The boyfriend s salary can t be paid, so he borrows money from his wife

You are right to do this, although others may think that you are not generous, but this is a way to protect yourself, boyfriend, in fact, to put it bluntly, is just a man who is with him temporarily, and it does not mean that he will definitely get married in the future, and he will grow old together. Maybe as soon as fate is over, they will go their separate ways tomorrow, and before they are sure that he is worthy of entrusting him for life, it is necessary for each to take care of himself. A man even has to pay for his living expenses from a woman, he is very sad, a man goes out by relying on friends not women, if he doesn't even have a friend who is willing to borrow money, this man must have a lot of problems.

I'm sure your boyfriend has no choice but to borrow money from you, and if he just likes your money, then I advise you to stay away from him as far away as possible.

In fact, I often don't have money, my girlfriend has more money than I have, but I won't ask her for money, men always want face (if you help him when he is in trouble, he will still be quite grateful to you, hehe).

If you love him, you have to tolerate and accept everything about him, for example, you earn less and spend more, or you will spend money, don't try to change a person, but the result is not changed but the current situation cannot be maintained.

If you can't handle this pressure, just leave him. Generally, people with such a personality may suddenly become turbulent, rich and rich, or they may be poor.

One more thing, the premise of making the above decision is to know him thoroughly.

Wishing you happiness.

Even if you really like it, you can't blindly indulge him, take care of him, if he really loves you, he will change himself, if not, he can only give up.

Such a life is not to be lived with him unreliable.

You can't borrow it, it will develop his bad habits!

In this case, you really can't borrow him and help him manage his finances.

The problem that money solves is not the problem.

It sounds like this boyfriend is really not very reliable, how long have you been in a relationship?

Why do men borrow money like women? Girlfriends are not good, if I am a man and he has ambitions, I would rather talk to my parents and friends. I won't borrow money from my girlfriend either. Got it.

The employer's salary is at least monthly.

Pay once. According to the Interim Provisions on Payment of Wages issued by the Ministry of Labor and its local versions, wages shall be paid at least once a month on the date agreed between the employer and the employee. If the annual salary system is implemented, the salary shall be paid in advance every month according to the minimum wage standard not lower than that stipulated by the local government, and the settlement shall be made at the end of the year.

Interim Provisions on Payment of Wages issued by the Ministry of Labor

Lao Bu Fa (1994) No. 489.

Article 7 Wages must be paid on the date agreed between the employer and the worker. In the case of a holiday or rest day, payment should be made in advance on the nearest working day. Wages are paid at least once a month, and weekly, daily, and hourly wage systems are implemented.

Shanghai Municipal Human Resources and Social Security Bureau.

Measures for the Payment of Wages by Enterprises in Shanghai

6. The enterprise shall pay wages at least once a month, and the specific date of payment shall be agreed between the enterprise and the workers. In the event of a statutory holiday, holiday or rest day, if the salary is paid through the bank, the payment of wages shall not be postponed; If wages are paid directly, wages shall be paid in advance.

For workers who implement the annual salary system or cash wages according to the assessment cycle, the enterprise shall pay the wages in advance at the rate of not less than the minimum wage every month, and settle the salary at the end of the year or at the end of the assessment cycle.

You can ask him what he is borrowing money for, and if it's urgent, you can lend it to him. However, I don't think it's very reliable to ask women to borrow money.

Borrow less, after all, it's his boyfriend, maybe he really has difficulties, but you have to keep an eye on it, after all, people's hearts are separated from their stomachs.

Don't borrow, this kind of man basically says that he won't pay back the money he borrowed from you, and maybe he will say that you owe him money.

Men borrowing money from women? I'm drunk too! There is a first time, there is a second time, you can't get used to it! Or kick it!

If you don't borrow a man's job, you don't have money to support yourself, it's either fun or fooling around.

He was too embarrassed to speak! Kicked!

To be vigilant, lend him a little and then see how he performs.

If the relationship is not general, it can be borrowed.

He said this to you, and thou shalt reply to him as you ought to be.