I got along with my girlfriend for 4 years, but she didn t come to my house in the next few years, s

Updated on society 2024-04-21
53 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    I think it's just that you've been together for a long time, and your true nature has been revealed, and he may be a little lazy, so he wants to ask you to go to his house.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    You have been with your girlfriend for four years, and the front is very good, but in the next few years, he will not come to your house and let you go to his house, which has two meanings, the first is that she and your parents are not getting along very well, and they don't want to go again, and then it may be that they want you to meet his parents.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    You've been with your girlfriend for four years, and you mean that she used to be still in your house, and now she doesn't go to your house and lets you go to her house, then maybe she feels uncomfortable and not free in your house.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    The girlfriends have been together for 4 years, and they were fine at first, but then he didn't let you go to his house, which means that he has been cold to you.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    It may be that your girlfriend doesn't want to come to your house and doesn't want to get along with your family, so he lets you go to her house.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    Then he may just want you to join their house, so she doesn't want to come to your house, or he may feel that the people in your family are not welcome and unfriendly to him, so he will have a feeling of resistance to your family, you should communicate with him well to understand his specific reasons.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    Being able to go to her house means that it is a recognition of you, and you must go. As for her not going to your house, it may be because she thinks your family has a bad attitude towards her or because she is shy.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    In fact, you get along so well, no matter whose house you go to, you have a close relationship with each other's parents.

  9. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    You've been with your girlfriend for four years. If there is no emotional problem, you are reluctant to come to your house, it may be that you don't like to get along with your family, so let you go to his house and get acquainted with his family.

  10. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    It may be that your girlfriend wants you to meet his parents, which means that he still has a lot of ideas to continue to get along with you, and you can also go and meet his parents, which is a normal thing.

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    You got along with your girlfriend for 4 years before you got along, but in the next few years, he didn't come to your house, so let you go to his house, I think it's also very good, and going to his house will also feel the life of his house.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    You have been with your girlfriend for several years, and he will not go to your house in the next few years, and let you go to his house, then he just wants you to meet his parents, and he wants to marry you a little.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    There are many reasons why he may not go to your house, you can ask him if your family doesn't like him, so he let you go to his house.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    It may be that your girlfriend is used to being in her own home, so she invites you to her house. It feels strange and unaccustomed to your home.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    Then go, she wants you to go to her house to get acquainted with her family, which will help you live a healthy life in the future.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    It shows that the relationship between the two of you is still not in place, so you have to go to a good place, and both of you must respect each other.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    I got along with my girlfriend for four years, and I was very good in the front, but in the next few years, he came to your house and asked you to go to his house. It shows that they still get along very well.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    I've been with your girlfriend for four years, why haven't you gotten married yet? Besides, you should both meet your parents. It doesn't matter if you go to her house for a few years.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    Maybe he thinks that going to your house often doesn't have a good effect on him, so he wants you to go to his house often to see him.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    I think this kind of thing is actually a very normal thing, if he doesn't want to deal with you, then he won't let you go to his house.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    You will definitely meet the right person for you, but the time has not yet come, you must insist on it.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    Nothing, girls just like to let boys take the initiative, and girls enjoy the feeling of being pursued.

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    Then you should agree to his request, so that you can develop as soon as possible, and the relationship between the two people is important.

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    As long as two people love each other, what difference does it make to go to his house or to yours?

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    Judging from your description, you have been with your girlfriend for four years, and the front is very good, and in the next few years, she does not come to your house and asks you to go to her house. Maybe she doesn't feel comfortable going to your house, but it's understandable, the point is that your relationship is the most important, as long as your relationship is good, everything else doesn't matter.

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-14

    If you've been together for four years and you both know each other, then whoever goes to whom's house is the same thing, don't be so clear.

  27. Anonymous users2024-01-13

    Since you want to know that you have been together for four years and should be honest with each other, you can ask her directly what the reason is, untie the gap in between, and the two of you will be able to go to the end.

  28. Anonymous users2024-01-12

    Just go. There's nothing to be afraid of, but at this time, it's time to meet with both parents and determine the next step in the relationship.

