It s so tiring to be a human being, why? Why is it so tiring to be a human being?

Because we have to think about so many things, relationships, money, affection...The reason why we think so much and burden so much.

It shows that you still have a strong sense of responsibility, which is a good phenomenon.

But it's good to have a sense of responsibility, but there are some things we don't have to care about like that, if you want to open up.

I guess life can make it easier for you.

The reality is so cruel that we have to admit it;

Betrayal of friends.

The departure of a lover.

The question of money is a reality.

It's all so cruel;

But we can't run away from it;

Reality will take away many of our good things;

That's how it feels! I feel so tired!

Actually, we are not powerless.

We have to learn to make good!

The cruel side of life is of our own making.

To avoid this, we need to do it ourselves.

In life, you must always maintain that happy and ordinary heart:

1.The pursuit of desire is less, 2Less mentality of comparison, 3The psychology of contentment and happiness is more.

4.Mindset balance point, 5Live according to your abilities and don't let other people's living conditions dictate your mood.

6.Change what you can change, accept what you can't, and don't lose yourself.

Saying goes. It's hard to be human.

It's hard to do. It's hard to be a man...

People who struggle on the road to success may be tired because of the hardships along the way...

A successful person may be tired in order to maintain his current state.

But there is one thing you have to remember, which is that when you look back when you are old, that strong sense of accomplishment will make you have no regrets.

In fact, in the current era, it is not easy for everyone to live, but there are many people who feel tired because they have made the following 3 mistakes, and most people may not realize it.

Desire is greater than ability.

Desire is a necessity to promote the development of society, but everyone's desire is endless, and most people feel tired precisely because their desire is greater than their ability.

We often say, "Be ambitious," and that's true, but many people confuse ambition with delusion.

Ambition is to set a realistic goal after objectively assessing one's abilities;

And delusion can be said to be just a fantasy, completely ignoring one's own objective ability.

In fact, most people's so-called dreams are delusions, not ambitions.

Work hard but don't think.

Any success is inseparable from hard work, this is a truth that everyone knows.

But it's hard to succeed just because you just know how to work hard, and you need to think about it constantly.

There are always a lot of people around us, who get up early and work greedily at night, work overtime day and night, never think about whether the path they are taking is right or wrong, just work for the sake of work, and are forced to move forward by various pressures.

In the end, I found that I was so tired of living, but I was getting farther and farther away from my dream.

In fact, for many people, it is not that they have no choice, they are just used to it, and they don't want to or dare to take risks.

Therefore, no matter how much pressure the reality is, we must often stop and reflect: Is it because we are on the wrong path that we are living so tired now?

This persistence can be futile for anyone, no amount of effort.

For the sake of face.

In this world, the most difficult thing to let go of is face, and the most difficult thing to hold up is also face.

Around us, there are always many people who fight hard for their own face, and in the end they really can't hold on, and they lose their face.

This friend of mine, if you don't think about expenses, is not low in terms of his income alone, and in the eyes of others, they all think he is rich.

So every time he invites a guest, he goes to a high-end restaurant, and every time he buys something, he doesn't dare to buy cheap ones, and this feeling of hard support also makes him very tired.

In fact, life is our own, and it has nothing to do with others, so why should we make ourselves so tired for the sake of others?

There is no shame in how much ability you have to do great things, and your own happiness is much more important than the envy of others.

Because human beings are the animals with the most complex feelings in nature and need to take the most responsibility. We want to be understood, we want to be loved, we want to succeed, we want to do what we want to do. But not everything in the world is as good as we want, and when things don't meet our expectations, we feel lost, sad, and tired.

Human life is so short, I think we all need to adjust our mentality, take every day seriously with a positive and happy attitude, and walk in this world in vain.

Because to be a good person, you must always restrain your own behavior, think about others before doing anything, see everything as more important than yourself, and take care of all aspects, so you will feel very tired.

Because being a person needs to work and study every day, or to deal with all kinds of things, at that time, we can't live as we want, and there will be all kinds of worries.

Because we live in this world, as a human being, we have to consider the feelings of others, and then fight for our own lives, so it is tiring to be a human being.

Because being a human being will face a lot of pressure, and you will also encounter a lot of difficulties, so you will feel very tired.

The only thing that can be predicted in this life is death. So it's no wonder that you have to meet and deal with so many unknowns every day!

People are animals with complex feelings, joys and sorrows, joys and sorrows, as well as a network of interpersonal relationships that are constantly unorganized and chaotic, encountering emotional entanglements, misunderstanding and grievances, life is not smooth, and work pressure is high, these are the problems that everyone will encounter, but some people react faster and find a more suitable principle for themselves; Some people lose their self-positioning, and the more they live, the less they feel like their original selves; Some people are content with the status quo and get by. Everyone lives in a different way, the results are different, there is no comparison, there is no replication, you are you and I am me, and it is because of this that people can't see that others are tired, and infinitely magnify their own tiredness.

If you want me to say, relative to the whole universe, it is really a very small probability event to be able to get a life, so cherish it as soon as possible, if you are tired, you will be tired, if you want to be relaxed, you will not be qualified to be tired after a few decades!

For man lives to toss ...

Because we have to be human every day.

In fact, you are not tired of being a person, as long as you know what you need, and then you know exactly what thoughts you should have, how to have these thoughts, and understand all of these, you will not only get what you need, but also live more and more happily.

The reason why people are tired is because of these 12 words (can't put down, can't think about it, can't see through, can't forget).

Quite simply, it's because you want to have what you want and you don't have it...