My daughter talked about a partner, everything is good, is the family special deduction, can she mar

If the relationship between the two is particularly good, you can consider it, after all, the writer is long, or don't interfere too much; If the girl doesn't want to marry him, no matter how good he is, don't marry, after all, she is the daughter she has raised for so many years; If you are very good to your daughter and unfilial to your parents, it is best to talk to your daughter, and it is recommended that you do not find a son-in-law who is not even filial to your parents!

Do you think that your daughter talked about this friend, everything is good at home, but the family is more picky, then the family picks, as long as she can live a good life, this should be acceptable.

As long as the girlfriend is good to your daughter, and the door is on the right path, you can still get married.

I think it depends on how your daughter's relationship is with that person? And how about looking at this man's character? Does he have any bad habits? Will people curse? If none of these problems are present, then you can barely get married.

The daughter's in-laws are too close to the door. As long as your daughter gets along with you and your son-in-law, you don't have to be too lenient. As long as your daughter wants to.

If the conditions at home were not good before, it was nothing, and life was forced, mainly depending on whether the object of the search was picking on your daughter.

In fact, no one is perfect, everyone has everyone's shortcomings and advantages, in fact, it is not a bad thing to be particularly picky, it is better than spending it all in a big way.

It depends on your daughter's own thoughts, and if she doesn't care about this, you still have to respect your daughter's decision.

The family that the girl is looking for is very deductible, if the child wants to or leave it alone, if you particularly recommend you can tell the child.

If your daughter and this partner are still talking and getting along more happily.

Then maybe it will be better after getting married.

If you see how your daughter is, you can consider it if it's good.

Your daughter talked about a partner, everything is good, but the family is very stingy, I think it should be considered carefully.

First of all, it depends on what your daughter says, how to say, you can also be his opinion?

Marrying a divorced man must be cautious, after the divorce of the man's family is very complicated, especially if there are children, it should be considered clearly. Really don't marry a divorced man easily, love shouldn't be too emotional, girls should be sensible, don't regret it after getting married.

He began to conceal it, to be honest, normal people will hide it in the early days of love. He later told you everything, proving that he still has character. But Gu Liang, you have to think clearly, you yourself said that he can't ignore this daughter, at least financially he must raise it.

Can your love for him sustain you to raise your husband's children for the next decade or more? Now it's a deep relationship, and in the future, will you quarrel endlessly for this child. I can see that you actually care about the existence of this child, and you can't treat her as if she were your own.

Can you be a good stepmother? You have to ask yourself all these things in your heart before making a decision. He's good to you now, what about later?

Whether it is introduced by a friend or known by yourself, at least family background. The main relationship in the mound should be understood clearly, no matter what you know, you don't know anything and talk about love, and now the two have feelings, and he will tell you about his family, there is an old mother at home, you can't say anything, and children, you don't get married before you become a mother, you are now Qihu is difficult, but the two of you feel good, this is not a problem, as long as he is good to you, you can get married.

You must be very clear about this matter.

It's okay, it's hard for your stepmother to look at you.

It's okay to describe you and your boyfriend.

The biggest problem is the child, she will be you.

The biggest obstacle and fuse between is now separated.

It's not too late, wait until you get married, and if you get divorced, then it's too late.

Besides, your boyfriend is unreliable and has children.

I won't say it for half a year, and then it's a deception.

He's gone too far, and I think you've already done it.

After the substantive relationship, he felt that there was nothing to do.

If you want to do such a big thing, he can hide it from you, and in the future, in terms of children.

Will he be honest with you?

Can this be called loving you very much? Love is open and honest.

There is no concealment and you are left to choose for yourself to continue.

To get along or to separate, deception should not be employed.

means to achieve their own ends.

Think about it and don't be emotional.

So as not to regret it for a lifetime.

Hope it helps!

Wishing you happiness!

Many people say that divorced men know how to cherish and are more mature.

But some people think that if he was really that good, how could he get divorced in the first place?

I wouldn't marry a divorced man with children, because I think it's really hard to be a stepmother to someone else, and it's easy for couples to get along and have problems.

Especially after having your own children, even if you have two bowls of water, others can always find faults.

Besides, why did he divorce his ex-wife in the first place?

Who can guarantee that those problems will not recur after remarrying me? It's too risky, I won't get married.

Generally, the second married man is not particularly good, after all, there are a lot of unmarried men waiting for you to choose, and then his child's words, it is impossible to say that it is impossible, after all, it is also his child, and the child's mother can also go to see the child in the future, uh, and I don't think it's very good, you get married and have children in the future, people may say that you are not good for his child, only good for his own child, and so on, even if you are good to his child, maybe the child will not kiss you, this is very realistic, you can get from his neighbor** Inquire more and see what the situation of their family is, if you can accept it, you will be together, and if you can't accept it, you should divide it quickly.

It's hard to say.

If you combine the problems that need to be solved:

The child is to be solved, and it must be communicated well. After all, the child is already older.

The ex-wife problem must be cut off.

His question is what caused the divorce. It has to be figured out.

The attitude of his parents must be guaranteed.

So what are you going to do?

Leave or what, I suggest to see from the perspective of whose life is multi-faceted.

I think if you love her, you should accept her children, because you will also have your own children in the future, I think as a woman, nature should be more maternal love this aspect, I think the key is to see if you can accept it? If you can accept it, if you love him hard, you must accept his child, if you love her, but you can't accept his child, then I think you should break up quickly, because that child will be very painful in the future, since you don't like his child, then even if you are with him, you will not be good to that child.

Since you like him, don't care about his children, after all, they are his own flesh and blood, if you let him ignore it, it's impossible, he doesn't care who cares about his children, if you love someone, you have to tolerate everything about him, and the children are so old, you will be a good mother, I wish you happiness.

