I ve been dating my boyfriend for four years, but now I don t know if I want to be together? 20

Hello, you should thank me first for having the patience to read your tirade I think the foundation of the relationship for 4 years is here There is no need to divide Besides, your boyfriend is so attractive to girls There must be his advantages And the word breakup can't be mentioned casually.

I think you should give up on your boyfriend and care about you, your boyfriend may be lying, otherwise, how can there be something that doesn't root you up? Give up, there is no grass at the end of the world. Listen to Xianzi's song "Don't Love the Biggest", you are very similar to the song!

can persist for four years, I believe that your feelings for him are getting deeper and deeper, and if you love him too much, you will restrain him more and more, and expect him to give you the same love. But in fact, the more you ask, the less you get! Feelings are like sand in your hands, the more you want to hold it, the less you have left in your hands!

Relax your mind and look at your own heart and look at him calmly, so that after a while you will see that things will get better for both of you.

First of all, I express my empathy for the landlord, because before I got married, my husband and I also had such a very tangled period, I also once quarreled with him, and even proposed to break up, landlord, if you really don't know whether you should believe him, put aside your feelings, calmly recall the process of your relationship, if you really feel that what he has done makes you intolerable, then let go decisively and don't continue to hurt each other, don't bring the rift to the future married life; But if you can't let go, then please cherish him, sit down with him and have a good talk, tell him how you feel, tell him that you care about him, and give him more tolerance, because men have a better face than women, before marriage, they always enjoy the love of others, that will make them feel very proud, but that doesn't mean that he doesn't care about you, maybe it's just because you've been together for a long time, he's looking for another freshness, think about it, Have you forgotten the sweet feeling you had when you first got together because of the quarrel? May a lover eventually become a family

You should talk about that! Make him feel like you hate these! Look at his attitude!

Aren't kids anymore! You should be mature and rational in doing things! Some things are not perfect!

Just ask for a clear conscience! Just do your best!

You can't be blind to your feelings.

If he is 100% yours in his heart.

There won't be so many things.

You wouldn't come to know and ask questions now.

Men's morality.

First, wealth second.

You can make money with less money, but it is more difficult to go uphill with morality.

Take care of it yourself.

This kind of question mainly depends on yourself Do you still have feelings for your boyfriend From what you said above, it can be seen that you love your boyfriend That's why you care so much It's normal that he didn't care about you as much as he did when he was in love But he still has you in his heart So you propose to break up He said that You should trust him Man He has his things to do There may be things that are really inconvenient to tell you If you just want to break up with your boyfriend because of these I think you will regret There are many things that you didn't cherish when you were there It's lost but it's too late.

It's normal to have competition, and it's better to be able to face the competition without changing color.

But if you can't trust him, (not to mention whether he's honest or not) it's the catalyst for problems in the relationship, and whenever there is a problem, it will be magnified. The current situation is indeed a dilemma, but you might as well give yourself a little confidence and go to some friends of the opposite sex for some social activities and see how he reacts. If he cares about you a lot, is obsessed with these things, and loses a little temper, you have the initiative.

If he doesn't care much, or forcibly stops you from going, regardless of your feelings, it means that there is a big problem of trust between you and you are coming to an end.

Let's let it go, it's been four years... If you're tired, go for a walk in the mountains.

I think he should love you, if he doesn't love you, he will definitely say I love you, but why did he choose not to say it? Because the word love has a great responsibility and cannot be represented by a single sentence, he chose not to say it.

It may be that after a long time, it seems bland. I've been with each other for four years, and I can't be too familiar with each other, and there's no freshness. Psychologically, it has basically formed an inherent pattern, that is, you already belong to him, a treasure that has been in your hands, and you will not hold it in your hand every day after a long time, and you will occasionally put it aside to do other things.

Therefore, I need your treasure to shine occasionally, so that he can remind him to pay attention to it, and he will pay more attention to you! Isn't love just about frequent interactions! That's how to keep things fresh!

Personal insights, I hope it will be useful to you.

I've been with my boyfriend for four years, and he is getting less and less interested in you, and he doesn't feel like he's in love, this situation is no longer in love, so there will be such a feeling, and the most important thing depends on whether he is sincere to you? I want to marry you.

In fact, love has a shelf life, from acquaintance to love, and then to ordinary life, so many people say that they should be in love for a year and get married at this time is the most affectionate, you have been together for four years, maybe he doesn't mean to be uninterested in you, but he feels that he is already very familiar with each other, and lives a life of love, it is recommended that you can create a little surprise, such as giving him a gift, a vacation trip together, or revisiting the place where you are in love, Slowly let each other recall the sincere feelings at that time.

The two of you have been together for four years, don't you feel that he loves you or not? Four years is not a short time, whether you love you or not is not expressed in words, it depends on the action and details. You haven't felt that he loves you or not for four years, so is it necessary for your relationship to develop?

Don't listen to what they say about family affection, even if family affection can feel his love for you more. If you usually ignore you, don't care much or little about you, then you must be bored with you. Think about it yourself, his usual attitude towards you, and the frequency of contact, think twice before you get married, and don't waste your youth and feelings on him if you can't do it.

You've been together for four years and know each other very well. It's already run in well. If your boyfriend is very ambitious, he doesn't have much time to take care of you and consider your feelings because he feels that you already know him well and trust him.

