What should I do if the relationship with him is stiff, and if the relationship is stiff

Updated on society 2024-04-14
37 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    Such a man who no longer cherishes you, do you think there is still a need to cherish him?

    Mutual understanding between lovers is a must.

    After a quarrel, it would be best if you could talk calmly, but if one party no longer wants to communicate with the other, how can the relationship between the two people progress?

    Your boyfriend is already very ruthless to you, he doesn't reply to text messages, ** doesn't answer, and reprimands you face-to-face, so to speak, regardless of your feelings and feelings for each other, such a heartless person, even if you are together in the future, then do you think that if something similar happens again, he will still forgive you and take the initiative to reconcile? And you can guarantee that there will be no cracks and disagreements between you, and can you guarantee that you will never quarrel? Sooner or later, this will happen.

    For a person who is so cold and doesn't know how to cherish you, do you think it is necessary for you to cherish him and shed tears for him?

    Such a man doesn't even have a basic demeanor for his girlfriend, do you think it's necessary to have a relationship? Continuing to date will only make it more painful!

    Remember: you don't deserve to love the person who makes you cry, and the person who really loves you won't make you cry!

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    It's hard to say, maybe he is also temporary, the matter of feelings, is not a matter of one or two things, it has to go through a lot of tests, if he can't even withstand such a test, then it's hard to say, the key is to see how you look at it, but big or ......small

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    Maybe you think it's a problem between the two of you, and you ask someone else to come forward, and he asks you, are you embarrassed to let others know about you? Maybe he's just angry for a while, not as serious as you think, and you'll be reconciled in a few days.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    The fuse doesn't matter, the point is that he's ignoring you now. What do you care about what he does?

    I don't even have a chance to be proud of you in the future.

    At least you'll know later that you don't want him.

    Actually, it's all the same, but women have to cherish themselves.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    It doesn't mean much to you even if you continue, now he can do this to you, and what about it from now on! When you really get married, what does he bring to you? Won't today's story happen again?

    All he can bring you is pain, so I think it's safer to pin your happiness on someone else!

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    Maybe you only know how precious you are when you lose it!

    Don't trample on your dignity, such a man, don't do it!

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    If you don't understand, forget it.

    Don't force it.

  8. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    You scolded her to the point of blood, and threatened her. So she won't protect you and expose you. This is cause and effect.

  9. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    Obviously, anyone who can read Chinese characters knows it.

  10. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    Dealing with people is best Lao Tzu's golden mean.

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    If you feel that 1 is a friend worth making, go slowly and get along with her, because friends are not quarreling and ignore her, but anything is easy to discuss, friends will also appear when they need it most, real friendship, there is no hatred, like you said 2 her words, a little in the middle of the destruction of your friendship with 1, so you can think about it yourself, don't lose a friend because of a little thing, friends are easy to find, know is hard to find, Remember, one more friend is better than one more enemy, right, wouldn't there be nothing to do if you took a step back? If 1 said to find someone to beat you, then why didn't you fight again, there must be a reason for it, take your time to find out, I believe that 1 she needs a friend like you very much, so I hope you get better soon. In this blessing, I write this in the hope that you can understand!

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    It stands to reason that the relationship between boys is very good, just fight or play ball together. If it's an iron buddy, it shouldn't be to the point of breaking.

    1 may encounter something, mood swings, if you think he is worthy of being your friend, then go to find out what is wrong with him and persuade him. Or after a while, let him calm down and think.

    Relationships among girls are actually more complicated, I can be a bit extreme, no matter what, I'm always helping my best friend, because some people are worthy of you, and some are just ordinary friends. The friend who understands you and listens to you must cherish it.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    It's really complicated, there's a saying that the closer you are to successful people, the more likely you are to succeed, and now you have to avoid those people, just talk if you have something to say, don't get too close if you don't have anything to say, and when you're not in the same dorm, don't contact people who don't care and don't matter.

