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The problem of parents is greater than that of environmental problems.
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Psychological disorders are not new to everyone, and psychological disorders are different from other physical diseases. They are a series of problems caused by changes in the internal psychological factors of a person. Their staring can indirectly change people's personalities, worldviews, and moods.
Due to the increasing stress of modern life, many children suffer from mental disorders. So what are the reasons for the psychological disorders in children, I will give you a detailed explanation below.
1. Doting. Spoiling makes them short of the ability to take charge of the individual and the ability to resist pressure, today's only child is several generations of pampering, simply what you want to give, the love of parents is now unrestrained, so that the child constitutes a stubborn, vexatious, do not understand the mentality of thinking for others. Together, they also have a great impact on the growth of children.
2. Low self-esteem. Lack of encouragement makes them show the shortcomings of their inferiority, heart, and non-pride. Most parents in China don't know how to express their love for their children, and they generally think that their children can understand it like adults.
In fact, what children need is verbal expression and behavioral expression, and lack of encouragement and care will make children form a lonely temperament.
3. Family. It is also related to the family environment, parents are too alienated from their children, for example, some parents have been working in other places for a long time, and they basically have no opportunity to get close to and contact with their children, so they have emotional problems. Some parents are too harsh and strict, which makes their children nervous.
Some parents are overly spoiled, have no boundaries from their children, and are child-centered, which will also lead to psychological problems in children.
4. Pressure. Mom and Dad's expectations are too high and the demands are too severe. The pressure of learning makes them anxious, and excessive learning pressure will form mental anxiety, such as inability to concentrate, mental trance, and even insomnia, and some children forget how to communicate with others due to learning.
From the above content, it is known that children's psychological problems have their own particularities, and children themselves lack the ability to express themselves appropriately. As a result, they often express their problems through some strange behaviors. In short, no matter how old the child is, as long as they are found to have abnormal behavior, learning difficulties, sleep disorders, personality defects, emotional disorders, social disorders, sexual role deviations, etc., the child should be taken to the children's psychological clinic in time.
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Communicate with your child more often, or take him to other places to divert your child's attention.
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1. ADHD
ADHD is the abbreviation of ADHD in children, also known as attention deficit hyperactivity disorder, which is a type of children's behavioral problems with attention disorder as the prominent manifestation and hyperactivity as the main feature, and the general age of onset is 8 to 10 years old.
ADHD is mainly manifested by excessive activity, lack of concentration, and impulsive behavior that leads to learning difficulties.
2. Anxiety disorders.
Anxiety disorders are neurological symptoms characterized by anxiety reactions that are incompatible with an objective threat. Anxiety is an emotional state that is intertwined with tension, restlessness, anxiety, worry, fear, etc., and is also a common feature of various neuroses such as anxiety, depression, obsessive-compulsive disorder, and phobias. A common anxiety response among students is test anxiety.
As the exam approaches, I am extremely nervous, unable to concentrate during the exam, rigid thinking, emotional flustered, unable to perform at a normal level, and unable to relax for a long time after the exam.
3. Learning Difficulties Syndrome.
It is mainly manifested as lack of certain learning skills, difficulty in reading, difficulty in calculation, difficulty in drawing, difficulty in communication, difficulty in pronunciation, difficulty in writing, etc.
Fourth, school boredom.
School boredom, also known as learning depression, is an emotional disorder caused by human factors. The main reason for this is the mistake of education methods, such as the school's examination-oriented education, improper family education methods, etc.
Anomalyxia is mainly manifested as not being interested in learning and hating learning. When it comes to studying, they are upset, restless, resistant to teachers or parents, and in severe cases, they will skip school, skip school or drop out of school.
5. Obsessive-compulsive disorder.
Obsessive-compulsive disorder is mainly manifested by obsessions and compulsions. Obsessions are when the person thinks about things that he doesn't want to think about. Compulsion is when the person repeatedly does something he or she does not want to perform. If he doesn't, if he doesn't think so, he will feel extremely anxious.
6. Phobias.
Phobias are irrational fears of things and situations that are fixed and have no real harm.
People with social phobia are afraid to speak in social situations, worrying that they will expose their anxiety due to shaking hands, blushing, trembling voice, stuttering, and feeling that they are speaking unnaturally, so they dare not raise their heads or look into the eyes of others.
7. Depression.
Depression is a neurosis characterized by persistent hypothymia.
It is mainly manifested as negative emotions, sadness, decadence, indifference, loss of satisfaction and joy of life. And there are negative cognitive tendencies, such as low self-esteem, a sense of incompetence, seeing things from a negative side, liking to blame oneself, and not having hope for the future. Lack of motivation, passivity, lack of enthusiasm, physical fatigue, insomnia, loss of appetite, etc.
In life, it is necessary to maintain a good psychological state, have the vitality of life, a positive heart, and give full play to personal potential.
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