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Just because you have a girlfriend doesn't mean you don't need to meet other female friends. But don't get too intimate when you reach out to other female friends. After all, you are a person with a girlfriend, so it is better to keep your distance from other female friends.
Under the condition of keeping a distance, you can have your own girl friends. Everyone's interpersonal interactions are beyond our control. <>
After all, interpersonal relationships are everyone's freedom and cannot be taken away at will. I don't object to my boyfriend having other girlfriends, I always think it's a good thing for him to have girlfriends, so that when we quarrel, he can ask his girlfriend why I'm angry, women understand women best, and this is also good for our relationship. However, if I talk too much with his girlfriends, contact him every day, and say hello in the morning and evening, I will really get angry, and I feel that I may be dumped at any time.
The sense of crisis is very strong, I may quarrel with my boyfriend, we girls are angry with boys and friends with him, and we are not angry casually, but also because they are too often, so they are unhappy, if, he always thinks of his girl friend in everything. I'm going to forbid him from having contact with other girls! I can only spoil one of them.
However, I still hope that my boyfriend has a number of female friends around him, I can let them contact but not too much, I am willing to let them contact, but I hope that his girl friend can respect our love. This degree of relationship still needs to be mastered by my boyfriend.
So, it's also a good thing for girls not to be too sensitive, not too indulgent, and let your boyfriend handle it by himself.
Believe that your boyfriend can master it. It's not easy to force them not to contact if it really doesn't work!
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Of course. I think you have breakfast, don't you need to eat lunch and dinner?
Having a girlfriend doesn't mean you can talk to her about anything, and she can't help you solve any problem!
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She may like you, but she doesn't like what you want, she just likes it, she just wants you to be like her and her friends, remember her when you need it, and quit when you have a girlfriend. There is also the possibility that you yourself like her, just because you have a girlfriend, all of them are restrained, some things others can't see through, the best understanding is yourself, there is only one in your heart that occupies an important position, and you have thought about it and made a choice.
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You'll only have one girlfriend in Raw Potato Sources, but just having a girlfriend is enough for you, you know? Friends are also very greedy for this kind of thing, the more you want to make more friends, in fact, it is also an unreliable thing for yourself, as long as there are one or two people who can really understand you, can listen to your heart to search for less and don't step on you, I also feel that it is enough. How nice it is to have girlfriends.
1.Emotional outpouring. Everyone is lonely, longing to be surrounded by love, and this loneliness makes us yearn to interact with others and find the necessary connection with the outside world.
Loneliness is a self-protection mechanism produced by the individual. Psychologists have found that loneliness is generally stronger in women than in men. Most men prefer to be alone, while women like to be in groups because men are more likely to digest and enjoy solitude, while women always break solitude.
Women very much need a narrator to listen to their inner needs, and this is the importance of the existence of girlfriends. They choose to vent their emotions to the outside world, so they will find someone to tell them.
2.It seems to be an accepted fact that women are inherently insecure, and it has a lot to do with women's physiological characteristics and innate environmental factors. As long as women have problems, they like to look to the outside world for strength, so we find that women prefer to rely on others because in this dependency relationship, women can gain security.
Girlfriends can be relied on to a certain extent, and the more people who can let us down our psychological defenses, the greater the group power behind us, and the stronger this sense of security will be in the subconscious of women.
3.Comfort The presence of a girlfriend is an invisible support for a woman. There is a generation gap between us and our parents, and we seem to need to keep a delicate distance from our loved ones.
Obviously, only the distance from your girlfriend is the most comfortable. That's why women always talk about family, love, and children. Because relationships with others do not allow them to freely express their true thoughts.
At the same time, the relationship between the girlfriends is equal, and the communication between the two can also understand and share each other. There is always a shadow of girlfriends in a woman's life, and the survey found that when a pair of girlfriends are together for a long time, they will behave similarly in some places, which is due to the mutual refraction of the relationship between the two people, and the appropriate distance should be kept between them.
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To be honest, I can't take it. Even the most generous person will not accept this situation.
Because true love is possessive and selfish. I believe that many people are negative about this issue. Generally, after having an object, everyone will take the initiative to keep a certain distance from other members of the opposite sex, in order to avoid suspicion, it is also to show respect for the other half, so that the other half has a sense of security.
However, it is rare to meet a true friend in life, and people who imitate burning infiltration will be unwilling to give up like this. On the one hand, in order not to make the subject feel uneasy, and in order to maintain friendship with confidants. Many times, you can only keep in touch with friends quietly and try to avoid seeing each other.
It is also normal to chat occasionally through the mobile phone, in order not to let the other half misunderstand, everyone is used to deleting records after chatting, or using a calculator to disguise encrypted chat content, and they are not afraid of profiteering mobile phone chat privacy information in the face of mobile phone checks.
Besides, true confidants don't need to meet each other often, nor do they need to chat often, and the relationship doesn't need to be deliberately maintained, no matter how long they haven't met, they won't feel strange when they meet or chat again.
Every person needs their own friends, and in the relationship with partners, they should also be given appropriate personal space, but they should not be completely ignored. In the right space, you can do what you want, but only if you respect each other and stay true to your relationship.
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Generally, if a creature like a man thinks that his girlfriend is okay, he will proudly introduce it to his acquaintance, "This is my girlfriend".
Because it's my girlfriend, I want everyone to see and understand. I don't know why, men are intoxicated by this inexplicable sense of superiority.
But in fact, men don't introduce girlfriends to everyone.
Therefore, five men gathered in the tavern this time, and discussed the topic of "why men don't introduce girlfriends to everyone", with men's unique eyes, judgments, and opinions.
I can't say I'm not mistaken.