    I used to think that I had more friends and the road was easy, but I was wrong.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    If you are a boy, it is recommended that you teach 1 a lesson, even if he is in a bad mood, he can't do it to his friends, and then you can take the initiative to reconcile with him and apologize, so that he can understand your bottom line. It will be better to get along in the future, and to put it bluntly, everyone respects each other.

    2 is an ordinary friend, and you don't have to pay attention to his loss. It's better to make crazy friends than bad friends.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    Hello, although I don't know what you guys want, but I'm sure most guys shouldn't have this kind of indescribable relationship, don't blame me for being too direct. I think no matter what, don't be too willful, after all, the relationship between people is too stiff, which will lead to a lot of bad effects, and it's better not to do things that hurt people! So don't care too much about face, take the initiative to apologize if you are wrong, if your friends can't understand you and tolerate you, it's better not to make such friends, it's better to be realistic

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    1 and 2 are bland to get along, the so-called gentleman's friendship is as light as water! There will be a lot of friends in life, and one or two confidants are enough.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    An arrogant person like 1 is not worth treating him as a friend, so don't associate with such people! As for 2, although his mouth is a little damaged, at least he has no malice.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    Don't want such a friend, my friend who dares to do this has only one consequence, that is, to leave me, unless the relationship between this friend and me is not an ordinary friend, otherwise I will never make such a friend, and if I make it, I will break up.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    Now is the time for you to see your character, and if you can do it, try to reconcile, if it's not good, then stop.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    You apologize to 2 or you apologize to 1 and then make 1 apologize to 2 (generally 2 will apologize when 1 apologizes).

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    Ignore it in elementary school, ignore it in junior high school, ignore it in university, and consider it in high school...

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    Ignore it tightly, why is there such a messy relationship, the harem is competing for favor? Faint to death, there is no shortage of people on the earth, just change friends, do you think there is a pot contradiction and can be reconciled as before?

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    Men should be calm, do what they should do, do their best, they can only wait for fate, do their own things and live their own lives, so that others can use time to see your strength. I think as long as people are a little bit cheap, they don't necessarily cherish it when they have it. For example, I used to have a boy who was always there when I needed help, but I just felt like a friend and didn't really care about him.

    Recently, I have had some messy problems with my boyfriend who has been dating for more than 7 years, and I am quite lost. At this time, I noticed the boy who helped me, and I really began to understand him. He is now busy with his own business, and he never asks of me, and occasionally cares about me like a friend.

    I admire him now, and I sincerely wish him to find his own happiness. Although I feel that I missed him, I have no regrets, I still feel that I have met a good person, and my heart is still very warm, and I am truly grateful to him. And deep down, I already regard him as a good friend.,Occasionally pay attention to him but don't bother him.。

    Therefore, as long as she is strong and does what she should do, people with a heart will eventually realize it, and maybe one day she will regret it. I don't think you should dwell on how to ease the relationship now, but give up the more naïve actions, just be calm. Women, especially women who don't belong to you yet, are kings when the time comes.

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    Then forget about it, and just don't mention it again as if nothing happened.

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-14

    Find her to make it clear, bring everything to the face, and if you say it clearly, you won't be afraid of anything, what should I do.

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-13

    I don't think there's any need to do anything deliberately, just let it be. I am particularly resistant to the practice of alienating others without a reason, because I think that if it is a good friend who does something wrong, we should try to tolerate it, and if it is a big mistake, we should bring it up, so that it is good for each other, why should we be estranged inexplicably? This is the most hurtful friendship and the most unforgivable mistake that I personally consider.

    You've been blocking her for a while, and it's impossible for her not to know, isn't it strange to be so nice to her all of a sudden? You just have to do a good job, don't conflict with her, help her when necessary, and do it naturally. Sedulous.

    Doing so will make people misunderstand that you are plotting against her...

  27. Anonymous users2024-01-12

    Ask your heart and go with it

  28. Anonymous users2024-01-11

    Communicate more·· Go out and play more.