If you are often together, it has been four years, and each other has passed the period of passionate love, and love has become family affection.

Love also needs to be managed, does he care about you? Is it not about you, you should feel. If you have been in love for a long time, it is better to get married. If you can, don't put it off any longer.

You and your boyfriend have been together for four years, but now he is less and less interested in you, and he doesn't feel in love anymore, starting from reality, you should know, understand what the problem is, who is the problem between the two of you, figure out the problem, and then find a way to solve it, how to no matter which party has a new love or doesn't want to be together, the two of you can talk calmly, and it will be easy to talk about the problem clearly, but you must figure out the problem in order to solve the relationship between the two of you.

This is also normal, the feeling of love will naturally fade after a long time, as long as each other's hearts have not changed.

It's not me provoking, this kind of helpless and tasteless emoji I love you is completely coping, if you really love you, I will immediately please you, make up for you a big hug to make up for your mistakes and shortcomings, even if there is such an attitude, you can't have no self-pleasing him, master a degree, and then see her reaction.

After being in love for a long time, he will slowly lose his attraction to the other party, the relationship will become weaker and weaker, and love will become family affection, or he may just not have a special feeling of being in love, and he doesn't care.

People's feelings are at most three years, if there are still feelings after three years, then it can only be said a little, it is like a kind of relationship dependence, the above is closer, generally two people will have the bondage of marriage after marriage, then there will be children, there are children to contact the feelings between two people, so the marriage is stronger, therefore, if you have been in love for so long, and you are not married, your love is really precarious.

In fact, if you haven't been in love for a long time, it feels very normal, and slowly love will become family.

Since we've been together for four years. Love is mixed with family affection, and you can't doubt his love for you. You will look for traces of love in the bits and pieces of life, and maybe you are both busy with work and have not found the taste of happiness.

After two people have been together for a long time, they don't have the freshness they had at the beginning, and after a long time, he doesn't care about you anymore, which means that he doesn't care about you so much.

Summary. If you don't know the solution to love him or not if you have been with your boyfriend for four years, then you may not particularly like him, and you can think about whether you miss him very much if you don't see him when he is not by your side.

Hello, I am Mr. Xiao Xie, an emotional expert, who is good at problem analysis in marriage and family, love, psychology, interpersonal communication, etc. I can feel that you are very confused now, so if it is convenient to tell me about your specific situation

If you don't know the solution to love him or not if you have been with your boyfriend for four years, then you may not particularly like him, and you can think about whether you miss him very much if you don't see him when he is not by your side.

Or if you haven't seen him for a long time, will you be happy to see him, if there is no such situation when you are together every day, then you think about it, do you prefer to spend alone time or time with him, will you want to share everything with him, will you worry about him and other aspects, you will know whether you love him or not.

If you've been with your boyfriend for two years and you find that your boyfriend doesn't like you that much, you can choose to break up with him. However, I think everyone must also be sensible, if you feel that you still like each other more, at this time you can communicate more with each other.

Some girls are more important about their love life, and they very much want to be able to go to the end with their other half, but everyone also knows that love life is very complicated. If your boyfriend meets someone else in his life, he may want to break up with you. But I think these questions are understandable, because boys are actually more attentive.

If the boy thinks that you are no longer suitable for marriage, the boyfriend will definitely choose to break up with you. So you can also choose to break up with this boy, and then you will become very happy.

But at this time, you may also feel very reluctant, because you have been in a relationship for more than two years, so you will also feel sad at this time, but I think everyone must also be rational. If you feel that the other party doesn't love you anymore, you don't have to do it at this time, but you will feel very uncomfortable, so you must pay attention to these problems, so that you can make your life better, and these problems must also attract everyone's attention.

You can communicate with each other, if you feel that the other party doesn't love you anymore, or you find that the other party already has a girl you like, then you can choose to break up with the other party. If the other party doesn't love you anymore, you don't need to insist at this time, because this insistence is meaningless, so you must treat yourself well, and you must love yourself.

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If you've been with your partner for a long time and don't feel that he loves you, here are a few things to consider:

1.Communication: First of all, you need to communicate with your partner, ask him about his feelings and thoughts, and see if he really loves you.

If he does love you, but it's not obvious enough, you can also tell him how you feel and hope that he will be able to express his love more clearly.

2.Observe behavior: In addition to communication, you can also observe the behavior of your subject. Love is something that needs action to prove, and if he often does something special for you, or cares about your life, work, and emotions, then it is likely that he loves you.

3.Self-reflection: If you haven't felt that he loves you all the time, you also need to reflect on your feelings and needs.

Do you have high expectations for expressions of love? Do you need more affirmation and attention? You need to have a clearer understanding of your own feelings and needs in order to better communicate and communicate with the other party.

4.Ask for help: If you feel that you are unable to solve this problem, consider seeking professional help, such as Duan Chi, a counselor or an emotional coach, who can help you better understand the relationship between you and your partner and provide solutions and suggestions for solving the problem.

In short, if you don't feel that he loves you, don't give up easily, and solve the problem by communicating, observing behavior, self-reflection, and asking for help. At the same time, it is also necessary to remain rational and mature, not to rely too much on the affirmation and attention of others, but also to learn self-affirmation and self-worth.