What goals have you ever set? Have you set goals for yourself?

I once set a goal to lose 20 pounds in 30 days, but of course I failed. Now that I think about it, it was really not easy to think about that time, and then I ate quite little, but in the end I lost 15 pounds.

My goal is to have my own small family and have my dream job before the age of 30, and now I am slowly achieving it, and I will work hard for a better life.

Everyone should set goals for their lives and work hard to achieve them. The goal I set myself is to live a good life and work hard to make money, and I have always adhered to this goal.

I once set a goal that I must study hard and then be admitted to a very good language school, at that time, when I was in high school, the homeroom teacher asked everyone to write down their own plans, I set this goal, and then I have been working hard towards this goal, although I did not succeed in the end, but I feel that I have a happy life.

I once set a small goal of drinking a glass of warm water every morning when I woke up. Also, memorize ten words after drinking water. Small goals to stick to every morning.

But only the first small goal is still being implemented, and it has become a habit. The second objective has not been sustained.

In fact, I set some goals when I was in high school, such as being admitted to such and such a university, but I found that I didn't achieve it later, and when I was a child, I said that I wanted to be a scientist, these are the goals I once set.

I've heard of a lot of goals, such as how many laps a day, how many push-ups and sit-ups a day, how many words a day to memorize. I've done so many plans. I think that's good.

I have set a lot of goals, and some of them are also set by my homeroom teacher, but some of them are also set voluntarily, but some of these goals have been achieved, and some have not been achieved, so sometimes I feel that I have no self-control.

Yes, make plans and save money. The Year of the Rabbit is approaching, and while looking forward to the plans and goals for the new year, I also realize that in order to achieve these plans and goals, I also need to have a certain amount of savings to achieve them, and in order to achieve these plans and goals, I have also saved some money, although there is still a certain gap between these funds and my plans and goals, but it is also an important start.

1. In the Year of the Rabbit, my first goal is to take my lover and my parents to travel to the south.

I calculated, our family of six expenses roughly need to be about 30,000 yuan, and in the middle of the year in the year-end bonus of more than 10,000 yuan to saved, although there is still a gap of about 20,000 yuan, but every month as much as possible to save and reduce their own expenses, then to this year's 11, my goal will definitely be achievable, after all, the age of both parents has been getting older, in the case of their physical conditions can still allow, Taking them for a walk in the South is an important wish in the hearts of my lover and me.

Second, in the Year of the Rabbit, I also have a plan and goal, which is to be able to redecorate my house in this year.

Although this is a relatively difficult thing for me, it means that I need to spend at least about 100,000 yuan this year, and I have not saved this money at this stage, but this goal does not mean that it must be achieved this year, if my economic conditions do not allow it, then this plan and goal can also be postponed.

3. In order to achieve the goal of his hobby, he began to save money.

In the new year, I want to make some progress in my hobbies, so I have made corresponding plans and goals. ......Specifically, my hobby is photography, and I hope to get a new body in the new year to make the equipment I use more performant. ......In order to achieve this goal, I have already started saving money.

Fourth, in order to live a happy life, the rental bureau has formulated its own life plan that is calculated and calculated.

Everyone wants to be able to live a happy life and be happy every day. Therefore, I have also formulated corresponding life plans and goals, and strive to make my life happier in the new year. ......For this plan and goal, you don't need to save money, but you need to spend your income reasonably.

Therefore, for this aspect, the specific plan I have made is to live within my means, be careful with my budget, and plan my limited income reasonably, so that my life can be more comfortable and happy.

In the Year of the Rabbit, I personally think that the most important thing is to be able to enjoy a good time with my family. In order to achieve his New Year's resolutions and goals, he took the initiative to study hard and work hard to develop his career, live a good life within his means, and start saving money to achieve his hobby goals.

Everyone has to have their own goals, but what kind of goal is it? You need to be clear about yourself.

So, what kind of goals do you have?

Harvard University in the United States, the impact of goals on life did a survey, with the following statistics:

The 3% of people with long-term goals have never changed their goals in 25 years, and they have always stuck to their goals, even in the face of great difficulties. Eventually, these 3% have become successful people in society. And the 10% of people, because some short-term goals, can be achieved every time, most of them have also become the middle class, becoming white-collar gold collars!

And the 60% of people are ordinary people, living an average life, getting by, basically in the middle and lower strata of society, and the 27% of people who have no goals are basically living at the bottom of society, and complaining about the unfairness of society and others all day long.

This is the huge difference in the lives of people who have goals and those who don't.

People become different from others because they have goals, and with goals, you have pursuits, you have the motivation to move forward, you have the internal driving force to pursue a happy life, and you have the idea of wanting your parents and family to live a good life.

A few weeks ago, the teacher at my child's school, as well as the parent of a classmate, and a graduate tutor at Fudan University, talked about my child's education. In particular, it is necessary to let the child have goals, especially worried about the lack of ideas of the child, the idea here is the goal, in any case, parents must let the child have their own goals or ideals. The words of this mentor are really in line with the research results of Harvard University, and they are completely consistent!