  29. Anonymous users2024-01-10

    Beat her ** out for a meal

  30. Anonymous users2024-01-09

    She doesn't take you seriously at all, so why should you?

  31. Anonymous users2024-01-08

    You are not your mother's tool, please don't think so.

    There are many responsibilities that come with living in this world. You are her son, and you also said that for seven years, she has been very good to you. If she has been good to you for seven years, you can ignore it and be angry about her mistakes for a while. Is that fair?

    You have to think about how difficult it is for a mother to raise you, she has taken on a lot of pressure for you, and there may be all kinds of pressure. You should be considerate of her. Her occasional mistakes.

    I think she's probably afraid that you can't stand the rumors of others without your father. She should be good for you, just in a way that you don't like. This happens to many families.

    No one can afford not to make mistakes. Right? You should always be happy to see someone else's child being praised by others, right?

    Are they just items for parents to show off?

    They are proud because the child is theirs, the continuation of their life, just like you like others to compliment you on your appearance. Forgive her.

    In other words, what can you do even if you don't forgive them? You can't live on your own just yet. You can't support yourself, you have to rely on your parents.

    In that case, what is the use of you in conflict with them? It's just a person who is sad. It's better to live well, study hard, find a job in the future, and then go out openly.

    Go find your own sky, right?

    No matter what you think, be brave and live first.

  32. Anonymous users2024-01-07

    Whether or not your mother uses you as a trophy has nothing to do with her loving you and caring for you. In your statement, it can be seen that your father is very bad to you, and your mother just wants you to fight in front of your father on behalf of your mother and son! Your father is sorry for your mother and son, why can't you fight for your mother as a son?

    Your mother raised you so much, don't think that it can be explained purely by taking advantage of the relationship. Working overtime until night every day is not for a better life for your mother and son! I just want to prove that without your father, your mother and son are living well!

  33. Anonymous users2024-01-06

    The mother's affection for her husband (or ex-husband) and for her children is deep and unquestionable.

    She must love you, and sometimes she does something that is unacceptable, understandable, and vindictive, nothing more than love and hate.

    There's no need to do something like that without loving or hating.

    Single mother, I think it is definitely not easy to take you so big, and I will not worry less, endure less hardships, be more understanding, and be more tolerant.

    When you grow up, you may understand that your mother is far more important than your lover.

  34. Anonymous users2024-01-05

    I couldn't agree more with the words of the demon of Tearing Langsha, for so many years, the woman who has always cared about you is your mother, no matter what is wrong with her, you can't dislike her.

    You are her pride, it is normal for her to show off in front of that man, it proves that the man has lost his eyes, and without him, your mother will still train you to be a talent. You should redouble your efforts and make a career in the future so that your mother will stand in front of that man with her head held high. You should also stand by your mother's side.

  35. Anonymous users2024-01-04

    You are his son!!

    When your mother tells your father this, she is telling your father: My son is very good, he is my pride, and if you don't recognize him as your son, you will regret it.

    Is it easy to be pregnant for 10 months, no matter how wrong your mother is, it is also your mother, and you are the same mother in this life. You are also a man at home, love your mother and protect her from harm.

  36. Anonymous users2024-01-03

    Communicate calmly with your mother and understand her.

  37. Anonymous users2024-01-02

    Personally, I think you should go.

    Because no matter what it is, or you are sad from this matter, or grandma is sad and heartbroken, but after all, she is your elder, and Silver Oak is your own grandmother.

    The old man said that he missed you, so he must still feel sorry for you, although he said that he would not let you enter her house again. But I think that's all the old man's angry words, after all, we are young. Grandma is old.

    A lot of things can be solved calmly. Grandma is old, you should know how to feel sorry for her and care for her. You can imagine if you grow old after a few years, and then something like this happens, what will you feel as an old man?

    Those who are juniors should not stop looking at the old people because they are angry, lest the old man leave after a few years, and we will regret it as a junior. After all, she said that she loves you very much when she misses you.

    In a word, an old man is an old man after all. We are still young.

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