not on your way today. You can also tell your friends that you are going to your mother-in-law's house for dinner, and you won't go home today. After a few times, my colleagues also know what you mean.

It can be said that it is inconvenient to pick up your girlfriend or wife to commute to work, or you can take the bus and subway for a few days to commute by bicycle, and there is also that you need to take a detour for something.

To say no, you need to find the perfect excuse to tell your colleagues that you are going to see friends after work, or where to go shopping, indicating that you are not on the way.

Tell the other party that it is not on the way or that you have to pick up others, if it really doesn't work, just refuse, you can't delay, if you drag it will make things even more difficult to solve, so you have to make a decision immediately.

You can tell the other party that you have a lot of things to do after work and will not go home directly, and hope that the other party will understand.

I am often rubbed by my colleagues, although it is a drop-by.

If the relationship is not particularly good, I will feel awkward after a long time, but because of my colleagues, it is not good to refuse directly, so I can only force a smile.

In fact, there are quite a lot of such colleagues, and he pretends to be blind and takes it for granted, and we can skillfully refuse this situation.

This excuse is the most common and the best one, and it can be said by the way. For example, if you want to go to a friend's house, you want to go to a relative's house, you want to ask for all kinds of places, in short, as long as you go in the opposite direction from your colleagues.

Such an excuse can both be effective and tactfully rejected. Just use such an excuse several times in a row, cheeky.

A thinner colleague understands that he doesn't want to rub the car anymore, and if he is thick-skinned, we can also try another hall scum empty method.

You can call your friends or family members in advance, act for your colleagues, let your friends come to you every day and then take your colleagues to get off work together, and on the way back, you keep complaining to your friends, "Gasoline has risen again, I have paid the mortgage, and I am very poor now", I hope my friends can share the fuel cost with me.

My friend promised to bear the fuel cost with you, and after this scene, my colleague could understand that if I wanted to continue to rub the car, I would have to share the fuel cost, and my colleague would feel that it was inappropriate, so I was embarrassed to continue to rub the car.

What should I do if I meet a colleague who is very thick-skinned? You can stagger the time of getting off work, deliberately drag the work to the end of work, the general colleague can not wait for a piece of overtime, if he wants to accompany you, then let him wait slowly, after a few days of grinding until ten o'clock, it is estimated that he will give up and continue to rub the car.

There is also a trick that can solve 90% of the cheekiness, that is, take the initiative to borrow money from colleagues, don't borrow too much each time, borrow hundreds of hundreds, don't pay back the money first, borrow several times in a row, if the colleague finds an excuse not to lend you, then he will have no reason to rub the car in the future.

If Brother Jing often rubs your car, you should tell him directly that the royal car needs to be refueled, and he should give you a part of the fuel fee, if he doesn't want to, the dust wheel will let him take the bus by himself.

I think you can tell him that he won't drive the car after that, and that his wife is driving, so the two of us take the bus together.

My colleagues often rub my car, how can I politely refuse? Just be straightforward, speak out bravely, and know that on the road of life, you will always meet more than one person who loves to take advantage of others. Next time, you just go straight and see what she says, such a self-aware person doesn't need to give her a good face, why is there always such a strange thing around her, and then there are always some people who pretend to be confused.

Of course, I don't understand your real situation, and of course this kind of thing needs verbal communication in order to reach a peaceful solution. I feel like when I was in college, there was always one person in my dorm room. Most of us in the dormitory are to buy snacks and fruits when we let each other eat, but there is always a child, never buy, eat ours but relish, at that time we may be in the same mood as you, and then we eat our own, no need, we are just roommates, after all, each of our families is not particularly wealthy, who is not able to deduct and search.

Don't put up with things that you don't feel comfortable with, it's better to make others uncomfortable than to be uncomfortable, it's not good to be autistic. My colleague rubs your car every day, you don't leave after work, she doesn't leave, so you are about to be autistic, it's this situation, you have to hurry up and say no to your colleagues. In the final analysis, the colleague relationship is a working relationship, and there are intricate interests between each other.

Many people who rub the car are egoists, and they feel that it is natural to take your car, never mention the matter of gas money, and always only buy their own share of ...... for breakfastThat day, he was not allowed to rub the car, and some people immediately turned their faces. So don't let your colleague ride in your car easily, learn to refuse, for example, after work, you have to pick up your wife; Friends came, went out to eat, etc. If you have a wife, you can use her as a shield.

You have to let the people who rub the car understand that it is a favor to let you take the car, and it is fair not to let you take the car.

You can say this, my car is not in good condition during this time, and I often throw a sight on the road, for fear of delaying everyone's time, so I will repair it in a few days and carpool together.

You can just tell your colleagues that you're going out to do something, and it's not a particularly good behavior to rub someone else's car all the time.

At this time, you can tell him that you are going to take another path, not a drop-by, and let him go home by himself, so that he may understand what you mean.

You can directly refuse, or you can tell the other party that the oil money for the past two days is really expensive, and the other party will definitely understand this sentence.