Finally graduated, why do you still hate some people?

Hello! We were all young, and I don't know if you still hate the senior students who were bullied when you were a child, and I don't know if you still hate the teacher who punished you for your homework, even if you have an impression, I believe it will be diluted with time. There is nothing in this world that time cannot erase, just how long, sooner or later one day you will smile and remember the past!

Hope mine can help you!

Is it that people are doing better than you?

Laughing and recalling the past, it will be free and easy.

I believe that many friends have resonance. The former classmates went their separate ways after graduation, and they couldn't see much difference when they just graduated, but a few years later, due to the different cities and different working environments, everyone's life circle has slowly widened the distance.

Some students seek stability to stay in their hometown and enter the career editor, living a regular life of 9 to 5 answers, their parents are by their side, their work is stable, and the personnel environment is simple; Some students choose to work hard in big cities, and they are exposed to new things every day, and their resources and life seem to be richer than those in small counties.

People in their hometowns envy the prosperity and freshness of big cities; Office workers in big cities envy the stability of their hometown and have less pressure. The result is to compare with each other, envy each other, and be anxious together. In fact, this problem is very common, just like what is said in "The Siege": "People in the city want to come out, and people outside the city want to go in, whether it is for marriage or work."

It's like those who are married want to get rid of it, and those who are not married want to get married."

If you have the idea of envying your classmates in big cities, you might as well think about it: Do people live for others to see in this life? You only saw the glamour in the other party's circle of friends, but you didn't see their hard work of working overtime and squeezing the subway every day, you only saw their travel around the country, but you didn't see their rush to catch up with the project.

So adjust your mentality, if you feel happy and satisfied doing your current job, this is in itself something that countless people dream of. In fact, there is nothing wrong with working from 9 to 5, and consumption in cities with high wages is also high, so don't always compare yourself with others, plan your own life, as long as you know what you want, then don't care about the lives and eyes of others. After all, no matter how good other people's lives are, it's not yours, instead of envying others, it's better to be yourself and live your own life.

Finally, I would like to conclude by saying: Examine what you want to enjoy, but also know what you need to give. Life is fair to everyone, whether you are in a big city or a small county, you have to work hard to live a wonderful life

In fact, you already have the answer in your heart, your girlfriend is also local, even if you don't have too many relatives and friends at home, it's better than not having outside, developing outside may not be good, and developing at home is not necessarily bad. If the conditions on both sides are similar, the hometown may be better.