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I don't think this is a generation gap, maybe this is the difference between boys and girls in understanding love, girls are more in pursuit of simplicity, romance, and nature. Boys may have desires! If you have been dating for more than half a year, you will always mention opening a room, and say, "How can there be a very important use...
I don't think this man really loves you, or that this love is selfish, or... If he really loves you, he will know how to respect you and cherish you, instead of blindly satisfying himself and not considering things from your standpoint.
Although the society and the times are different now, everyone's concepts have been updated and the house has been opened, but girls should be responsible for themselves and be good to themselves, which does not mean that you don't love him. Only if the man is responsible, you are willing to entrust, he knows how to cherish you, and you can continue well, it is better. This is of course my personal opinion, not that I am very conservative, I think that the relationship has reached a certain time, with a foundation, even if you are not married, ml is normal, naturally, on the contrary, if love just plays the role of your ml, it is really ironic, such a boyfriend, it is better to break off, find a simple one (but some people say that there is no one simple man now, hehe) to fall in love, after all, there is time and energy in college for four years.
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It's not called a generation gap, it's a different understanding of love. You are innocent, naïve; And your boyfriend's interpretation of love is not as simple as yours.
Here's my opinion, the choice is yours. Hopefully, you can look at a relationship wisely, especially if you are young. Don't bury your innocence in the man who doesn't love you from the heart, if it were me, I wouldn't love the man in my body, although men have this need, but what is the way they seek it and what is the way you solve it, (I can't explain it one by one) but you yourself actually know whether such a person has a future at all.
I hope you can be happy.
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Every man will think like that, but some say it and some hide it in his heart, he must like you, otherwise he wouldn't say that, but as a girl, you still have to be cautious, unless he can become someone you can rely on in this life, don't pay easily.
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It's not a generation gap, it's men who have this desire, especially now.
The idea of a 19-year-old is still a bit naïve, and what people think about at the age of 22 is not a simple hand-holding problem. But I'm very optimistic about you, don't give easily, unless you have seen both parents, and you are really ready to go on forever, not because of simple loneliness to come together.
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Let me tell you: Sister, you are too conservative, what age is it now? Let your mind go, or your boyfriend will leave you.
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Remember! If the person in front of you is sure that the person you are married to, then live together!
If it's just everywhere, forget it! Don't let love hurt yourself!
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The biggest difference between a 19-year-old and a 29-year-old is that I will never want to come to Japan again.
When we fell in love at the age of 19, we always felt that there was still a lot of time for us to waste, quarrel, and hurt, and we always felt that the coming days were long, but we didn't know that some people would be a lifetime as soon as they let go, and then we left all regrets.
When we fell in love at the age of 29, we learned to cherish the people in front of us, knowing that this life comes and goes, and it is not long in the future, this time is the best, the moment is the best, and I never want to lose you again.
The biggest difference between a 19-year-old lovelorn and a 29-year-old lovelorn is that I will no longer be entangled and painfully waiting for someone every day.
When I fell out of love at the age of 19, I felt like I was going to die, the sky was falling, and I cried so much that I was in hysteria. I swear I'm going to wait for you to come back, and then I can waste years of crying for you.
When I fell out of love at the age of 29, I cried all night, but the next day I would still wipe away my tears and work hard for life, I didn't wait for you anymore, I want to work hard for myself in a better direction, and it doesn't matter if I don't see you in the future.
During this long phase, we all slowly become mature. Maturity is to learn to say goodbye, learn to make trade-offs, and learn to really let go of a person.
When someone suddenly disappears from your life, no longer asking why, it's just that it's time for him to go, you just have to accept it.
Whether it's a friend or a lover!
We have to get used to anyone's hot and cold, and we also have to look down on anyone's drifting away.
I had the same experience at your age, but I was different from you in that I went to the army at the age of 18, and in the second year of the army, I began to think, what can I do after I leave the army, fortunately I was assigned to the infrastructure unit of the power system, and I didn't understand anything at the beginning, and the salary was not high, in fact, people who participated in the work at the age of 19-22 were so ambitious, with a relatively high vision, and were not satisfied with the status quo, this idea is true, but in order to change the status quo, it would be wrong, Any work is done from the grassroots level, don't complain about anything, just concentrate on doing your part, the opportunity is for those who are prepared, you are willing to do it sooner or later, the opportunity will fall on you, come on! I'm still working hard, and my annual income is about 5w, and at the earliest, 2w a year, I spent 3 years and almost 4 years. You just need to remember one thing, anyone is born a blank slate, they don't know anything, they can do it, you can do it, and finally send you a sentence to the army, you know - I will, you will - I am fine, you are fine - I am absolute.
To a certain extent, it is possible, but it will not grow very tall, only 1 3cm at most, it is recommended to do more exercise, such as skipping rope and the like. Because the bone cheese basically stops developing when you become an adult, if you really want to grow taller, taking medication is the only way to go.
Rub a little slip and smoke slowly.
Remember one sentence: no one will help you remember what you are not good about, and you don't need to deliberately please anyone, be true to yourself, and do whatever you want. If you want to think that anything is not a big deal, you will not feel nervous with this mentality, and many things will be solved naturally when the tension is removed.
First of all, love is not the same as marriage.
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