It is not only necessary to teach children to have goals, but also to adults to have goals. Because only when you have a goal, can you no longer waste your time, and you will not come to this world in vain.

Dreams, pursuits, are all your goals, not necessarily huge goals, but at least have a short-term small goal. As Tolstoy quotes above, you need to have a goal for a year, a month or a quarter.

I remember that the goal I set for myself at the beginning of the year was to give my wife 10,000 yuan, but now it's less than half, and I don't know if my wife has forgotten it, saying that as long as it is ** to 110 pounds, I will give her 10,000 yuan as a reward, this is not a salary! It's that extra money that I earned. I wonder if people still remember?

I guess I remember, but because her weight didn't reach the goal, she was embarrassed to mention it herself, right? Haha

This is not achieved for me, of course, I still have room to work hard, because she has gained weight again, maybe she didn't pay attention to her diet, maybe she didn't add clothes in winter, anyway, she didn't reach her goal, so take your time! Anyway, I'm working on it, and so is she!

There is also a goal to be able to improve their lives to a higher level, this goal has not been achieved, although the current life is also good, the car is okay, but people go to higher places, and water flows to lower places. No one wants to go low, however, this goal has not been achieved because it is already 2019, and hopefully it will improve this year, right?!

Two of the above goals may be achieved this year! Don't have too many goals, just two!

The goal of 2018 was not achieved, I originally thought that from the beginning of the year to the end of the year, I could save 100,000 yuan, but now I have calculated it, and now the money is 20,000 less than at the beginning of 2018.

First of all, you don't look directly at the big goal, after all, there is a certain difficulty in achieving the big goal, especially now after the 90s, the post-95s are easy to learn to give up when they encounter very difficult things, and they will be said by others to be high-eyed and low-handed. I suggest that you divide a big goal into multiple small goals to achieve, and set a time node for each small goal to constrain yourself. It's much easier to accomplish such small goals, and you can boost your confidence with each small goal.

In the past 30 years of my life, I have set many goals for myself, some of which are relatively large and some of which are smaller, most of which have been achieved, and some of the big goals have been achieved, and some have not been achieved. I remember when I was in school, I had a very fixed goal, that is, to get a scholarship every semester, at that time, in order to get a scholarship every semester, I also worked very hard, my grades themselves were very good, but there were some subjects with poor grades, I often soaked in the library in order to improve the worse subjects, and used the time used by other students to play on studying, and the hard work lived up to some people until graduation, and I got the scholarship every semester as I wished.

If it's really a whim, a whim.

Set yourself countless goals, and these goals may be difficult to achieve.

Since there are countless of them, I'm afraid I don't remember.

So it doesn't matter if it can be achieved or not.

I remember when I first graduated and got a job, I set a series of goals for myself on a whim at that time, I didn't sleep at night, I wrote a plan for myself all night, wrote it by hand, and then I had a detailed plan for what I should do in what time.

The initial goal I set for myself was to work for two years and rent an apartment-style apartment. There is a battery car. Make a deposit of at least $50,000.

As a result, two years passed quickly, and his salary was barely enough to support himself. The house is still a civilian room. The bus is used to commute to and from work.

Deposits are basically none. None of the goals I set myself have been achieved.

Later, he set a lot of goals for himself, saying that he must not be greedy for fun or waste, he must work hard, and then he must complete the lifelong event of marriage after a year. As a result, a year has passed in the blink of an eye, and he has maintained a single life. I can say that all the goals I set for myself have not been achieved.

Am I setting my goals too high? Or is it my own lack of effort. Next, I will set a goal for myself to earn more than 5,000 a month.

Let's hope I can do it this time.

I never set a lot of goals for myself on a whim, usually at the beginning of a year or the beginning of a month, I set a goal for myself. The annual goal may be relatively long-term, and then the monthly goal may be relatively small, and you need to do it step by step.

I remember that in the first half of the year, I set a goal that I hoped to pass the third test in the second half of the year, and then get my driver's license smoothly during the Chinese New Year. But the plan can't keep up with the changes, I wanted to take the third subject when I was on vacation, but I didn't take the test and then I wanted to make an appointment again, but I started school and didn't have time. Later, during the Chinese New Year, I just came back, and because it was too cold, I didn't want to go to practice, but in order to achieve my goal, I might have to take the test after the year.

Another goal is to maintain my academic performance at a relatively good level, I have been on a scholarship in the past few years in college, and then the goal every year is about this level, not to ask how much progress I have, just to be able to maintain this level. My grades this year are okay, although I don't take the class very seriously, but in the end, the effect is still very good.

In fact, in general, this year's goals have been achieved quite well, and it doesn't matter if there are some small goals that have not been achieved, let's wait until next year to do it.

Looking back on the years I have set a lot of goals for myself, which have achieved a lot, but not achieved, and there are many in all the goals achieved, the most I feel that the achievement is ** success, when I first entered the university, I was very fat, people also feel very inferior, do not know how to dress up, and the personality is also more introverted, so I can't feel the fun of college life.