What are the common psychological defects? What are the manifestations of personality defects?

Common psychological defects include insecurity, poor interpersonal communication, paranoid personality, and long-term recurrent depression.

This is my own confusion, I will feel that I am not sure that I am not sure to educate this child to be a good person, a person with a sound personality, watching him watch junk TV dramas since he was a child, eating junk food, I don't approve of the lives of many people in this country. —Pu Shu.

In fact, many people are more or less concerned about the safety threats to the surrounding environment, such as when the door is closed, they may repeatedly verify whether it is closed, and they will carefully check the water, gas, coal and electricity before going out.

But when it comes to the level of psychological defects, it is more serious.

Because of the existence of defects, it will manifest itself and be different, for example, because I am afraid that my child will be "taught badly" in this environment, so I dare not have children. Because I was worried about being hurt in love, I was alone ......

There are many ...... such people

The psychological defects in interpersonal communication, not to say that like Xing Ye, many friends have left him.

However, in interpersonal communication, they are unable to communicate normally, and when they come into contact with strangers, they are too nervous and shy, and they "can't even speak" ......

Such psychological defects lead to the fact that they may be very talkative on the Internet and can express their opinions in various ways, but in reality, they are like moles, nesting in the ground during the day and not daring to come out, and only come out to forage for ......food at night

Such psychological defects have also affected the lives of many people.

Paranoid people, they live in their own world, have their own fixed cognition, do not accept other people's opinions and suggestions, even if these opinions are well-intentioned and pertinent, but they are "stubborn" ......

This kind of psychological defect is not only seen in those older elders, their "relying on the old and selling the old" is actually just a paranoid psychological defect, and not all the elderly have such characteristics.

Also appears in those who are "talented and capable". Perhaps, this paranoid flaw has strengthened this paranoid ...... that has made them achieve brilliance and keep them moving closer to their goals

There is a very large gap between depression and depression.

However, if we face life with a pessimistic attitude for a long time and immerse ourselves in depressed emotions, it is easy to deepen our own degree due to depression, sadness, misanthropy, etc., and finally fall into depression.

What we see now is that there are more and more injuries caused by depression and psychological problems caused by depression, and this psychological defect has slowly transformed into a social problem.

The management and regulation of psychological pressure and emotion management and regulation are all things that we cannot obtain through school education in our daily life, and in the future, perhaps each of us needs to have this knowledge and skills to regulate our own psychology ......

Having psychological defects is not terrible, don't run away, but face it bravely, give full play to your strengths, and you can achieve a better self.

No one is perfect, people will always have shortcomings, there are many psychological defects, which can be shown in ordinary life, but it doesn't feel like a big deal. For example, narcissism.

Many people think that they are very handsome, and everyone who sees them likes themselves. Proper narcissism will give you some positive confidence. But if you are excessively narcissistic, you will take yourself too seriously. Feeling fearless is arrogant.

There is also the psychology of comparison, which is also very common. Seeing who is buying a new household appliance, I also want to buy a better one at home. Or I saw a girl in the neighborhood who bought a beautiful dress, and I wanted to buy a more beautiful set.

It is easy to be jealous from the psychology of comparison, because you can't compare with others, you start to be jealous. From jealousy, it is likely to rise to hatred, complaining, not necessarily hatred of rich people, but the inability of one's own man, etc.

Therefore, people's psychological defects do not exist all the time, and we need to have a positive attitude to manage our emotions at all times, so that we can live happily every day.

There are no perfect people in the world, and everyone will have some flaws in their personality and psychology, but some extreme psychological flaws will have many great effects on us in the process of getting along or interacting with others.

1. Arrogance, many people set very high standards for their life goals in life, and many goals cannot be achieved under the ability of their current situation, which will only make our self-confidence decay step by step.

Second, too low self-esteem, many people may be affected by the outside world or their own thinking, and will show a retreat or evasive attitude when encountering some difficulties or unsatisfactory in life, which is an undesirable attitude for our healthy psychological development.

3. Too paranoid, many people in the process of life or work, only listen to their own inner opinions, never listen to the kind words or opinions of others, sometimes they know that their practices are not good or inappropriate, but they will still insist on going their own way, continue to go wrong on the wrong road.

Personality defects manifest themselves as follows:

1. Always hostile to the people around you.

This type of person always keeps their hostility hidden. They usually don't like the people around them and even make enemies of them. They believe that "people close to them" approach them for the purpose of asking for or for another purpose.

If the outsider is friendly, he will feel that he is flattering him; If outsiders have a cold attitude, he feels that his vicious speculation is indeed correct.

2. Nervousness.

Especially those who are obsessed with all the little things that are not enough to worry about can easily suffer from depression or become hysterical. This type of person is moody and unusually sensitive. Working with them is like having a ticking time bomb around you.

3. Excessive negative pessimism.

They tend to ignore the optimistic things in life or see them as occasional coincidences. But some of the dark sides of life can be felt and expressed beyond the ordinary. The most common thing you hear in their mouths is probably "life is bleak, all living beings are suffering" and something like that.

Not to mention the negative emotions, he also has his own cult bloodline. When he sees someone, he cries about how unfortunate and helpless he is, and if others do not show soft-hearted sympathy for him, he becomes even more pessimistic: "Look, no one in this world really cares about me. ”

4. Anxious and irritable, insecure.

This kind of person is always surprisingly excited when he encounters something unsatisfactory, and his mood is often in a state of tension.

In daily life, there are actually many people who are prone to anxiety and impatience, and they are also not fully prepared to do things, and often act blindly and rush to achieve their goals without being ready. For example, many people often want to learn everything, and want to learn in a short time, for fear of falling behind others and rushing to achieve results, but the actual effect often fails to achieve the desired goal, thus discouraged.

5. Nothing to do, unwarranted suspicion.

The so-called suspicion is based on guessing, so it often lacks factual basis and sometimes lacks reasonable thinking logic.

For example, he saw several classmates talking behind his back, but he suspected that he was saying bad things about himself; Someone doesn't say hello to him, so he guesses that he has an opinion about himself, etc.

Suspicion can lead to strained relationships, hurt other people's feelings, and cause trouble. I will also fall into the bad mood of mediocrity and confusion. Bacon pointed out in his essay "On Suspicion and Suspicion".

Suspicion "is to confuse people, confuse friends and enemies with the best network, and destroy people and careers." People with this unhealthy personality trait should actively seek correction.

Character flaws manifest themselves as follows:

1. There is always a sense of powerlessness: whether it is in ordinary study or work, it is obviously not very challenging, but it is always easy to feel tired, and even in physical strength and energy, there is an obvious lack of physical strength and energy, and at the same time, it is often unpleasant emotionally, and even if you encounter a little problem, you have to "retreat", which is actually an obvious symptom of character defects.

2. Overly paranoid personality: People with character defects often show extreme stubbornness, in addition to being prone to extreme others and always self-centered, they often have sensitive and suspicious emotions, and will doubt whether others will be unfavorable to them and difficult to integrate into the group.

Personality Defect Adjustment Method

1. Recognize your own character flaws: It is not terrible to have a lack of character or Zen trap, first of all, you must recognize your own character flaws, and when you almost do not admit that you have character flaws, there is no way to adjust the conditioning and adjustment of Hedou Chenli. After realizing that you have character flaws, you will be able to further adjust and recuperate.

2. Accept your own character flaws: After knowing your own character flaws, you should also accept your own character flaws, and realize that it is also a normal thing to have character flaws.