Why do many people like to talk about it and complain without thinking or researching?

Friends and neighbors sometimes make jokes with each other, which is generally harmless, it is all over with a smile, and no one will take it to heart, after all, it is acquaintances who do not need to care. But some people make jokes about their families, so it's a little rushed. Talking nonsense is very harmful to people, not only to make outsiders change their views on you, but also to their own psychology will cause a lot of pain and pressure, for serious nonsense, some of the people who have been hurt will even take extreme measures, resulting in extremely serious consequences.

The content of the gibberish does not involve important information. For this kind of nonsense talker, we don't have to worry, innocuous rumors can be generously laughed at, so that the nonsense speaker knows that he is boring, and the content of the nonsense involves important information and is related to the personal image and interests of the individual. We must not tolerate such nonsensical talkers and allow them to chew their tongues.

First of all, we must severely reprimand him, let him know the difficulty and retreat, if he still doesn't know whether he is alive or dead, he must serve with his fists and beat him to break the blood. If the information involved is particularly important, you can also sue him in court!

If it's a big grin, you often don't notice it or don't intend to hurt you but it's not very serious, then laugh it off, as the saying goes, the body is not afraid of shadows, and besides, 10,000 leaves have 10,000 shapes, not to mention everyone's character, the way of life, you don't fight for reason and also show your cultivation and demeanor!

In real life, there are a lot of such people, which makes people annoying, the surface is very good, but behind the scenes, they are making trouble everywhere and saying bad things about others, thinking that others don't know, but the fact is that if you want people to know unless you do nothing, you do things like covering your ears and stealing the bell, and you feel that you are very amazing.

As the saying goes, good words with people are warmer than cloth, hurtful words are deeper than spears. It can be seen how powerful language is, and the most convenient way for people to enhance their relationship is communication. But sometimes it is these words that hurt people the most.

I don't know, and if I do, I won't stop there.

The key depends on whether the matter has a big impact, and there are people who will be involved, if there is a person around you who talks nonsense, first look at what kind of character this person is, whether he speaks without his mind, or speaks through his mind with scheming!

If there is such a person around you who must have a scale in your heart, if the other party's remarks are just saying bad things about yourself behind your back, you don't have to worry too much, you should be bitten by a dog, and you won't bite back by the dog's side.

If it is scheming and premeditated, spread rumors everywhere to slander you, don't care about it once, don't care about it twice, and if you don't restrain it, then you have to talk to the other party for the third time.