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I read a book before, and there is such a sentence in it: "The person who tries his best to love, but in the end becomes the person who passes by, you can't let go of him, and you can't let go of the relationship that didn't love until the result, in fact, the more you torture yourself." ”
There are two results of love, one is to love each other and live a happy and beautiful life, and the other is to be unsatisfactory because of the incompatibility between each other, and you need to completely let go of this love and then start a new life.
The feeling of completely letting go of a person is that even if the other person suddenly appears in your life one day, you can face it calmly and treat it as if it were a stranger, rather than him waving at you and you start wagging your tail.
In fact, a woman can't let go of a relationship is nothing more than unwillingness, and luck, thinking that person will turn back, after the breakup, it's not that person who is hard to forget, but your dedication to this relationship makes you reluctant to forget.
There are many affectionate people in this world, but not every affectionate person will be favored, there are many affectionate people who are always let down, maybe he really loved you before, but now he doesn't love you, it's also true.
Seriously, no one can live without anyone leaving, maybe you really have an unforgettable past, but that's just the past, since you are separated, it's better to be separated from each other, each rejoices, and wants to completely give up a love, the first thing a woman has to do is this.
Divert your attention and keep yourself busy not wanting to be in this relationship.
I have seen many people fall into this love after a breakup and can't blame themselves, and even do some incomprehensible things, but all of this stems from the fact that a woman loves this man too much.
In order to prevent such a situation from happening, a woman should divert her attention after the breakup and make herself busy, so that there will be no existence of this relationship in her head, and only then will it be possible to completely forget the past and start a new life.
Rationally face and let go, and believe that you will meet better people.
Breakup is a unique experience for everyone, we should face the breakup rationally, anyone may face the breakup, so it is very important to be able to rationally manage the emotions after the breakup.
Not every encounter has his reason, leave generously after a breakup, comfort yourself out of bad moods, believe in yourself, and meet better people.
Find the lost self in love and love yourself a little more after a breakup.
In love, women often lose themselves because of over-dependence on men, maybe the previous self was not so fragile, but because of the man in love, it became without its own thoughts.
If you want to let go of this love completely, the first thing to do is to find the self that love lost in love, women should love themselves a little more, only if you learn to love yourself, others will love you, if you don't love yourself, then others will not care about your feelings.
The world is so big, we don't have time to be an inconsequential person, stay for so long, maybe lose this love, you are really sad, but this failed love is also your most precious experience, after it settles, you can meet a better self.
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Calmly face the past and have a new purpose in life. To completely let go of the premise, we must accept our past self and experience, and have a new direction in life to have the motivation to step out of the past and look forward to a better future.
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In fact, the most important thing a woman should do is to start a new relationship, which will definitely make women feel happy in the new relationship and make women forget the pain of the past.
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To let go of a relationship, of course, it is not easy, women should travel more, divert their attention, and communicate more with their parents.
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First of all, I don't think you should deliberately forget about him, because sometimes the more you want to forget, the more you can't forget, and you must stop thinking about how beautiful you are in the past, because this will only make you more and more miserable, the past is the past, and my method is to think about his bad treatment for me, of course, this is in the case that I met a scumbag. You can divert your attention to do something else, such as chasing a TV series or going to the mall to buy a dress or bag that you have liked for a long time.
Therefore, you must learn to love yourself, believe that you are the best, and believe that the most suitable person for you must be waiting for you ahead.
Time is the medicine for everything. It can slowly fade our obsessions. Find something to distract you, or start a new relationship, enjoy life, travel, and do things you wanted to do but didn't.
Life is short, don't waste your youth on one person, no matter how good he is, it doesn't belong to you.
You have to break your comfort zone and see the vastness of the world before you can let go of your obsession! Looking back, I realized that it was just a small circle that trapped you. People are extroverted, only by constantly breaking through and constantly jumping out of the comfort zone, can they be qualified to objectively evaluate certain people and certain things.
First of all, you must be clear about the purpose, the current situation is not your destination, the current situation is equivalent to the hotel you live in, no matter how good, how comfortable, it is temporary!
Secondly, we must be independent of ourselves and the environment in terms of action! For example, do something maverick, I'm sure the environment will automatically exclude you! Third, look outside and explore what you really want, and the process of exploration must be quite lonely.
Fourth, try to cope with loneliness and precipitate yourself. When one day you adapt to the loneliness on the way to struggle, you will find that the original obsession has long since turned into the smoke of the past!
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Time and new love, as long as the time passes slowly, you will forget each other, forget everything about each other, find someone who is good to you, start a new relationship, you can forget the old feelings.
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I think if a woman wants to let go of a relationship, then she should find someone who likes her in advance, and then be with him, as long as you are under his care and care, you will slowly let go.
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If you have to adjust your heart, time will dilute everything, and there are still many expectations in the future that are worth your efforts.
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Life is always confronted with society and family and relatives, friends, acquaintances and everything that society has. It is precisely because everyone understands the existence of emotions in their lives that they cannot be given up, and it is precisely because they understand the existence of emotions that they will not be able to pick up their hands. The principle of affection is inseparable from love, there is love and emotion, and emotion without love does not exist.
<>And everyone's life needs the existence of love, the existence of feelings, why? The existence of love and affection is to hold up the power of the fruit of the comment to write too much, that is a blind guess, as long as it is a wordless ending, it is a chance to continue, all these performances are normal, as long as it is the end of a relationship, it is time to investigate and forget is not to forget, let go is for better wishes. Each is a family, their own lives do not affect each other, although the love is there, but the love is not over, bury it in the heart, if you are well, I will be fine.
Everyone has had the experience of letting go of a relationship. Because not every relationship will have a happy ending, there will always be such and such factors in it, and in the end you can only choose to let go. To borrow a phrase from a friend here:
If it backfires, it must be something else.
Therefore, the problem of feelings cannot be child's play, the problems of feelings cannot be impulsive, the problems of feelings cannot be sloppy, and the feelings cannot be based on the preferences of the moment, but can be moved by the heart. What did you say after letting go of this relationship? In fact, it is very difficult to really let go of this relationship, how deep the love that people usually say is as deep as the hate, such as the unforgettable love that lingers.
The Southern Song Dynasty poet Lu You lived in the shadow of Tang Wan all his life, and he never forgot it all his life. The feelings that can be completely let go are just passers-by in your life. You'll also see even more beautiful scenery.
When you no longer miss him, even if you are face-to-face, it is relatively smiling and hating.
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Brother, how are things going, I also have an acquaintance.
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You can talk about the current one of the ex.
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How to let go of a relationship?
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How to let go of a relationship? How to put down a person?
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Have you decided to give up on the relationship?
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How to let go of a relationship?
Find something to distract yourself, you can find a new boyfriend or work hard or you have a lot of good sisters around you in love, in short, find something to distract you, wait for a new relationship or fight for a new relationship.
I have the same confusion as you, I think since I know it's impossible, let it go, feelings can't be forced, why bother to make it difficult for the other party? If you really like him, as long as he is happy, you don't want the person you like to be unhappy, right?
In fact, as long as you clearly realize that the two of you are not suitable, you will naturally let go. In fact, you have a grudge against her in your heart now, not only that she rejects you, but she also says some false reasons, and on this point, your character is not suitable for her. So don't force it, there are so many people, there will always be something you like and suit you.
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