I m always serious and have no sense of humor, what should I do? 20

Then I guess you belong to the typical C personality of the D i s C personality, and there is nothing bad about it, people with this kind of personality are suitable for lawyers, doctors, etc. But on this basis, you can easily get up and watch more funny things such as "Friends", after a long time, you will have a sense of humor, a sense of humor is a state, a state of mind, as long as you have a relaxed and humorous heart, you can say humorous things.

And often say some opposite things, which is easy to have a humorous effect. For example, there is an episode in Friends that is like receiving an Oscar, and the award is won by another person, and the actor will not hide it, and he will slap the table to express regret, which is very funny, because most people are dead to blessings, so his anti-thinking actions have a comedic effect.

Humor is not only a relaxed and optimistic state of mind, but also a bit of skill, and it is OK to dabble more.

Watch more jokes, people should be easy-going! Don't have the idea that you don't have anything to do with yourself! I hope you can be a humorous person.

You're still a student, right? There are all kinds of people around us in school, you can try to get in touch with those who are very humorous and intimidating, it may be difficult at first, encounter some troubles, don't be afraid of being shy, at the beginning, don't say too much, be a loyal listener, gradually catch those humorous points that make people laugh from their language, and try to remember them, try to use it when talking to others in the future, take it slowly, it will be successful! Come on.

Keep smiling every day, participate in more club activities, talk to classmates more, and speak up.

There are always people who like and appreciate you to be friends with you, and there are people who appreciate you and choose you as your life partner. If you think you're good like this, why change it? There must be some people who like to be rigorous, mature and steady.

A sense of humor is not something that can be spoken, but it is people who tell bad jokes that make people happy. Don't be pressured, there's nothing wrong with you doing this, at least that's what I think.

Take a look at Zhou Libo's performance.

Try to have the same interests as your classmates, so that when we talk, there will be a topic.

Usually read more idle books, and throw away the global economic newspaper in your hand. It's okay to listen to Lao Guo's cross talk and take a look, go on a messy forum, post it, go around, hold on for a week, and you won't be able to deter it anymore.

People have different personalities, so why force yourself to change yourself, isn't it good to be your true self? Serious people have the advantage of being serious, giving people the impression of being serious, meticulous, and reassuring....Leaders like to be conscientious.

Don't follow the normal mind, it's good to be unexpected, for example, if someone says where do I work, do you say yes What a coincidence? He must have thought you were there, and then you said I passed by there, and the sense of humor came out.

When you go to sales, you will know how to talk when you hit a lot of walls.

Hang out a lot with people who are very humorous and funny.

Before you know it, you can become cute.!

Take a look at the recent buzzwords and jokes on the Internet, apply them to life reasonably, and smile more!

Haha, listen to your description, like myself...

What kind of character is this? I think it's a bit arrogant, in fact, such a person should have quite good conditions, and he has been very good since he was a child, so we always want to be a perfect self in front of others, and a person who is affirmed by the other party. Therefore, after caring too much about other people's opinions, we will behave unnaturally, and when we meet people who are stronger than ourselves, we will be very blunt, and this is also the reason, because we seem to be accustomed to ourselves being the strong, sought after center, so when we meet people who are stronger than ourselves, we don't know what to do...

I think it's just a superficial phenomenon that I care too much about other people's opinions. In fact, the essence of my heart is still a little too arrogant, and I can't stand a little disobedience from others... I'm a Leo anyway :)

What should I do? Haha, I can't think of a better way to solve it...

Be calm, don't care too much about showing that perfect self to others, in fact, people with flaws are easier to approach. People who are too glamorous, too perfect, too high, aren't they all prohibitive, they can only be watched from afar... Put it on you, think about it, is that so?

In addition, getting in touch with generous, humorous, and measured people and expanding one's social circle is also a good way to alleviate our personality. The more reluctant you are to take the initiative to speak, the more you have to force yourself to do this... Don't be too sensitive, don't be too fragile ...

As long as you learn to enrich your inner character, you don't have to deliberately express yourself, and you don't need to care about what others think. Whether you are happy or not is something that only you can truly understand! Don't lose your true self in pursuit of outward appearances of happiness.

This is the relationship between personality, the main thing is that you care too much about what others think of you, you can't let go, if you want to change, you still have to rely on yourself, first of all, the change of thought, don't think about it when you speak, what will people think when I say this, what does it matter if you are generous, usually the voice can be loud and bright, so that you can be more confident.

Make more friends, everyone's personality is different, more friends, more natural life, bigger social circle, let the aura of friends around you infect you, so that slowly and naturally you will not feel that the words spoken are unnatural, self-confidence is the most important.