  29. Anonymous users2024-01-11

    Well,,, I think ,,, first of all, be self-motivated, not afraid of hardship, and earn more money. Parents in the world don't want their children to be able to live well in the future, in their aging years, they can't give more, so they hope that there is someone who can continue to replace themselves or even love T more. Don't worry about this kind of thing, if you want others to affirm you, then there must be someone else who can affirm your reason, right, well, come on, work hard!

    Also, don't be angry or hate her parents for their opposition to you, be humble and positive, hehe

  30. Anonymous users2024-01-10

    Time will smooth everything out! There are some things that can't be forced, if you love her, bless her, and repeatedly put pressure on her and have nothing to do to make up for it, when you break it, or it's a good thing for you and for her.

  31. Anonymous users2024-01-09

    Go. Tell her parents that you will work well in the future. I'll give her a good life. You are in love. is the most important.

  32. Anonymous users2024-01-08

    Calm down, there is no grass at the end of the world.

  33. Anonymous users2024-01-07

    Love doesn't fade because of time, and stress is every day.

    Since she chose to let go, then why would you have an unrequited love for this one?

  34. Anonymous users2024-01-06

    It's okay to keep going.

  35. Anonymous users2024-01-05

    Summary. Hello, my girlfriend Zhizen and I went home and got married immediately. Came back with me for more than two years before telling me what to do when I got married:

    Are you saying that your girlfriend used to talk to you, then went home for a while, and then came back and stayed with you for about two years, and now tells you that she has gone back to get married at that time. Isn't that what it means?

    My girlfriend Chizen was with me, and she got married right away when she came home. Came back with me for more than two years before telling me what to do when I got married:

    Hello, my girlfriend was with me before she took it home and got married immediately. I came back and stayed with me for more than two years before I told Lian Qing what to do if I got married: You mean that your girlfriend talked to you before, went home for a while, and then came back and stayed with you for about two years, and Qin Dai now tells you that she has gone back to get married at that time.

    Isn't that what it means?

    1.If this is the case, break it off as soon as possible, you are not suitable for this kind of thing, and you can deceive you for two years, it's terrible. 2.

    Said that she doesn't love you very much, otherwise she wouldn't have turned back and married someone else not long after she went back, some things are not forced by the family, they are all sold as adults and not children. Pat Dou Dou 3This kind of relationship may really just be because she wants to have company in a strange city.

    It is recommended to break off this relationship early.

  36. Anonymous users2024-01-04

    Summary. Hello, as an outsider, he is a scumbag, as long as you don't break up with him, he can have a relationship with two women at the same time, which is not a loss for him.

    I've known him on the Internet for eight years, and I've been together for two years in reality, when I had a home where he didn't have a girlfriend, and last year she had a girlfriend, I really wanted to divide and told him that he didn't agree, and every time I said I couldn't help but contact him, and I couldn't help but contact him a few days ago, and I didn't say that I cried first, and he didn't say that he didn't say anything, just sent a hug ** over, what did he mean.

    Hello, I have seen your question and am sorting out the answer, please wait a while

    Hello, as an outsider, he is a scumbag, as long as you don't break up with him, he can have a relationship with two women at the same time, which is not a loss for him.

    In a relationship, it is often easier for a woman to give her sincerity, and if he really likes you, he is unlikely to find another girlfriend. From your description, it can be seen that you are now in real feelings, so you can't tolerate him having other girlfriends in your eyes and want to break up with him.

  37. Anonymous users2024-01-03

    have been broken up for seven or eight years, everyone should have a family, what are you still running to do? Want to destroy someone else's family? You're not kind!

  38. Anonymous users2024-01-02

    Hey, in fact, feelings are like this, often in the end are unsatisfactory, but you also have to be strong and think on the good side, at least fortunately, it's not okay to get married and then leave, it can be regarded as seeing it clearly, improve yourself well, and slowly there will be someone who is suitable for you.

  39. Anonymous users2024-01-01

    She is not the only woman, fortunately, she ran away before you got married, and you didn't have any financial losses in the bride price, so you work hard to become excellent, and find a suitable person to live and marry.

