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Hello: First of all, I would like to tell you that when we grow up, we will face a lot of rejection. But refusal is methodical, there are things to refuse directly, sometimes indirectly, and sometimes there is a need for euphemistic refusal.
It depends on the situation. Here are a few ways you can do this:
1.If someone expresses affection for you and you have no feelings for him, you have to politely decline while trying to preserve the other person's self-esteem. In order to reduce the psychological damage caused by rejection to the other party and make it easier for the other party to accept, it is necessary to try to maintain the psychological balance of the other party and minimize the inner frustration of the other party.
You can do this by complimenting the other person on their looks, character, or whatever. Then say the reasons why you can't accept it.
Of course, the reasons should be appropriate and try to be realistic. It is best to benefit each other, such as how you are not good, how you will suffer when we are together, etc. Put the bad side on your own.
This method is more suitable for the other party is a very particular person, he understands what you mean, he will not hate you anymore, and at the same time he himself maintains his own self-esteem.
2.If someone is always pestering you when you don't agree, then you have to resolutely refuse. This should not be a deterrent.
Because if you are not resolute enough, it will make the other party misunderstand and think that you are testing him, causing the other party to be pestering you all the time. To such people you can say: "I'm sorry, I really don't have feelings for you, please don't come to harass me again in the future, thank you."
This method is mainly suitable for some unconscious people.
3.Let me tell you again, if you reject a person, try to have less contact with the other party after refusal, you can distance yourself from him, deliberately stay away from him, and don't let him have any illusions about you. Especially when he asks you to hang out, you have to find a more reasonable reason to refuse.
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Are you often embarrassed to say no to others because of your face, and do you feel like you're not yourself anymore? Do you want to change?
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Ask yourself if you think it won't be possible with him in the future. If that's the case, just say I don't like you, I'm sorry. Tell me if you have someone you like. Naturally, acquaintances walked away.
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I'm sorry you're not my type, please don't waste your time on me. (The more direct the rejection, the better).
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Summary. Dear, rejecting someone else's confession has already hurt the other person's self-esteem to some extent, so this hurt cannot be allowed to continue to expand. When refusing, try to lead the problem to yourself, and at the same time add the other party's shortcomings to lead to the reason for your final refusal, this way of refusal has no sense of disobedience, but it can also make the other party understand what you mean and reject him tactfully.
How to refuse someone else's confession.
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Dear, rejecting someone else's confession has already hurt the other person's self-esteem to some extent, so this hurt cannot be allowed to continue to expand. When refusing, try to lead the problem to yourself, and at the same time add the other party's shortcomings to lead to the reason for your final refusal, this way of refusal has no sense of disobedience, but it can also make the other party understand what you mean and reject him tactfully.
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Summary. Hello, rejecting other people's confessions can be conveyed to the other party: "We don't fit", "You are not the type I like", "It's all my fault, it has nothing to do with you, I really don't feel it".
Hello, rejecting other people's confessions can be conveyed to the other party: "We don't fit", "You are not the type I like", "It's all my fault, it has nothing to do with you, I really don't feel it".
We usually feel embarrassed by each other, and we are still in the same class, and we have graduated for more than a year, and we will inevitably interact in the future, and it is embarrassing to refuse or not to refuse.
Or give the other party money to buy milk tea.
Yes, so to tactfully refuse.
Try to take responsibility for yourself. It's good to save the other party's face in this way.
Correct, a typo, sorry.
Then what method should I use to refuse, saying to my face that I am really embarrassed and crying.
It is possible to refuse by means of an electronic message.
He also doesn't have a cell phone <>
Then write a letter! Clip it to the milk tea package.
Just write "Thank you, this cup is returned to you!" Please don't send me milk tea next time."
Can I send something of the equivalent value back, I don't really like things that I owe to others, by the way, write a note to make it clear.
OK. In this way, the two do not owe each other.
The note reads, "I'm not used to owing people anything, thank you."
Or do I pretend I don't understand, wait for him to give me something next time, I'll ask him if he likes me, and then reject him.
It's all right. I think that returning it the first time will not give him room for imagination.
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How to reject someone else's confession, refer to the following:1If you deny yourself and reject her confession very simply, it will make the relationship between the two people very awkward, and they won't even be friends, and they will be embarrassed when they meet in the future.
