I m so old, but I ve never been in love!

I don't think it's a fat factor, maybe your personality is not cheerful enough, or your social circle is too small, causing you to meet the opposite sex too little, I think: first of all, you can change what you can change, that is, **, of course, people are more confident when they are thin. Generally speaking, eat light meals, eat slowly, plus a moderate amount of exercise, such as brisk walking, dancing aerobics, can be thin, if you really can't persevere, you believe in yourself from the heart that you are an attractive person, also called accepting your appearance to build self-confidence.

Second, ask your relatives and friends to help you pay attention to whether there is a suitable blind date. It's yours who's going to be among the people you know from friends and family.

The personality of chubby girls is quite extreme in all the things I've seen, either they're cheerful, they're very introverted, and they're very up-to-the-road.

In fact, I think it is necessary to be appropriate, but it doesn't have to be too thin.

Generally, love at first sight cannot last long, and it also depends on long-term running-in.

Have you ever seen an interview? A man took a chubby wife, his wife was very inferior, and she didn't want to go out with her husband, for fear of embarrassing her husband, but she was very virtuous, kind, and very filial to her husband's parents, and her husband never disliked her, and dragged her to take wedding photos.

Although there are fewer such people in such a society, I would like to say that people's beauty is multifaceted, not necessarily fat is not beautiful, you have many other advantages, but no one has come to discover them for the time being.

No. Appearance is just one factor. You can find a fat boy. Maybe you will have a lot of language in common.

Oh, yes! Why haven't you been in a relationship? Find the reason from yourself!

First of all, there are some changes, so that people will feel different. Change the current state!

As for what else is fat, it is secondary.

Secondly, you must grasp your own happiness, after all, you are not small!

There is nothing difficult in the world, as long as you work hard to find it, you will definitely find your own happiness.

My day, I weighed 180 when I was a freshman in high school, and now I'm about 200 and I don't move.

But my girlfriend and I have been good since my freshman year of high school, and she is a recognized beauty.

It's been 7 years now, and we've all graduated from college this year, and it's bitter and sweet.

Fat people have the cuteness of fat people You have less inferiority complex I used to be very worried that she didn't want me or something, but inferiority complex can't solve the problem I believe that the charm of personality is far greater than appearance.

You want confidence!

Don't worry, you have to be confident, keep a smiling face, and say when someone will fall in love with your smile!

As long as you're not too fat, it's not good for your body.

Don't get too caught up in the accident table.

There will always be love waiting for you, be good at diplomacy.

That's it**, not for others, for your own health**, but how heavy are you.

How to introduce yourself <> blind date.

1. Name in the first place (what is the general name of others):

Self-introduction generally must start with a name, tell the other party your name, at the same time, you can also tell the other party's family to call you by your nickname, as well as friends to call yourself nicknames, etc. (especially some interesting titles, which can open up the atmosphere of chatting).

2. Age (based on the age of one):

After introducing the name, you should tell the other party your age, here the first year is the standard, you can also tell the other party the year of birth, the date of birth on the ID card, do not refer to the lunar calendar.

3 jobs (with their own career plans attached):

After introducing the basic information (name and age), we can start talking about our work. The position of the job, the current treatment, and the plan for the future development of the work are very important, and the plan must be meticulous enough to give the woman a certain sense of security.

4 hobbies (it is important to cultivate several interests and hobbies that girls appreciate):

After talking about work, you can tell the woman what she likes to do (that is, her own hobbies), such as singing, traveling, etc., and try to cultivate some hobbies that girls are interested in, such as singing, cooking, photography, etc.

The adult world is not so easy. The same goes for feelings. The older you get, the less you want to fall in love, or arguably the harder it is to start a new relationship. There may be several reasons for this:

1.Get used to one's life. A person's life is always very free, and he can do whatever he wants, without constraints.

When you fall in love, you may sacrifice a certain amount of time for yourself, and sometimes you may need one partner to change your lifestyle. Some people don't want to live a life they are not used to or don't like, and would rather be single than compromised. As the saying goes, "Freedom or death".

2.Fear of being hurt by overinvesting in another relationship and not getting a response. Often this situation is the most profound experience for people who have more emotional experience, hesitation and worry about a new relationship, fear that they are active in this relationship and cause themselves to always cringe in the face of the person they like.

At this time, it is often wrong to miss the person who is really right.

3.In the face of the supervision of the family during the New Year's holidays, the questioning of the seven aunts and eight aunts has a certain amount of psychological resistance. Nowadays, young people are generally more resistant to blind dates, and they always feel that blind dates are taking people out of the remaining army, and there is a certain psychological gap.

4.There are many so-called standards on the Internet for love and marriage, such as "what kind of man should a good woman marry", "what kind of woman should a man find suitable for marriage" and other online articles. As a result, many people have a fixed thinking of finding objects in their hearts, so that through condition matching and screening, there may be very few left.

What's more, the other party also has its own judging criteria. As a result, the odds of success are extremely low.

When you get older, it's hard to meet someone you like. Most of the girls who are easy to catch up with are already married, and the remaining older leftover girls are basically difficult to gnaw bones, and they are not so easy to catch.

Most of the impressions of leftover women are that they are busy with work, demanding, picky, and have a strange temper. Anyway, it's a group of women that no one else can handle. Go on a blind date a few more times, and after you understand and see it thoroughly, you won't have so many expectations.

Most of the people who have been on a blind date around me complain that they must not touch the older leftover women, they can't get them, and if they have the conditions, they still pursue younger girls.

Secondly, the older you get, the secretion of hormones decreases, and for the opposite sex, there are no more desires and fantasies as when you were young. Naturally, there is less of that urge to fall in love. Even if you meet a girl you like, you will tell yourself rationally that you are too poor to give others happiness, so don't bother others.