This phrase is often heard in chats between men. "That's that kid's girlfriend? Make no mistake", that's not a no-no.
Because it's quite rude for women. When introducing a girlfriend to a friend, men will say, "This is my girlfriend, please take care of me in the future", out of the desire for their friends to accept their girlfriend as well.
But on the contrary, if a man says, "This is my woman, see clearly", it means that the friend should seriously confirm whether he wants to accept his girlfriend.
For example, if your friends always say flattering things to your girlfriend, but your girlfriend is arrogant and rude to your friends and supports them with the same arrogant attitude towards your juniors, then advise you to break up with such a woman as soon as possible.
A woman who wants to be called "sister-in-law" by her friends with her eyes closed, and a woman who gets carried away after being called "sister-in-law" ......These are just trying to use their boyfriends to get on top.
In front of your boyfriend's friends, it's not okay to have such an arrogant attitude. Otherwise, the next day you'll hear something like "your girlfriend is so hateful" from your friends.
Relationships don't change for the better right away.
When you introduce your girlfriend to a friend, you think it's good as long as the friend and girlfriend get along well. "But the way to get along is the problem," said the men in the tavern.
They can't have too much physical contact at will, they can't say obscene things, they can't get into the subject all at once, let alone drink too much and get ......drunk and crazy
If there is a man and a man, it is the opposite, they will say "that kid is awesome". But if you are a woman, you will be considered a frivolous woman.
Although it's a friend, because it's a man, there will be a subtle balance of power. Therefore, the boyfriend will be worried and cautious, which is also a kind of happiness.
You can't just say it.
This is also the reason why I don't want to introduce my girlfriend to my friends. Men just have to have self-esteem and good face.
As soon as you tell your story of failure in front of your friends, they want to slip away.
In the future, as soon as a friend says, "Your girlfriend is so bad", you will want to break up with your girlfriend.
Therefore, men don't feel the need to talk about their girlfriends endlessly, and they don't want to introduce their girlfriends to their friends.
My girlfriend gets angry when she hears "what is your girlfriend?" But compared to this, the act of introducing a girlfriend to a friend, only a man will understand the unclear rules.
Therefore, when introducing your girlfriend to a friend, you should be very cautious about playing the role of your boyfriend.
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Yes, because by doing so, you recognize her place in your heart, and you decide to spend the rest of your life with her.
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It should be that he lacks confidence in himself, and he is afraid that after introducing his girlfriend to others, others may snatch his girlfriend, which is also a sign that he cares about his girlfriend very much.
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I think this is because if you accept it to a friend, your girlfriend may feel like her friend and become an introducer instead of an object.
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Personally, I think that after having a girlfriend, I will introduce myself to the people around me, after all, this is also recognizing my girlfriend and giving my girlfriend a name.
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I think it may be because he doesn't like his girlfriend too much at all, so he doesn't feel the need to introduce him to his friend.
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Of course it's not normal, you're splitting your legs. If a man can't even be honest and loyal in his relationship, he believes that there is nothing to trust, let alone a sense of responsibility, he is completely a scumbag.
Since you already have a girlfriend, you should be with her wholeheartedly, and you should only have her in your eyes. But if you really want to meet another girl, it means that you don't particularly love your girlfriend and want to find a spare tire for yourself. If the girl is better, you may abandon your girlfriend.
This is a typical behavior of riding a donkey to find a horse, and he is an out-and-out scumbag. If you really don't love your girlfriend, you should break up with her and get to know another girl, otherwise it will be unfair to both girls.
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Normal is normal, but it is not recommended to have such thoughts, after all, I already have a girlfriend and I am still thinking about others, it is better to break up directly, slowly understand it, eat the bowl and look at the pot, disgusting.
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You still have a sense of loyalty and moral guilt, but you are becoming less and less resistant to the goddess who feels more compatible with your own airwaves. If you don't have any entanglements with your girlfriend and have a good relationship, restraint trumps any of your thoughts. When you meet a good one, you will always meet a better one, this kind of thing is like a bottomless pit, it will never stop, when you can't stabilize the relationship, your love life will definitely fall into uncontrollable chaos or emptiness, and it will last for a long time.
Don't deceive yourself that in order to prove that you have a normal heart, get close to the other person, and if you are close to each other, you will definitely make mistakes, because you did not have a clear mind at the beginning. Don't lie to yourself and let her down, and in the end you will feel guilty, maybe you will have a bad reputation, and you will no longer be able to settle down.
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It's not normal, it can only mean that the boy is very attentive, the bowl he eats, the one in the pot, he is not responsible for his girlfriend, he is not responsible for himself, and it is even more unfair to another girl, such a boy can't have it.
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It depends on what your motives are, if it is normal if there is any stake in the interests, if it is curious, think that the other party is good-looking, has a good personality, etc., then it is not normal.
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It can't be said that it is abnormal, it can only be said that this is where human nature lies. Judging this point of view by being normal or not.
Boys with self-control will be loyal to their partners. Even if he finds an excellent match with the opposite sex in his life, I believe that he will definitely handle this relationship well and will refrain from it. The existing one is the most important thing for you, and don't take risks to start another one.
You know, life is long. We will meet all kinds of people. It is impossible to love only one person from the beginning. Human nature is like that. So why do we demand loyalty from our partners? This is a basic responsibility for a family.
If this basic responsibility is not met, the damage caused is great. Where is the stability of the family and the development of society?
I think I can be friends, everyone can let go of you, what else can't you let go, does she hurt you deeply, if so, forget her, so as not to arouse sadness, and break up peacefully? You can be friends, she is now taking the initiative to talk to you, the initiative is in your hands, and see what you think in your heart. If you hate her, don't pay attention to her, or talk about her if you want to do it.
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