  40. Anonymous users2023-12-31

    It's okay, don't be too sad, you're still young, a woman ran away, proving that her heart doesn't belong to you, your parents are satisfied as long as they see you married, and you don't necessarily have to find her to marry, you can find a better one.

  41. Anonymous users2023-12-30

    Your parents mainly want you to be happy, and you are looking for a good girlfriend.

  42. Anonymous users2023-12-29

    You've been dating your girlfriend for two years.

    Then the other party was directly with each other's first love.

    It shows that the other party has always been in contact with the first love.

    Why should you be so obsessed with a woman who has two boats on her feet?

  43. Anonymous users2023-12-28

    She may be the green tea she is talking about now.

  44. Anonymous users2023-12-27

    Then you'd better get a new girlfriend, let the past pass, and regret can't be helped.

  45. Anonymous users2023-12-26

    Summary. Hello, I think your friend's situation is understandable, first of all, many people in the countryside just like to chew the root of the tongue, especially girls, we young people think that a few times in love is nothing, but those old people see, which little girl in the village will definitely talk nonsense when she brings her boyfriend back, or it may be that your girlfriend is not confident in the relationship between the two of you, a little insecure.

    My girlfriend won't let me go to her house. We've been talking for almost a year, and my girlfriend has come to my house a few times, but she won't let me go to her house. She said several reasons: 1

    I'm afraid that the people in the village will chew on the root of the tongue, and the ex-Yetong boyfriend has been to her house a few times, saying that if I go to the village again, the people will say that they will bring the object home every day, and they are not a good womanMy girlfriend asked me to go to her house with her empty space to go. Help me analyze whether I am making excuses or have other ideas.

    Hello, I think your friend's situation is understandable, first of all, many people in Nonghong Zhengpei Village just like to chew their tongues, especially girls, we young people think that it is nothing to fall in love a few times, but those old people see that which little girl in the village will definitely talk nonsense when she brings her boyfriend back, and it may also be that your girlfriend is not confident in the relationship between the two of you, and she is a little insecure.

    Yesterday we communicated for 2 hours because I want to get married and she doesn't want to get married in the near future. Ask if it would be better if you were pregnant.

    Hello, try not to get pregnant before marriage, it's not good for the woman's reputation.

    I'm 95 years old and my girlfriend is 99 years old. We have been talking for almost 1 year, the relationship is very good and stable, I want to get married, but my girlfriend doesn't want to get married. What am I going to do!

    Your girlfriend is indeed young, and it is normal that she doesn't want to get married, and a year is really not a long time, so it is recommended to develop again, and the woman may not feel safe.

  46. Anonymous users2023-12-25

    Ay. I said it bluntly, (against the ear) I still don't understand this? She doesn't want to get married, huh?

    You make your attitude clear, and if she doesn't agree then forget it.

    She's not your thing.

  47. Anonymous users2023-12-24

    This question is not very easy to answer, I don't know the specific situation, such as whether you have been together often in the past three years, and I don't know your age, if she is 25+, she has entered the marriageable age, and she still refuses to meet her parents, you should use the three-year relationship as a reason, talk to her, and get a general reason from her mouth! Good luck with a speedy solution!

  48. Anonymous users2023-12-23

    I'll tell you the unfortunate news that she may have been married.

  49. Anonymous users2023-12-22

    The real reason is only known to her, and what others say is also speculation, so I suggest that you communicate with her calmly, communication is the best way, and understanding is very important.

  50. Anonymous users2023-12-21

    Simple! Your girlfriend won't let her go to her house, which means that she doesn't want her parents to know about you, because she is not sure about the relationship between you, and she is worried, nervous, and scared about this uncertainty! What you have to do now is not to beg her to take you, or to force her to take you, don't worry!

    As long as you do well enough and truly love her, it will come naturally! To say something you're not very happy about, I feel like it's your problem, it's just my feelings!

  51. Anonymous users2023-12-20

    Maybe she's afraid of what others say! Or maybe you're not sure!

  52. Anonymous users2023-12-19

    It may be that you are not good enough, or it may be that you have promised something but have not fulfilled it, if you can't do it, don't commit often, the girl's heart is very careful, she will remember the promise you once gave.

  53. Anonymous users2023-12-18

    I'm sorry. Take it easy.

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