When you haven't been in love, you definitely haven't enjoyed the sweetness that love brings you, so as you get older, everything becomes realistic, so you don't want to pursue this ethereal so-called love anymore.

I have never been in love, why do I not want to fall in love the older I get, because the problems I consider when I am older are more realistic, so I should be more cautious about falling in love.

You also have a phobia, you don't want to fall in love, and there are a lot of hurt breakups when you see other people fall in love, so you have gone through a lot of other people's real experiences, so you don't want to fall in love.

When I get older, I think differently many times, so I slowly get used to living alone, and life alone seems to be pretty good.

It's right not to want to get married when you're old, what kind of thing to do at what age, to delay yourself at the best time, to be alone, to do what kind of thing at what age, and if you miss it, it's no longer beautiful.

First, we fall in love with someone who is older than ourselves. We all know that age is one thing that affects people, but many times age is not an issue. We don't care if the other person is older than us after we meet true love, and we find that there are many people who are much older than us, and we find that there are many people who are much older than us.

There are many couples with a big age difference in the entertainment industry, such as Lu Han and Guan Xiaotong, Liu Shishi and Wu Qilong, they are all couples with a big age difference, but they are also living happily, so we believe that even if there is a big age difference, there will be a good love. We don't mind being in a relationship with older people, because sometimes older people have more experience than we do, and they will be more attractive. Many times older people can see wider and farther than us, and they can also tolerate our shortcomings when they live, so we will feel a feeling of being taken care of when we fall in love with someone older than ourselves.

Therefore, we fall in love with older people.

Second, we don't care about being in a relationship with someone older. We all know that although age is an influencing factor, age is not the determining factor, and many people will ignore the age of the other partner after meeting true love. Being older is not a disadvantage, although sometimes there is a generation gap if the age difference is more than ten years, but it will not affect our marital status.

We have found that many people are able to enjoy a happy married life when they are in a relationship with an older person, and they are able to accompany them until they grow old. Many times older people can also take care of people who are younger than themselves, and they can also give people a sense of security, many insecure people will find someone older than themselves to fall in love, and many people who lack father's love and mother's love will also find someone older than themselves to fall in love. Therefore, we don't care about falling in love with someone older.

Summary. Hello, glad to answer for you! The reason why you don't dare to fall in love easily when you're older:

Uncertainty is the essence of human beings, which makes people fear the pursuit of a sense of control and stability. The bondage of marriage makes people afraid that in addition to the above-mentioned uncertainties, many people are hesitant to determine the relationship, and the bondage in marriage is also another reason why they are hesitant to determine the relationship. Face the uncertainty and try it in realityIn fact, people who are too entangled in the uncertainty of the relationship may make a big mistake, that is, to see themselves, the other party, and the relationship in love as one""Definite result", but the reality is that because people will change, love has the possibility of changing at all times.

It can be said that uncertainty xing is the essence of love.

Hello, glad to answer for you! The reason why I don't dare to fall in love easily when I'm older: uncertain xing, which makes people afraid to pursue a sense of control and stability, is the essence of human beings.

The bondage of marriage makes people afraid that in addition to the above-mentioned uncertainties, many people are hesitant to determine the relationship, the bondage in marriage is also another reason why they are slow to refer to the uncertain relationship. Face the uncertainty and try it in realityIn fact, people who are too entangled in the uncertainty of the relationship may make a big mistake, that is, to see themselves, the other party, and the relationship in love as one""Definite result", but the reality is that because people will change, love has the possibility of changing at all times. It can be said that uncertain xing is the essence of love.

Don't dare to fall in love easily when you're older: Falling in love is a kind of social activity, hail spring is the process of cultivating love or mutual interaction on the basis of love, mainly the exchange and communication between the two parties. Generally speaking, if you are in sincere contact, support each other, make progress together, and achieve each other.

The moral requirements of falling in love are mainly reflected in the following aspects: First, respect for the equality of human origin. Second, consciously take responsibility.

Third, civilizations love each other. Whether it is in life or in the psychological difficulties and obstacles, empathy, empathy and psychological comfort from peers, especially those of different peers, are effective.

As the saying goes, when a man gets married, a woman gets married, and when we grow up, we have to fall in love, get married, and build our own family. But some people will grow up to be single for some reason, and these people will feel anxious if they are still simple and physical when they are older. But I don't feel that way......The reason why I have this is because I think that love and marriage depend on fate and cannot be forced, the life of self-amusing pants in a single state has not been affected, and now that people are getting older and older, they don't have to worry about these three reasons.

1. Love and marriage depend on fate, which cannot be forced.

Falling in love and getting married is not a casual thing, you need to be with someone who is really suitable for you. If you don't meet the right person for you, you can't fall in love and you can't get married. ......Therefore, falling in love and getting married depends on fate, which is something that cannot be forced, and everything should go naturally.

Therefore, even if you are older, you don't need to feel anxious if you are still single.

2. My life has not been affected by anything in the single state, so I am not anxious.

Although he was single when he was older, his life was not affected by this. ......In the state of being single, I can arrange my food, clothing, housing and daily life well, and I can also have intimate interactions with my relatives and friends, everything is in a normal state, so although I am single, I do not feel anxious.

3. Nowadays, people are getting married at a higher age, and they don't have to worry.

Nowadays people pay more attention to the quality of life, but also pay more attention to career development. Therefore, people are getting older and older at the age of falling in love and getting married, and it is very common to fall in love and get married after the age of 30. ......Because of this, although I am still single at an older age, I am not anxious because of this, let alone anxious.