12 years old Do you think you do it more than once a day?

Many. Be careful of kidney deficiency later.

When you have a wife and a husband, you will regret it.

The little kid is concentrating on his studies, thinking about so many things that he doesn't have.

You feel like it's okay once a day now, and you'll be paying for it in a year or so. Now you are in a state of euphoria, and when your body is really weak, you will not be able to recover.

Don't be too often!

How old a child, it's better not to do it, it's not a healthy behavior for the body and mind, it also has an impact on later life, think about something else, so young don't be like that kind of thing all day long.

Bodhisattvas fear causes, and ordinary people fear results.

Think this sentence through and you'll get the answer. Including your life.

There aren't many men, and women are fine three times a day

If you want to, go find a quilt. You're a

To help your child develop empathy, you must first teach your child how to listen. Be respectful and let your child express his or her thoughts as much as possible. At the same time, when the child is talking, parents should also listen to him carefully and attentively, and then give the child a response, so that they can feel the parent-child communication, and the child also feels understood and respected.

Listening to your child's voice will also help parents learn more about their child's real thoughts. Secondly, teach children how to empathize. Let your child ask yourself from time to time

How would you feel if you put yourself in their shoes? In this way, children can experience other people's ideas first-hand and form a good atmosphere of mutual understanding and mutual understanding.

Let your child participate in social activities on his own. Parents should make full use of holidays to let their children participate in them, and learn more about social skills and etiquette through communication with peers. For example:

The military training camp can cultivate children to be hard-working and optimistic soldiers; The training of science and technology production can cultivate children's scientific spirit of seeking refinement and being willing to explore; Parent-child activities can cultivate children's gratitude for honoring their parents and knowing how to respect; Team activities can cultivate children's unity and cooperation, willing to contribute to the collective concept, etc., as long as the children are planted in the activities can improve the children's humanistic quality, and then change many of the children's bad ideological tendencies and habits.

Encourage and criticize specific performances in a timely manner. The "encouragement of education" called for now can indeed improve children's self-confidence and self-esteem to a certain extent, but blind praise is irresponsible to children and is an incomplete education, especially when children make mistakes, parents must severely criticize education. Here is an example from teaching:

At the end of a Chinese lesson, the teacher asked the question "What is the main content of this lesson?", and many students were eager to try it and answered quite well, but the last student said, "The horse's head is gone." I wonder if something like this has ever happened in your homeschooling? Whether or not we parents should:

Children praise them vigorously when they do it right, and criticize them fiercely when they do it wrong, so that they can understand the standards of right and wrong and know the boundaries of right and wrong.

Let children participate in group activities: Don't think that children don't suffer in everything, in fact, letting children experience some setbacks will be more conducive to children's growth, and setbacks in life will make children more mature and strong, and children who have not experienced setbacks will never grow up. It is not necessarily a bad thing for children to have problems with others, and it is not necessarily a bad thing to be wronged in their interactions with others, and parents to introduce them with "empathy" is a good educational opportunity, and the kind of fear that children have problems with others will only make children's problems more and more serious.

In the process of getting along with their children, parents should teach their children to always smile at others, to influence others with love and tolerance, to communicate with others, and to dare to express their own ideas. When your child is emotional and has a tantrum, try to divert your child's attention and distract him in this way. In this way, the child's mood will gradually stabilize.

Teaching children to manage their emotions is not to keep them away from negative emotions, but to keep them away from negative emotions, build positive emotions, and grow up truly healthy and happy.

Take your children to get in touch with the outside world and get closer to nature. At the same time, let them communicate with people more. No matter how busy parents are, don't ignore their children's growth and avoid letting their children face the TV and computer every day, which can easily lead to hindering their children's communication skills.

In addition, parents should teach their children how to communicate with others correctly with practical actions, such as good communication skills, grasp the timing of speaking, consider the occasion of speaking, and choose appropriate methods.

If you want your child to overcome this psychological problem, the best magic weapon is "empathy", and let your child think about it: "If other children do the same to you, what would you think?" Let the child learn to think from his point of view and gradually overcome the habit of self-centeredness.

The reason for this tragedy is very simple is the pampering of parents, it can be seen that excessive pampering of children from an early age is one of the main reasons for the production of children's "self" psychology, but in the transformation of children's ideological tendencies to give children a period of sufficient time, allow the emergence of repeated phenomena, parents should show greater endurance and perseverance.

