I can t let go of my girlfriend, please know the trick

Updated on psychology 2024-04-16
38 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    I don't agree with what is said on the first floor, and the struggle is just fiction.

    Let me tell you a story :

    There was a girl who was getting married, and before leaving, she asked her mother, how should I face love in the future?

    Mom grabbed a handful of sand from the ground and said, love is like this sand, the tighter you hold it, the less is left. The more space you give it, the more perfect love will be.

    Since your girlfriend said so, you can leave with peace of mind, for the sake of your bright future. In fact, no one knows what will happen in the future, even if you don't go abroad, there is no guarantee that you will always be together in the future, we just need to cherish the present.

    You're still young, let it take its course, it's still yours after all, even if you're gone, it's your fate at the end.

    Good luck!

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    Although very naïve.

    But if you love, you don't regret it.

    Love is not regretted.

    Don't give up. Don't preempt undeserved pain.

    Any relationship will fade in the same way.

    But. It is important that you have faith.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    Brother, Zhu and Ling are struggling with this problem.! Curcuma leaves to buy friends in the city of Na. They are in the process of being confined for 3 years.

    Although the family loves each other very much. Harsh and afraid that they will be separated. Love is realistic.

    If you say you love each other, you will believe each other. After the Emperor decided to sneer! Let it be.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    If the two love for a long time, how can they wait for the morning and twilight?

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    Take a look at what the lovers Tong Dawei and Ma Yili do in "Struggle", and you will have the answer

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    Three years, it will definitely be divided.

    Even if no foreigner likes you.

    Your girlfriend won't be chased by boys.

    There is nothing to look forward to in a long-distance relationship.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    Your ex-boyfriend has the charm to attract you and he is handsome? Or is it rich? Or is it a good character? You only need to think about one question, what is it about your boyfriend that you can't forget him, and I can help you.

  8. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    It's not an exaggeration to say that you deserve it, but it's you who use the word "betrayal" to prove that you know you've made the wrong decision.

    People sometimes know that it is your blessing to have someone who is willing to be good to you, you have to be content, after breaking up, go your own way, enjoy loneliness, and even find your happiness again, this is also a kind of contentment, in what kind of situation, you have to have a different state of mind to adapt, otherwise you can not change anything, you will live a worse life.

    Try to accept someone you don't hate, take your time, and see if you can accept another person, because you are always entangled in that person, so you must not feel this emotional foundation for others, even if you reconcile, the problems in the future will make you feel a little more sober, even if you reach the age of marriage.

    Compared to most people, you are still very young, the road ahead is good, the road is long, don't worry about reconciliation, okay, be fair to yourself, let go of each other and smile.

  9. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    Why bother in the first place... Hey...

    It's not easy to make peace!!

    There are traces of how to repair your broken bowls!!

  10. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    You die, I won't want you You regret it now, you saponin, you went around and found that people are good, think about it again, maybe, do you have to hurt people so deeply I cared about you at that time Who cares about you now.

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    You're definitely going to have to give up, and the two of you have no results unless you want to be a junior. There are many men in the world, and women are still afraid that no one will want them when they are older, and I am not afraid.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    Clause.

    1. Have a good heart, first.

    2. Recitation: Nan Wu Great Compassion Guanyin Bodhisattva, keep chanting ---

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    Good horses don't eat back grass, don't think about going back to the past, let's look forward!

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    Find someone to marry, and be good to the person you marry wholeheartedly, and there will be nothing to do.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    Let it go. There will be no happiness when we come back together. If you betrayed him, he must have hated you very much.

    I tried it too. Trust me. Barely there is no happiness.

    There are so many trees in the world, so why give up an entire forest for a flower? If he is the only one in the world who is a unique flower, then he may also be a unique flower who hates you. Do you understand?

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    Back then, you told him to get out, and he got out.

