Is it really good to let children decide their own schedules freely?

I think it is not good for children to allocate their own time, many children lack self-control and often waste their rest time for entertainment, which will affect children's daily classes, learning and life; I suggest that parents of children below high school should strictly control and manage their children's rest time, after all, at this time, the child's three views are not yet perfect, and there is a lack of consideration for the problem, and parents should properly control and guide their children, so as not to let their children waste their rest time.

I still remember when we were young, we were always addicted to all kinds of entertainment activities, and we didn't want to sleep at noon, and at that time we didn't think about many things, so we liked to play, and we just wanted to play, and the class was for the sake of getting out of class. Therefore, parents must control their children's work and rest time when they are young, and do not let their children waste precious time in vain, which may lead to children falling asleep in class.

However, for some children who are close to adulthood or have become adults, parents should give their children the power to manage their own time, and let go when they should let go, at this time they should cultivate more children's various independent abilities, and it is also very important to manage time, not until the child goes to society, but will not manage time, at this time the impact on the child is greater, and there are some people around me who do not manage time, they will waste most of their rest time to entertain, play mobile phones, and go to Internet cafes, As a result, the rest of the study life is listless and unable to concentrate.

Therefore, parents should have different management and education methods for children at different stages, for younger children or parents should properly manage their children's time, after all, children are greedy for play, for older children or let him be independent as soon as possible, for time management, he will slowly realize the importance of it and gradually learn to manage his own time, for some children can not manage their time well, I think they should have to pay for the consequences of their actions when they grow up.

Not good. Because the child is still young, the control of time is very weak, and the concept of time is not very strong, so it is better for adults to manage it.

Not good. Because the child has no self-control and cannot restrain himself. Parental supervision is needed, not on the child's own.

It's not good, children's nature is to play, you don't care about being more unscrupulous, but don't be too strict.

How important is a good routine for children? How to adjust your child's schedule? Cultivating a good routine for children is, in my opinion, to improve children's self-discipline.

Self-discipline is very important in a child's development, not only in his childhood, but also in his life. Self-discipline is very important for everyone, if we lack self-discipline, many times we are confused, we don't know whether to do something or not? Can you do it?

When is the right time to do it? In this way, many times we are wasted, and we often find that we feel that we are busy every day, but when we look back, we find that we have not done much in the morning. At this time, do we need to go back and see if we have a problem?

A person with self-discipline tends to schedule his time as reasonably as possible. Every day is planned, when to do what should be done, in his heart, there is an arrangement. So how can we develop children's self-discipline?

I think the first thing is to let children learn to make plans, first make a medium- and long-term plan. For example, what kind of goals do I plan to achieve this semester? Then refine your plan, for example, what kind of goals you want to achieve each month, down to the point of each day of the week.

Although this may seem a bit tedious, when a child develops such a habit, he knows what he should do every day, and his daily goals in life are very clear. In this way, his life will be more fulfilling. Of course, the plan may not be able to keep up with the changes, so you must learn to modify and adjust the plan at any time.

The next step is execution, and with a sound plan, you must have strong execution. Execute as much as possible according to your own plan. In the implementation of this part, parents should do a role of supervision, and slowly after the child develops this habit, it can be said that it will be useful for himself.

The above are some of my personal suggestions, I hope they can.

For children, it is very important to have a regular work and rest routine. It's important to have a good schedule. Be consistent. It is usually recommended to go to bed between 9 and 10 p.m. and clear your bed from 7 to 8 a.m.

A good routine is important for children's physical development and learning. In order to adjust the child's work and rest, it is necessary to communicate with the child in advance about the specific rest time, so as not to make the child feel abrupt and unwilling to sell when the time comes.

A good schedule is still very important for children; Help your child adjust their schedule and develop good habits.

The morning of a school-going child is often accompanied by the busyness and chaos of the whole family. Parents not only need to wake up the child who was greedy to play and sleep late yesterday, but also urge the child to wash up and let him eat peacefully after the child gets up slowly.

When everything is done, you look at the children who have stepped on the dots and walk into the school gate, and you finally breathe a sigh of relief.

This disaster-like morning is a common occurrence for many parents. In fact, the core of this question is that because the child lacks a good sense of time, he always procrastinates time again and again, resulting in a tight time every day. So, as a parent, how to cultivate children's concept of time and let children have good work and rest habits?