When you're older, almost after graduating from college, you'll know, in fact, the looks are all floating clouds, and when you were young, you thought about the same, but when you grew up, you know, in fact, in addition to looks, what is more important is ability, how much money you make These are more important than looks, and there are fewer beauties with beasts? ?

You're only 12 years old and you still have a lot of potential to grow!! No need to feel inferior!

This is an obvious manifestation of the low psychological quality of the individual! Because I am still young, I will gradually cultivate my self-confidence in my daily life in the future. When you have super self-confidence, it will all be gone!

Be confident, self-confidence is the foundation of success.

1. Empathy: The child is still so young, he has no interest in anything, and he seems very depressed, which makes you very worried, right?

2. Concretization: Can you talk about what the child is not active about? Or are there positive moments? Can you tell us about each of them?

Third, the cause of the problem, and specific analysis:

A child's nature should be full of curiosity about the world, and if it is negative, it is unreasonable.

Solution: Parents recall when the child began to lose motivation, what happened at that time, what emotions the child had, what kind of thoughts he had, and what decisions he made.

b The child receives too little encouragement. Parents don't have much reaction to doing good or bad, doing and not doing, and, when doing well, children are looking forward to being recognized by their parents, and if parents don't give timely encouragement, children have no motivation and interest to do more.

Solution: Look at the child's strengths, affirm and recognize every small progress of the child, and build the child's self-confidence and interest.

cParents are too strict and controlling, and children have no autonomy, so they will fight with passivity.

Solution: Try to let children make more decisions in life and learning, parents should not interfere too much, do things independently, children can have enthusiasm, but also cultivate children's sense of responsibility.

I want to say that there is a problem with your education First, not everything is reasonable, the 12-year-old child is the age of social competence, although your intentions are good, but the child does not think so, whether he answers or not? It makes me feel that I am forcing him to take the path I don't like, and a 12-year-old child has the hope of becoming an adult, and since he doesn't respect him, it is inevitable that he will give up on himself. Second, the goal is not reached.

A 12-year-old child's self-control is not comparable to that of an adult, so should we encourage him and appreciate him more? When a child encounters a happy thing, calm down and talk about it again, but he can listen to it. Third, you should be patient with your child's education, a successful father will say a few words to his child every day, first, what do you hear or see in school today, look at the child's values, second, what do you learn in school and what do you gain?

Encouragement and motivation 3. Do you need your father's help? The way of husband and wife, the way of father and son, etc., are all in the process of mutual assistance. Fourth, communication, listen to the child's inner voice, self-abandonment, reflect a person's dissatisfaction with the present, you should have the responsibility and obligation to help him.

Girls are still boys.

If you are a boy, there is basically no problem, after all, at this age, you should also go to junior high school, and you can be regarded as knowing some basic truths. It's not that you don't go home for a long time, so it's basically no problem, of course, the premise is to settle the child's schedule and rest time, as well as the problem of eating.

Girls' words should be no problem, after all, girls are precocious and sensible compared to boys, if you are strict with her education from an early age, know what to do and what not to do, and have your own warning psychology, there will generally be no problem. However, it is recommended that the situation is appropriate, and try to avoid the little girl being alone for a long time.

A few hours are fine, but not for a few days in a row.

The best thing to do is to stay away from this kind of person, and she will immediately find another classmate to replace you.

It doesn't matter, everyone is late because of the degree and time of personal physique development, you are only 12 years old, you don't have to worry about whether you will look like a boy, you can exercise more, talk to your classmates more, speak actively in class, don't be afraid of other people's jokes, you can do well!

You're only 12 years old, and you'll grow up to be pretty in the future. The eighteenth year of the female college has changed. You can change your hairstyle and buy some nice clothes. I'm sure I'll be confident.

I'm not afraid to look like a boy.,Sister, I'm also a woman.,And it's generally very domineering.,No one dares to bully me even if it's very snobbish in school.。

You must first be confident, if a person is not confident, people will not care about you at all, be confident, even if you are like a boy, you must at least be generous, give people a good mental outlook.

It's okay, it's open when you grow up, it's good-looking, and it looks like a boy and it's very popular, a female man!! I just wanted to.

It's okay to be confident and dress yourself up better.

First, before the child is an adult, many things are not clear, can not make their own decisions, must have a guardian, and second, it is impossible to return, unless there is a quality problem, otherwise the mall will not let you return.

Yes. The guardian has the right of retrospective recognition, because he is a person with limited capacity for conduct, and the punishment does not belong to a civil activity equivalent to his intelligence, and the effect is to be determined.