Bad looks, low self esteem! What should I do?

Low self-esteem is due to the fact that it should be. It is not right to have excessive low self-esteem. There are good things and bad things in life, depending on what you pay attention to, some people are obsessed with money, some people are obsessed with sex, and some people ===.

Appearance is for people to see, why do you care, it must be useful on the appearance of the place, find a way to make up for it. This is a congenital deficiency that can only be cultivated. I don't look good either, because of the ** disease cured.

It's inferior. You can't keep thinking it's not good-looking. So don't care.

Think of something useful. It's useless to sing a high note, there is a joke about the beans. The youth bean is not only heartfelt on other people's faces.

So let's accept reality.

If others don't look down on you, no matter how good your heart is, it's useless.

Nowadays, women are more now, which is normal, and must be accepted.

I want girls to like it, to put it bluntly. Either you're handsome, or you're rich, or you're talented.

You're not handsome, but you still have two things to choose from. If you're not a rich second generation.

I think you already know what you're trying to do.

Looks don't really matter.

Because I've been with someone for a long time, whether it's a beautiful woman or an ugly girl, no matter how you look at it, it feels average.

Since you feel that your appearance is not good, make up for it a little more in terms of temperament.

So how old are you? Mental health is very important, and looking at people and appearances is a superficial manifestation.

What's more, instead of dwelling on the issue of appearance, it's better to accumulate more confidence in everyday life.

Being able to find your own niche rather than what looks bring.

Ignore him. Isn't Lincoln also ugly, and he is still a **. The bigger the person, the less important the appearance.

Haha, if you are not defective on the outside, you have to make up for it on the inside, when you are talented and knowledgeable, other people's eyes will look at you with a look of admiration, and you don't care about your appearance! For example, if a very ugly and ugly bad old man gets off a Mercedes-Benz car of more than 200 w, will you want to dig up an ugly old man, or will you want to dig a good old man.

Three points of talent, seven points of dress.

It is important to believe in yourself and be confident.

Uh: That's just your own opinion, right? People will have a kind of pursuit of perfection psychology, facing themselves in the mirror, there will always be if the eyes are bigger, if the ** whiter, the nose is more stiff and so on. Wow, everyone is so beautiful, how can I be so miserable, hehe.

When the mood is great, your face will be more vivid Believe me, the appearance you hate and complain about in your heart will be different kind of beauty in the eyes of others. There are many words to describe a girl's appearance, beautiful, cute, pure, delicate, temperamental, but there is absolutely no ugly word

Conceit can be cured, inferiority complex is incurable!

Who is perfect these days, not beautiful but cute!

Don't you know that confident women are the most beautiful? In fact, the appearance is only for a period of time, and the inside will become more and more charming with age! I talk to a lot of friends of the opposite sex, and they say that if a woman has nothing to say, she really can't compliment!

You see men say that, so not all men are visual creatures! I believe that our men are also people with connotation, not just superficial animals!

Confidence, self-confidence, self-confidence...

Damn, can you be uglier than the old sow in my wife's house?

Summary. Hello, now many people have appearance worries, feel that they are not good-looking, may I ask if you have encountered some unfair treatment because of your appearance?

What should I do if I am not satisfied with my appearance and feel inferior?

Hello, now many people have appearance worries, feel that they are not good-looking, may I ask if you have encountered some unfair treatment because of your appearance?

No, I just feel that I don't have self-confidence, a lot of filters, now my forty-something-year-old son is four and a half years old, when others say that I am called a grandmother, I will feel that I am not particularly old.

First of all, those who say that you are grandma themselves have a lot of malice, as long as they say bad things about others, do they look like fairies, most people look like public faces, and they need to be groomed and dressed up. Secondly, this should also be divided into men and women, some men say this kind of thing is idle, after all, there are still a lot of straight men with cancer, if it is a woman, it is possible that she is not as good as you in life or you have something she is jealous of to say this. Many times self-confidence is a feeling of psychology and the relationship between looks is not particularly large, you can cultivate your own interests and hobbies, or you have made achievements in some aspects, and even cultivate your own children to let them become dragons and phoenixes, at that time there will naturally be a lot of self-confidence.

You need to do a good job of inner upliftment. In essence, when you walk on the street, or people come into contact with you, don't always think about whether I am particularly old, not good here, not good there, always feel that others look at you with strange eyes, your mentality is good, you are naturally energetic, and then you will consider changing your appearance, wear some young clothes and do hair, and do more aerobic exercise. Being young is a state of mind, not a look.