    Now you let him come back, sorry, he got away.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    It's easy to love someone, it's hard to forget someone, and there's everything in the world.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    Loved, always hard to forget, those memories of love, that person's smiling face and words, are deeply rooted in my heart, can only be gradually forgotten! Don't deliberately forget, deliberate will only deepen your memory! And hatred will only make one's life more tired, one's heart more bitter, and it will be more difficult to start one's new life!

    It's hard to get the memory of that person out of your mind, and losing your memory to escape can only be escaped for a while, and your heart will still hurt! Why bother! In the past, even if it will be painful, there are still good memories to cherish!

    Face it calmly and forget about it! You can, don't choose to run away anymore! Be strong!

    Let's forget about that person! When you think about her, force yourself not to think about it and do something else! Look more at the scenery outside the window, look at the sky more, and you will be more open!

    Listen to more songs and let your heart stop wandering! Tell yourself to stop thinking about yourself and her, tell yourself that she and I have become a thing of the past, and that we will only be friends, ordinary friends in the future! Even if you can't help but think of her, you have to force yourself not to think about it anymore!

    Say to yourself every day, she is in the past, the past feelings will not come back, to admit that the feelings are over, and to face the current life is the most important thing! Don't lose what you have now because of a past her! Let's look at the point!

    Forget that there will be a new life! Wishing you happiness! Friends, the new year has come, please sort out your wounded heart and give yourself a belief that tomorrow will be better!

    Love, enough, don't stay in the memories of the past, face the new life, and start again at a new starting point in 2010! Here I wish you happiness too!

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    What should I do when I can't put it down?

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    Men are like that. Explain that your ex-girlfriend makes you feel good. Although I broke up, I still can't forget it.

    My boyfriend is like that, too. But that's just a nostalgia. If you go back.

    I don't like it so much, and my boyfriend once put me back because of an ex-girlfriend. I knew he would come back. He came back three days later.

    Why? Because missing is just the beauty of memory. Not reality.

    Cherish the present, make good memories, and you will not be able to let go of each other.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    Approaching a gentleman is virtuous, you can tolerate yourself doing this, if your girlfriend is like you, it's not impossible, how would you feel if you put yourself in your shoes! Love is still single-minded, manage a real love with your heart, I don't think your heart will struggle like this now. You like your ex-girlfriend too, and you definitely like it now, so are you fair to them!

    It would be nice to find someone you deserve to love and love her with the most sincere love, and I wish you happiness.

    Hope it helps!

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    It's normal, it means that you have given real feelings. It's okay, it will slowly subside over time.

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    Landlord, you have no bottom line, and when you encounter such a thing, you shouldn't be very weak, this is a matter of principle. You're a man. ”

    Since you want to live your whole life, you have plans to marry her, right? Have you ever thought about what kind of character you are if you get married? A male vase at home?

    Or the pillar of the family? Is it a pump? Or is it an engine?

    Your so-called "girlfriend" now, in my opinion, is completely looking for a pump! What does it mean that you didn't capture her heart? You're so good to her, she's still picky, if you change me, just say it:

    Okay, you will be my woman obediently for me, and put away your careful thoughts and small actions. It's not good, please leave, my heart is broken, Lao Tzu found a corner to stick it by himself, the egg hurts, Lao Tzu rubs the egg and continues to live! Don't say I'm extreme, in my opinion, it's a question of men's dignity!

    It's not negotiable! Don't say anything for love, bear with it! Love is built on mutual respect!

    Of course, if the landlord has a penchant for masochism, please ignore me!

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    She doesn't have you in her heart, what's the use of you cherishing it?

    has broken up with her ex-boyfriend and is still friends; Isn't that a broken thread!

    If you really want to cherish it, let her go and tell her that you will wait for her.

    If she can let it go, then you will be together again, and then cherish her and treat her well.

    If she can't let go, then you can find someone who is worthy of your cherishment and love to live a good life

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-14

    There are some things that can't be forced, and if you think about it, it doesn't mean that it seems that everyone can never forget it in their hearts, and the most important thing is to be able to let go.

