How can I have the courage to face it, how can I make myself brave to face things

To be honest, you are really miserable, I really can't believe that all these unfortunate things can happen to you!

But no matter what, you have to live, don't be discouraged, think about the efforts of your parents and friends for you for so many years, if you don't want to take good care of your life, not only sorry for yourself but also sorry for all the people who care about you.

Friend, there is a saying that it is better to die than to live. Human life is only once. It may be in a fairy tale that it says, if there is an afterlife, what will I do, how will I be? That's unrealistic.

Everything must be opened, and since misfortune has befallen you, you should strive to overcome it. And don't blame God for being unfair.

Alas, there is really no such thing as a blessing, and there is no single line of misfortune. Maybe you're too beautiful, don't you feel like you're a little blushing, in fact, there are a lot of unsatisfactory in life, I don't know how many times I've been robbed, I'm weak, but I have a righteous heart, so I'm often dished, and I just have something happy to do. I'm 26 basically not in love, maybe the childlike heart is not lost, so the feelings are not as rich as you, for such an experience, I really don't know what to say, although the power of love is great, but I suggest that you still live some dull days, to endure loneliness, to read some good books, memorize poetry, etc., listen to some light **, some** lyrics are very good, such as "blue and white porcelain".

See if you're patient. But as far as I know, when a girl has been in love a few times, she loses a calm heart, can't experience the beauty of loneliness and loneliness, I know a girl like this, just broke up and was in a hurry to find a boyfriend, it is better to say that it is psychological emptiness, it is easy to be approached by others, if you can do it in 2 years to be able to interact with the boy normally, and nothing happens, you will definitely recover, you are really still very young! Alas, I don't know if you can do it.

Sister, can I call you that, we are really connected to the same disease, I am 20 years old this year, 16 years old when I went to secondary school physical examination was also found to have hepatitis B, I lived at my aunt's house at the time, my aunt's look down on the fear of ignorance added by the first arrival in the city, I really have a dead heart, but I think of my parents and younger brothers and sisters who love me, I am reluctant to leave this world, because I am afraid that my parents will be sad, after graduation, I was assigned to a state-owned enterprise as a worker in advance because of my good academic performance, But I always feel inexplicably afraid, because I am afraid that the physical examination will find out that I have this disease and afraid that my good friend will leave me, and then resign and return to my hometown to start taking medicine, Chinese medicine and Western medicine have also been taken, and it has not improved, I remember once I watched the noon news of ** TV station, and suddenly heard that there was a drug that can make hepatitis B turn negative, and it was in clinical trials, I was excited than winning the lottery and happy, but then there was no news. After taking medicine for half a year, I was introduced by relatives to work in a private company in Shenzhen, as a clerk, and met my current boyfriend on the Internet, I have no relatives and friends in Shenzhen, I regard him as the only spiritual pillar, I gave him my first time, my grandfather died in March this year, he accompanied me back to my house, I also went to his house, his parents liked me very much, my boyfriend didn't let me tell his parents about my illness, but I still said it, because I didn't want to deceive, everything in the future can be imagined, Broke up at 12:23 noon today, he kept saying that he was sorry for me, in fact, I don't blame him, he also has his difficulties, he is the only son of their family, although his parents said that everything will be fine for me to rest assured that everything will be fine at work, but I can hear that we are finished, I cried for a long time, I had to go back to work at 2 o'clock because of work, to be honest, my mood is super depressed, I am very emotional, and I am also very traditional, I hate my ignorance, because I have no chastity, I keep thinking about how to get up with my husband in the future (maybe one day I get sick and get married or someone will give up everything for me, although I know I'm naïve to think so, but it's always a little dreamy) There are tears in my eyes when I work, I also think about how God is so unfair to me, I definitely don't want anyone in the future, I'm really afraid of loneliness, I don't bother to read the accounting I read, I really love him and hate him, and I want to selfishly pull him back to me, but I don't know what to do? Seeing what happened to my sister, I was a little relieved, my sister is more bitter than me, we should both learn to be strong, but I am really still very uncomfortable!

I still have tears in my eyes now, sister, what should I do, I'm so uncomfortable! It's true! Now I really realize how deep love and hatred are, and I don't even have a close friend to talk to, because I don't dare to tell them that I am sick, and I am afraid that they will leave me.

I looked like I was suffering from depression. If it weren't for thinking about my parents, I would have died a long time ago. Who's going to help me.

Hey, if it were me, I wouldn't be bored. But it doesn't matter if you die, it's just that I'm sorry for my parents, hehe, but let's live well, and I have to believe that the future will be better

What happened to you is really sad. I understand your mood right now.

It's a big burden on your psyche.

But don't feel lonely, there are many people who love you.

It takes courage for everyone to live.

Your courageous life is giving your parents courage.

The hardships of life are to live and not. I know you can.

Life is a responsibility to yourself and your loved ones.

There is still a long way to go in life, I wish you happiness!

Landlord, you have to hold on! There is no unfairness to anyone in this world, and my experience may be worse than yours, not to mention, because of many things! I'm a miserable person, too!

But I'm not discouraged, I'm alone in the house all day now, everyone wants to take care of me, do you know how lonely I am? But I'm still very strong, I didn't complain that no one paid attention to me, I think one day I will create a lot of achievements, and then I will let others envy me, and I will become a hero in adversity! Got it?

Be strong!!

Is the script similar to "I want to live with a smile"?

If what you say is true, I am deeply sympathetic to your tragic experience. Happiness is the same, misfortune is different, but the feelings are the same. Who isn't struggling!