First of all, you have to be ready to be a stepmother, no matter how good you are to her, it is useless, you can't be a little bad. If you don't hold grudges when you are born, she will remember you for the rest of your life, because you have no blood relationship with her.

The beauty advises you to be cautious and cautious, and it doesn't matter if you get married, but children are a problem.

Do you know why you get divorced?

Just be kind and tolerant of each other, Nan no Manjushri.

You love him so much, you don't need to say anything.

In fact, your parents are both from the past Want you to find a good condition and live a better life directly At least you don't have to worry about the economy No money Even if you two love each other again, you will be worried about no money Whose parents don't want their daughter to marry a good family Don't worry every day Don't blame your parents for waiting for you to have a child When you are also a person who has come over, you will understand your parents' hard work If it is me, first of all, we must see if he really loves you, being loved is happy, for you What step he has done for you And then think about whether it is worth it for him to pay If you believe that he is a potential stock, then it will be easy to do, if not, I hope you think about it, love is not sympathy, if you think too much about him, instead of him can give in for your happiness, I think you will do it too, and finally I sincerely wish you happiness.

Coax your parents well, talk more about his good when you don't have your boyfriend, your parents love their children, and slowly accept it.

I just want you to find a rich husband so that it won't be so hard.

Of course, parents are kind-hearted, but they may not understand your love, everyone has a different view of love, insist on what you want to insist on, of course, you can also choose to give up.

I think your parents are idle, you didn't marry a rich man, and they didn't get any good treatment, you just like it, my parents told me, it's okay to be poor and good to you,

Parents want their children to be better than others, and it is normal to compare, the condition is to create it yourself, work hard with your boyfriend, and try to do business with a little savings.

If you don't have money, you should be filial to your parents

Parents always want you to find a good one, as long as the two of you are happy.

They want you to be doing well, too.

Your daughter has the right to pursue happiness, and no one can interfere with it, besides, what did you give birth to your daughter for?? Help you repay the loan.

You can borrow the mortgage yourself. Your daughter will not live in that house in the future. Isn't it up to you to pay it back? Why do you have to find someone who has money to help you pay off your mortgage and not let your daughter have a happy home?

The question is that the object with good conditions is in **? Hurry up and take it out for a walk, there is a comparison between the rich and handsome, presumably your daughter will turn back to the shore, hehe, but if you just talk about it, in fact, you can't even find where the door of the rich and handsome's house opens, and there is no way to sell your daughter at all, so it's better to wash and sleep early, don't toss around.

What age, oh, don't have such thoughts! Sitting in a BMW is not necessarily happy, should you sacrifice your daughter's happiness to change the house you bought?

Hehe! Shu Xiao, if you want to find a good partner for your daughter, you first have to look at your own situation! There is still money to spend casually, can you find a Nicholas Tse like this!

Satisfied! But what conditions do you have to make people look at your daughter?? It's a bit ugly, I hope you can figure it out.

Do you have what it takes? Tell him to marry the Fed.

As long as he's happy. Why bother with money? Squeezing is useful.

Every parent wants their daughter to live happily, and as a parent, they hope that their daughter can find a person with good economic conditions, and they hope that their daughter can live happily, and there is nothing wrong with this idea. If as a parent, you want your daughter to find a rich man to help her mother's family, then you are selling your daughter. In this way, I don't care if my daughter is happy or not.

Sons and daughters are the same, you can't sacrifice your daughter's happiness because your family conditions are not good, as long as your daughter can be happy, even if she is not married to a rich man now, but she lives a comfortable life, this is the greatest happiness. Money can't buy genuine feelings.

This bosom friend, after reading your post, my heart is very heavy, what's wrong with your object, how can the customs of your object's hometown be like this? Isn't this purely "selling girls"! If you say, "The custom is 100,000,......The woman still doesn't buy the dowry, but asks the man to buy it and send it over, and they will pull it over when they get married.

The younger brother followed his relatives and pulled him over, and he had to give less than 10,000 yuan to one person. ......Their beautiful name is that the bride price is the pension for the woman's parents. Moreover, holding a banquet at the woman's house requires the man to bring money and things to do it, which means that the woman doesn't care about anything, and she will marry her daughter after receiving the money.

Calculated in this way, your family doesn't have 200,000 yuan, don't want to marry a partner, it's really difficult for you.

You said that the subject's mother is very open, "just give a little bit of the bride price", this is not far away, but the object bites very tightly and never compromises, it seems that her mother can't be the master of the object! The price she proposed was quite neutral, which was really incredible. At present, the bride price in some areas is 4, 6, 8, 100,000 yuan, but these so-called bride prices are all purchased for the woman as a dowry, and they have to be transported to the in-law's house to settle down, and some girls will also bring tens of thousands of passbooks for future living needs.

The mother's family will also pay for large dowries such as houses and cars. There is no bride price like your partner in order to provide for his mother's old age. In fact, it is also your responsibility for her to support her mother in the future if she does not want a bride price, so why bother you like this at this time?

Is she really in love with you? It makes people wonder what she did, how you will live in the future.

The old man thinks that you are not wrong, the fault is that the family has no money, not a big money, not a rich second generation. The main thing is that the object is too stubborn and will not be sympathetic to the other party, but in fact they don't consider your existence. The old man will support you with a move, one is to discuss with her mother, report the actual situation of the family to her, promise to support the elderly, and hope that the mother-in-law will raise her noble hand, persuade her daughter, let herself go, and promise to fulfill her promise.

The second is to have a showdown with the object, get married at the behest of her mother's arrangement, break up if she is stubborn, give her an ultimatum (of course, this is to scare her), and see how she expresses her position! If she continues to insist on her own views and does not compromise, it seems that you will not have the fate of husband and wife!