What is the biggest difference between a selfish person and an unselfish person?

Selfish people will first think and look at the problem from their own point of view, deal with things, how to do what is beneficial to themselves, and how to ensure that they are not harmed. There's nothing wrong with that, but it makes people and animals more similar. And when selfish people do such things, they are often unaware of it, and they react purely naturally.

Unselfish people will consider others a little more, feel that they are humble and don't care, as long as others are good, others are happy, he will be happy, unselfish people seem to often suffer, but in fact he has won the respect and love of others, spiritual gains.

Selfishness and non-selfishness, there is one more word "no", this is the difference.

Selfish people are really selfish, and everyone can see it.

People who are not selfish are actually selfish, but no one can see it.

So it's not obvious to others, that's the biggest difference.

A selfish woman will be abandoned, and a selfless woman will be celebrated.

Selfish people will never be happy and happy; Unselfish people will be happy :)

Human nature is selfish, and it doesn't matter if you have money.

As soon as it comes to men and women, it is very troublesome and disgusting. Don't talk about it.

People who love money and rise like life, don't want money to die, don't want love for money, care about pounds, and love to take advantage of small advantages are the most selfish. People who truly serve the people wholeheartedly, forget their lives, and serve the public wholeheartedly, and have the spirit of Lei Feng are not selfish.

Great people*** and those who love, support, revere, and revere *** will not be selfish; The villain and his followers are the most selfish.

The people who led the years of the revolutionary war and the first thirty years after the founding of the People's Republic of China were not selfish, and the people after the emergence of the Western model and private property were the most selfish? During the years of the revolutionary war, how many rich daughters and sons gave up their family's material comforts and went to Yan'an, the holy land of the revolution, to endure hardships, do you say they are selfish? In the first 30 years after the founding of the People's Republic of China, morality and filial piety were highly civilized, and leading cadres, like ordinary people, had to work in the fields, eat and live together.

Selfishness is a product of the creation of private property, and it is also a product of capitalism! Only a Westernized system produces selfishness.

I don't think you're being particularly selfish, but you're just thinking a little bit more. You are afraid that after the notes you have compiled are used by others, your grades will improve more than yourself. It's understandable, so let's take a look at my experience.

There are many manifestations of selfishness, the most common of which is not caring for others when eating. When I was in my first relationship, when my boyfriend went to dinner with me, he never took care of me, never asked me what I wanted to eat when he ordered, but would gobble it up immediately after ordering it himself.

I remember one time I wanted to eat spicy food, but the other party felt that I couldn't eat spicy food, I wanted to put some chili peppers on my own, and the other party thought I was hypocritical. I know that the other party can't eat spicy food, I should understand, but why don't you buy two servings when you buy food, one is spicy and the other is not spicy.

Later, the two of us also broke up because of the meal, and in the end this person became more and more excessive, and it didn't matter if I was full or not during the meal. When the two of us eat, we often pay for the AA system, but every time I always can't eat, because after the meal comes, the other party eats half of it, and the remaining half, and the two of us are half of each other, this kind of life makes me feel particularly aggrieved.

Once I went to eat Malatang with the other party, I went to get the soup, but I didn't expect the other party to eat all the dishes, and ate all the dishes I liked, at that moment, I felt that this person was really not suitable for living together, because it was too selfish.

With a selfish person, you may not even have enough to eat, which is not an exaggeration at all, because I have experienced it myself. Therefore, if a person is particularly selfish when eating, don't be with this person, because after being with this person, you can't even solve your own stomach.