    A responsible person will not accept a second relationship until he has let go of his previous relationship, which is responsible for himself and for the man.

    Since your girlfriend didn't let go, then you can choose to give her time to wait, it's yours sooner or later, and even if she says, "Your ex-boyfriend came to chase me, you don't care," you don't have to take it to heart, and an immature woman is a danger to a family.

    Her previous relationship was also a time bomb for you, a safety hazard, and you don't have to be too emotional until it's lifted, calm down and face these things.

    You seem to have lived with him for the rest of your life, but she's a passerby in your life after all.

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-13

    I've encountered a lot of this kind of thing, anyone is hard to forget about their first love, let alone a girl, the first love is a good memory for her, both young and innocent and romantic and happy, it is impossible to forget it at once, if you like her, you should be considerate of her, tolerate her, and do better than her ex-boyfriend. Because gradually she will feel that you are her true destiny. Loving someone is not going to worry too much about anything, if you like her, it means paying, I think she will understand that you are good to her, and finally under your care, she will treat you as her only one!!

  27. Anonymous users2024-01-12

    You are good to her, only you know, can she really see it? It takes time for a girl to forget her previous relationship. I advise you to leave her for a while and give her some time to think about it.

    It may be hard for you to leave, but be ruthless so that it doesn't hurt more. Although you have been together for a few months, are you sure that his heart is with you? Has she forgotten her old love?

    Give her some time. Think about each other.

  28. Anonymous users2024-01-11

    You also agree to be friends with them, aren't you luring the wolf into the house? It's not that you can't hold her heart, it's that her heart is still in the hands of that man. If you can't grab it, you will accept your fate, many things do not mean that hard work is enough, fate!

    There are many successful women in the world who are attractive women, but you only love her, what does this mean? Whether it is good or not is secondary, the important thing is to feel it, and it is to like it. So no matter how good you are, she only has feelings for him, brother, break up.

  29. Anonymous users2024-01-10

    When the interruption continues, it suffers.

    You're just a spare tire now.

    If the heart is not in you, it is impossible to grasp it.

  30. Anonymous users2024-01-09

    Maybe no matter what you do, you can't grasp her heart, because her heart is not with you, let your relationship be in a vacuum, let each other close to a period of time (a week) If you are important in her heart, she will turn back and take the initiative to find you.

  31. Anonymous users2024-01-08

    I feel like you have no bottom line, cherish feelings are not such cherished brothers, sooner or later you have to make wedding dresses for others.

  32. Anonymous users2024-01-07

    Well, then you are sad, people have not come out of the previous relationship, you can only make you tired, I suggest you calm down and think about your future relationship.

  33. Anonymous users2024-01-06

    Not everything can be achieved by hard work.

    This is especially true of emotional matters.

    Boy, let it go when it's time to let go.

    There's no need to make yourself so miserable.

  34. Anonymous users2024-01-05

    Give yourself freedom, how tired it is to be in such a relationship

  35. Anonymous users2024-01-04

    Everyone has a past, maybe what she needs is time, you have to have faith in yourself.

  36. Anonymous users2024-01-03

    Long pain is better than short pain, let go early, otherwise you will be the most painful.

  37. Anonymous users2024-01-02

    Give her time, be herself, love her in her own unique way, and she will see the good in you.

  38. Anonymous users2024-01-01

    I think it's up to me to copy my own will, and remind myself that he doesn't belong to me anymore, and that we're not suitable. And zhi must learn to divert his attention, find more things to do, and keep himself busy. The condition is that you can find another one, but I think the price of impulsiveness is not always as good as romance.

    This is my own experience, I also miss my ex-boyfriend when I first broke up, especially when I go through some roads full of memories, but I can't help it, even if I miss it hard, I think that since I have made a decision to start a new life for two people, I shouldn't be tied again, should I hurt each other again? My ex-boyfriend is now married and has a baby, I can send my best wishes from the bottom of my heart, and he will also care for me in the way of a friend.

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