How to teach children to do homework, how to teach children to do homework?

1. Let children like to be educated. As a parent, what do you think is the most important thing in educating your child? "The most important thing in educating children is to make them like education itself, so that they think that education is a very happy thing, not a painful thing, and only in this way can they receive education happily.

So, I want my children to go to school every morning with a smile on their faces and come back in the afternoon with a smile on their faces. "It's not easy to make children enjoy being educated. How much time do parents spend with their children each day?

Every day at breakfast time, I must be with the children, and in the afternoon, after school, I have afternoon tea with the children and listen to them talk about some interesting things in school. It can be said that as long as children want to be with their parents, parents will be with them. So parents basically schedule work from 9 a.m. to 3 p.m., because that's when the children go to school.

2. Sex education and Internet access. For most parents in China, there may be two confusing problems when it comes to their children's education: one is how to educate their children about sex, and the other is how to control their children's access to the Internet.

Sex education is very easy, that is, the whole family, including the children, will introduce the video of human body knowledge together, and learn human body knowledge with children, just like that, very simple. The problem of surfing the Internet is also very easy to deal with, and the children's computers are connected to the parents' computers, so the children's computers are supervised by the parents' computers, and the content of their Internet access is clear to the parents. ”

3. There is no generation gap with children, except for the difference in the choice of playing computer games, there is no generation gap.

4. Scores, hobbies, and expectations. Parents still pay more attention to their children's test scores, because "it also reflects the child's mastery of knowledge." If your child's test score is not satisfactory, parents should work with their child to find out the reason, and if necessary, contact the school to find out the reason for the unsatisfactory score.

For the cultivation of children's hobbies, it is necessary to basically not interfere with them. Since it's a hobby, as long as it doesn't hurt, as long as they like it. What the children themselves expect from the future, but no matter what they do in the future, it is important for the present to educate children to have good behavior and manners. ”

Educating children to learn how to be human beings is the main and fundamental task of family education, and it is also the core issue in implementing the ideas and requirements of quality education. To educate children to be human beings is to attach great importance to the education of children's ideology and morality. As a parent, we should not emphasize intellectual education over moral education.

Because what is more important than knowledge is ability, and more important than ability is morality. Family education focuses on educating children to be human beings, mainly improving their ideological and moral level, cultivating their habits of abiding by social morality, and enhancing their legal awareness and sense of social responsibility.

2. Educate children to "learn to seek knowledge".

There are many ways to learn to seek knowledge, but the important one is to cultivate good learning habits in children, not to force children to "rote memorization" knowledge, but to focus on understanding and learning to use knowledge flexibly.

3. Educate children to "learn to work".

Children should be guided to participate in housework within their ability, support their children to participate in social welfare work, and cultivate their self-care ability and work habits. Children who learn to work from primary school will benefit for life. Industriousness is the foundation of all good virtues, and laziness is the root of all evil.

Therefore, arranging for children to participate in labor from an early age is a compulsory and basic course in family education. 4. Educate children to "learn to be self-reliant".

Therefore, parents should cultivate their children's independence, the ability to face setbacks, and the ability to adapt to changes, so that children can learn to hone their wings and spread their wings in the vast world.

5. Educate children to develop in an all-round way

Today's society is a competitive society, and people in this era of fierce competition will be eliminated by society if they do not have knowledge and specialized skills and various abilities. Therefore, parents should educate their children not only to learn cultural and scientific knowledge well, but also to actively participate in other activities, cultivate abilities in all aspects, and develop in an all-round way to become useful people in society. Children's education and cultivation is a very complex science, and we parents will work hard to cooperate with the school's education to create a good environment for the healthy growth of children.

Answer rationally and guide independently.

When the child comes home, let the child recall what he has learned before doing his homework, and the parents try not to disturb him.

Educate children not to blindly scold, let's see how to better educate their children!