I can't give you courage, but I can tell you what courage is. If you don't want to die, then live, and if you live, you must persist in fighting against fate. Perseverance and belief that can withstand pressure, as well as ideals and even fantasies, is courage. To put it simply, the thing that can sustain not dying is courage!

Let's live! We must live with a smile and be positive, we must learn to comfort and encourage ourselves, and maybe if we persist a little longer, we will bathe in the dawn of victory! Maybe a miracle will happen!

Maybe you'll meet a man who loves you deeply! The power of love is limitless, and love can work miracles.

Trust me, yes! Buddha bless you, God is with us!

Hey, there's a story you don't know if you've heard. It's a fairy tale. Zoo tigers. A conference was held. Ask everyone who thinks they are unlucky to come and participate. As a result, everyone who listened to what others said felt that their misfortune was nothing.

In fact, there are many less fortunate people than you. Don't think you're the unluckiest. Upstairs is right.

Don't lose faith in life. God, this is a test for you. You're in luck.

Because Heaven has given you the opportunity to test you. I envy you. Because God didn't give me this chance.

I hope you take your chance. Hang on! It's not that there is no nostalgia for you in the world. Chances are your lover will be there right away. Hopeful. There will be a reason to survive! Waiting for him to show up!!

I'm very depressed, I feel that you are quite miserable, and I don't know how to persuade you to listen to cross talk.

If you listen to Guo Degang, you will be happier.

And if it's true? Why didn't you call the police? The internet can't solve all your problems.

People live to face all kinds of things. It's useless to run away. The next time you encounter the same situation, you still run away. Then such a problem will never be solved. Learn to face it.

In the past, every day I was full of money thinking about how to make my classmates like me, but since I got along with Ah Da, I have changed. Now, I have finally learned to discover myself and find myself step by step. Excerpt from "The Lying Ah Xi Calls the Great".

Judge's Comments: Prior to this "Lying Ada", Japanese writer Shimaru Abe had published several medium-length stories based on pond ecology and aquatic creatures, forming his unique creative characteristics.

The four main characters of this chapter appear one after another, and the narrator, Kenta, says at the beginning that he hates school bags, and on the way out of school, he sees transfer student Daisuke wandering around the riverside. Daisuke, known as the lying Daisuke, is a loner, because the students who have been constrained by the school's values never believe in the ecological discoveries that Daisuke claims, and he doesn't care. Seeing is believing, Daisuke guides Kenta to fish for various fish, observe crows, spot American rats, and pick summer oranges in Shimokawa, the house where the sewage is discharged.

Natsuba, who is tired of being a female model student, joins them in the field outside, and also leads to a gifted student Keiichi who is full of books and Internet knowledge. Keiichi, who was about to be praised for designing an ecological study and pointing out that there might be fish in Shimokawabe, bravely admitted his research mistakes at the award ceremony after being liberated from the classroom and discovering the diversity of ecology together.

Natsumaru Abe's narration leads us to a waterway full of aquatic weeds and mire, and the characters appear one after another, as if they had been fished out by a lying Ada. However, this kind and touching story is just a bait, and what the author really wants to pass on is sincerity and courage. This is a masterpiece of moral education, the criticism of the school is gentle but shocking, and in the child's self-examination, Abe Natsumaru gives us a hint of his educational direction.

Many families with autism put all their focus on their children. Very attentive to understand the child's heart, understand the child's behavior, understand the child's ability, the child is happy to improve, happy for a while and then by the sudden problem behavior pulled down the energy, and even do not feel a trace of light.

Yet many of them don't even know themselves.

Psychologist Yu Xin has a good sentence in his article: "We don't even know ourselves, let alone understand other people and the world." If you accept this truth and begin to learn to know yourself, you have the potential to change the situation in the present. ”

Talking about yourself, knowing yourself with awareness, and feeling that you are slowly becoming another more pure and real person.

I learned to love myself, to be aware of myself, to accept my imperfections, weaknesses, fears, strengths, judgments, etc. With awareness, do not judge yourself and others, and learn to face your fears, your imperfect self, and your own ...... with the seeds of violence

Learn to let go, let go of the inherently bad beliefs that limit me and hinder me.

Clean up my "emotional wardrobe" and clean up my "clothes" one by one; If it is not suitable and does not like it, put it away, and leave it if it can be discarded.

In this process, I also deeply realized that there was indeed a change at the behavioral level at the beginning, and gradually at the consciousness level. However, this does not mean that you do not need to practice it for a long time, it needs to be aware and practiced little by little, and there is no opportunistic solution.

However, the most important thing is to have a strong willingness, the courage to face up to the weaknesses, shortcomings, and imperfections of one's own human nature, to blame oneself less and to correct more, to break through fear, and to face the things that one does not want to face.

This classmate has a problem, hehe, it seems that I am talking nonsense. I think so, although I am still a child, I know that living alone in this world, you have to face a lot, whether you have the courage or not. To tell you the truth, my grandfather, the grandfather who had a rough life, but faced everything, and had no complaints all his life, loved my grandfather, he was sick, very sick.

Meaning you know, I'm not ready to lose him, I'm scared, I don't know what to do, but I have to bear it, I don't have a choice, there's nothing at all. In fact, everyone has the courage to face everything, but you don't want to face it, as long as you think clearly, you have to face it, then you have courage. You can think about how those who are smaller than you and weaker than you do in the face of difficulties, then you will have courage.

Whether it's life or feelings, everything has a way to be solved. Say what you want to say, do what you want, and that's it. It's actually quite simple.

Escape is not the way, some things still have to be faced by yourself after all, sometimes escaping will only make things more and more complicated, give yourself some courage and confidence, or find a friend or relative you trust and admire to accompany you, maybe it will be better!