1.Make a schedule for your schedule.

The premise of letting children have a sense of time is to develop a concept of time for children and develop a reasonable schedule according to their personality traits.

When making a plan, you can involve your child as well, and you need to let your child understand what the plan does and what it is used for. In this way, children can have a sense of participation and realize that this is something that needs to be taken seriously and strictly enforced.

2.Let your child own their own time.

Parents need to give their children such space to handle their own time. Parents do too much for their children, which is not conducive to shaping children's character habits.

Parents give their children time to complete the learning tasks they need to complete, and then give the child free time. It doesn't need to be particularly long, 1-2 hours a day will do.

3.Prepare an alarm clock.

An alarm clock is the nemesis of bed-sleepers, and if you don't have one at home, you need to prepare an alarm clock. When buying an alarm clock, you can bring your child (in fact, let your child participate in things, which is very important for the shaping of thinking ability), in the process of choosing an alarm clock with your child, you can talk more about the structure and function of the clock, the language is as simple and easy to understand as possible, and then let the child choose the style he needs. First, the child has a sense of participation and will not be too repulsive.

Second, the alarm clock does play an obvious role in bed-lying behavior.

What needs to be done before the formal formulation of ** is to analyze the student's situation.

Key points for developing a study plan:

First, students are playful, so it is impossible to completely change their playful nature, so it is absolutely indispensable to let them play during their work and rest time.

Second, students are lazy, so they must have a weekly time to do housework to exercise their diligence.

Thirdly, students are impatient in learning, so they should never be allowed to study the same subject for a long time.

Fourth, students are smart but must be stressed, so it is important that the notes in the schedule are clearly indicated to the students"Fouls"The principle of punishment.

Steps to develop a study plan for a Hail Year Old student:

Here we need to use the ** tools that come with the office software, which will be very convenient.

The first step is to make the basic ** into the following style:

The second step is to exclude all the student's tuition time, and then take into account the student's commuting and commuting time when taking cram school. Through the performance of the chart, it is not difficult to find that the parents of this student have made a major mistake in the arrangement of the student's extracurricular make-up time. It can be clearly seen in the picture that the students' Sunday schedule is too full, and they should be asked to reduce the students' Chinese painting or English classes on Sundays.

The third step is to find out the latest time for students to arrive home every day, and observe the longest time for students to write homework every day, and exclude the time for students to write homework within **.

The fourth step is to fill in the child's schedule, add notes, beautify and print it according to our analysis before formulating the **.

First of all, parents should arrange their weekend time reasonably, try to let their children go to bed early and get up early according to the normal schedule, and arrange their children's lunch breaks as much as possible. During the activity, parents should pay attention to the combination of movement and static, do not let the child be in a state of excitement all the time, and do not let the child play too tired.

Secondly, once the schedule is disrupted and the child does not get up in the morning, parents must not wait for the child to wake up naturally, which is not only not conducive to the adjustment of the work and rest time, but also will have the opposite effect. Parents can **some children usually preferred** or cartoons to attract children to get up as soon as possible, and the celebration group will enter the kindergarten on time. In this way, the child does not get enough sleep, and the nap time at noon is naturally faster, and the nap time is earlier, and the time to fall asleep at night will be earlier.

If you continue to do this for two days, your child's routine will return to normal.

Because all kinds of habits are a chain of conditioning. It can be seen that in order to develop any kind of habit, it is necessary to persevere and persist in doing it according to certain requirements, so that this behavior gradually forms a conditioned reflex. To develop good living habits, you must insist on following a certain schedule of work and rest.

At the beginning, teachers and parents should cooperate with each other, often remind and supervise children, and form good habits. "Special circumstances" must not be used as an excuse to arbitrarily disrupt the prescribed work and rest time. For example, if the child goes to bed at 8:30 a.m., because there is a good program lurking or other things, it is agreed that the child will go to bed after watching the TV show or doing something; Originally, it was stipulated that children should get up at 6:30, because parents let their children get up late when they have something, so it is difficult for children to develop good work and rest habits.

In short, it is best to cultivate good habits in the preschool stage, once the child has formed bad habits, it is difficult for him to adapt to the collective life of the kindergarten with the kindergarten, and of course it will also affect the child's learning activities.