Yes, when we parents see our children are stressed to the point of collapse, our hearts are even more uncomfortable, and we should treat our children with the problem of homework.

One: Allow for imperfect work.

Allow your child to have homework that they won't do, and allow your child to have mistakes in their homework.

It is normal for children to learn new knowledge in their rounds, and it is inevitable that they will not be able to do it, which is normal, and it is abnormal to be able to do it all.

After children make mistakes and correct them, they will be more impressed by the knowledge.

2. Take the opportunity to cultivate children's ability to think for themselves.

It's not terrible for children to be terrible, and it's even more terrible for Lazhishan to quarrel with children.

When encountering homework that children don't know, parents should not be anxious, try to patiently cultivate the child's self-thinking thinking ability, mobilize his interest in learning, and personally think that this is more beneficial to the child's growth than simply completing the correct homework.

Three: Don't accompany your children, or talk differently.

Do not supervise the child's homework, which will make the child have a rebellious mentality, the premise is to set a good time, what time to do things, after the time this homework can not be done, give the child enough space.

Teach people to fish" instead of "teach people to fish", truly learn to clarify the idea of doing problems, master the method of problem solving, correct the learning attitude, and develop good habits will benefit immensely in the future learning. The most taboo is that parents interfere too much in their children's homework, or blindly blame, do not teach the method of doing problems, will not be step-by-step, simplify the complex, and reduce the whole to teach children to think about the problem.

First of all, parents should have a correct attitude, if the amount of homework required by the school is reasonable, they should cooperate, do not blindly complain and fan the flames, especially in front of the child, if it is unreasonable, we can negotiate with the teacher or the school.

Actively encourage and help the child to complete the homework until the child is able to master the knowledge independently.

Cultivating your child's ability to concentrate can make your child more efficient in completing homework.

Try to change the child's way of thinking, cultivate the child's interest, stimulate the child's fighting spirit, and make the child more happy, happy, and brave to complete the homework task.

When children are doing homework, parents should do the most things: 1. Reading and studying. Mom and Dad are also reading and studying.

Let children know that learning is everyone's business, a norm, and not something that primary school students only do. If the child accepts this setting, she will not feel that doing homework is a special task, but a normal thing that everyone is doing. Since it's a daily matter, there won't be too much resistance.

Start with a plan and finish gradually. Pick up a book, pick up a pen, sit upright, on the one hand, the oak provides companionship, on the other hand, it is actually a role model, I am studying seriously, I sit very upright. Teaching without words is education without words.

Actually, I am very opposed to giving children a study table, and adults are watching from the side, jumping out all the time. If you come home from work and want to review today's work, there is also a person next to you, who does nothing, and is responsible for staring at you to see if you have made mistakes, such a scene feels embarrassing. While doing homework, I also studied by myself; If you accompany your child to practice calligraphy, you also have to take a pen to practice calligraphy.

If you do this way, even if you can only do homework 5 times a month, it will have a very positive impact on your child's learning. Therefore, I especially recommend that when children are in first grade, do not buy a study desk first, but read and study together on the big desk or dining table at home. Wait for the child to get used to it, and then buy a learning table according to the situation.

2. Provide feedback. There are many things that can be gradually let go of the child to do, such as learning to time by himself and learning to find the standard answer by himself (in the book). But in the beginning, children need their parents very much to provide timely feedback.

For example, pinyin, is the initial or the vowel wrong. This kind of feedback can be seen in many coaches, such as the football team players playing football, the ball is not in place, and the coach directly pointed out that it can be adjusted next time. The faster and more direct feedback, the more it can help children correct their mistakes and develop correct behavior habits.

But this kind of feedback is direct and does not need to be evaluated, especially derogatory evaluations, of course, in fact, there is no need to praise, unless it is to praise the child's efforts and perseverance. A good coach doesn't say, "You can't play this ball well, you're stupid."

This is useless for the players and will only undermine the confidence of the players.