You can complete your main tasks first, and continue to affirm yourself in many ways, then you will find that you are still very good day after day. There is no absolute beauty and ugliness, be brave, be confident, read more books, and beauty and temperament will soon accompany you. Remember, the biggest enemy is always yourself.

.Many people will feel unconfident because of their appearance, looks, height and figure can't be blamed on anyone, parents can't be blamed for themselves, all we can do is to make ourselves confident. It's just a personal opinion to think that I'm ugly, there's no need to lack self-confidence, look in the mirror, smile, in fact, I'm pretty good-looking.

As long as you hold your chest up and think you're beautiful, no one will laugh at you. This is a psychological disorder, this situation should not be determined by appearance, beauty and ugliness is the embodiment of a person's comprehensive quality, and the beauty of the soul and the size of the ability are the key, especially for men, so there is no need to have this inferiority complex. It must be annoying after a long time, I used to have a strong desire to talk to others, and I wanted to talk to someone, but I was also worried about whether the other party would be annoying to me, so this is really a worrying thing.

However, if you have such concerns, it means that there is still such a possibility, so when you are talking to someone, you need to find the right person according to the content you want to chat with.

First of all, chatting this kind of thing, it's all mutual, if you want to complain to others about your experience, if the other party is not a particularly good relationship, you are more likely to find you annoying, if you have a good relationship with the other party, if you know each other better, you should not have such concerns.

Secondly, if you talk to others, the content of the chat is mainly when you are talking about your own affairs, others may be difficult to empathize, if you chat, both parties can talk about their own things, rather than just listening to one person's speech, this kind of two-person chat has a stronger sense of participation, and the chat is easier to continue, that is, in the process of chatting, don't just think about your own feelings, and ignore the other party's feelings, after all, others don't have to chat with you, Listen to your spit or complain about Yiwu.

Moreover, for the other party to take the initiative to chat with themselves, it really depends on the quality of the relationship, if the relationship is good, there will be no problem at all, if the relationship is average, then you should learn to be indifferent, after all, everyone has their own life, have their own circle of friends, this kind of thing is really normal.

Finally, if you really want to talk to someone about something, if you really can't find someone, you can also choose other ways. For example, write down what you want to say, maybe you have a strong desire to talk at first, maybe in the process of writing, your mood will slowly calm down, and then the desire to talk may be reduced, and you may also be full of things in the process. This writing can be handwritten, or it can be an electronic version, such as posting it on Weibo, etc., if you don't want to be known by others, you can also choose some platforms that you don't know to confide in.

Summary. Hello dear, 1. Correctly recognize and evaluate yourself: admit your current situation, discover your own strengths, and establish self-confidence.

2. Self-motivation: Be good at using praise and affirmation to build self-confidence. 3. Adopt positive autosuggestion:

Believe in yourself, which boosts your self-confidence. 4. Correct comparison: When comparing with others, you should choose people and things that are similar to yourself in all aspects to avoid inferiority.

What to do if you don't look good and have low self-esteem.

Hello dear, 1. Correctly recognize and evaluate yourself: admit your current situation, discover your own strengths, and establish self-confidence. 2. Self-motivation:

Good at using praise and affirmation to build self-confidence. 3. Adopt positive self-suggestion: Believe in yourself, so as to improve self-confidence.

4. Correct comparison: When comparing with others, you should choose people and things that are similar to yourself in all aspects to avoid inferiority.

5.An interesting soul is more important than appearances.

I also understand these truths, but I just have low self-esteem, why am I not good-looking.

Hello dear, do you think ** is not good-looking? Do you have any comments from outsiders? Or has something happened to you that you have been treated unfairly because of your appearance?

No, but I just feel inferior to my looks.

My dear, everyone's appearance is predestined, so we can think differently.

The teacher would like to ask, is there any way to change your appearance from the current one?

There's nothing you can do to change your appearance.

Honey, do you usually wear makeup? Have you researched how to wear clothes?

No makeup and no research.

Honey, you're a girl, right, if you're a girl, you can study makeup, for example, if you're not satisfied with your eyes and aren't big enough, then you can adjust it by eyeliner and eyelashes, if you say that your thighs are thick and your waist is thin, you can highlight the waist line, and wear some skirts that cinched your waist.

If it's a guy, then the hairstyle is very important, and the outfit is also very important, dear.

Low self-esteem is a subjunctive word, so you first need to find out the point where you are least confident, and then change it in many ways to bring self-confidence.