You can use the reason for denying yourself, "I really want to help you, but I'm really not good at ...... in love.""If you reject a girl's confession with a reason of denying yourself, you can very cleverly avoid hurting others. 2.I'm not entirely sure how I feel right now, and I don't want a hasty relationship to be the most euphemistic and subtle way to refuse to confess, and it's the least lethal to a hopeful confessor.
But there is still a certain risk in saying this refusal, and people who are too persistent may still have hope in their hearts, and even relentlessly launch a more violent offensive. 3.Actually, I also hope to say this to you, but in any case, I can't lie to people to use this sentence to respond to other people's confessions, it may seem a little cruel, but after saying the empty sentence, the other party can directly understand the meaning of your words.
There's nothing wrong with a decisive refusal, it's much easier to take a clear stand at the outset than to go around in circles with vague words, and at least not to give someone more disappointment after giving him hope, otherwise you will only hurt him a second time.
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Summary. You have to look at the right time, before he speaks, say the words of refusal indirectly, and block the mouth of his mouth. Saying it this way will avoid embarrassment for both parties and leave enough room for the rest of the relationship.
How to refuse someone else's confession.
Hello, dear, how to refuse other people's confessions, first of all, be ambiguous. If you don't like each other, don't give each other meaningless expectations, ambiguity may be a beautiful feeling in the early stage of love, but it must be a taboo between ordinary friends. If you hesitate and speak vaguely, the person who confesses may misinterpret it as agreeing to further develop the relationship.
You have to look at the right time, before he speaks, say the words of refusal indirectly, and block the mouth of his mouth. Saying it this way will avoid embarrassment for both parties and leave enough room for the rest of the relationship.
But he and I weren't friends, and I didn't say a few words, and it was embarrassing to refuse in a class.
So what did he tell you?
Or is it a confession to you in action?
He brought me milk tea, and then he asked someone else to bring it to me, and I couldn't refuse.
You can give milk tea to other people.
It's just about sending milk tea.
Then it's still not enough.
You can also verbally reject him, my dear.
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Summary. Hello dear! Reject other people's confessions, method one, when others confess to themselves, you can tell the other party that you already have a other half, this method will not directly say "we are not suitable" is much better, for some people, when they know that they have a other half, there will be no wrong thoughts.
Method two, magnify their own shortcomings, maybe this approach will have the meaning of self-damage image, but it is much better than directly rejecting the other party, when others confess to themselves, you can ask the other party, what you like about yourself, to see if they are talking about their own advantages, and then you can ask the other party, do you know your own shortcomings, of course, if you understand the other party, you can pick a few aspects that the other party hates, if this can be accepted by the other party, then be careful.
Hello dear! Reject other people's confessions, method one, when others confess to themselves, you can tell the other party that you already have a other half, this method will not directly say "we are not suitable" is much better, for some people, when they know that they have a other half, there will be no wrong thoughts. Method two, magnify their own shortcomings, maybe this approach will have the meaning of self-damage image, but it is much better than directly rejecting the other party, when others confess to themselves, you can ask each other, what do you like yourself, see if they are talking about their own merits, and then you can ask each other, do you know your own shortcomings, of course, if you understand each other, you can pick a few of the other party's hated mu chaos, if this can be accepted by the other party, then you have to be respectful.
Method three, learn to gradually alienate the other party, when others stop the fiber and confess to themselves, tell the other party that the two people are not suitable, maybe they are not the type that the other party likes, it is recommended to learn more about it, after which they must learn to gradually alienate each other, including reducing the frequency of contact between the two people, the number of meetings, and the content of the exchange, can be less or less.
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If the boy doesn't like it for a long time or doesn't love it deeply and is not very introverted or has low self-esteem, the two of them can still be ordinary friends; But if the boy has been in love for a long time or loves deeply, or has a more introverted personality and low self-esteem, the pain of rejection is relatively great, and unless the girl has enough enthusiasm and patience, it is more difficult for the two to become ordinary friends.
You can recall what considerations you used not to reject others, is the other party's request very unreasonable, blindly accommodating others is consuming yourself, after a long time you will have no status in the hearts of others, people will feel that what you do is a matter of course, so we must learn to refuse others, refuse others to go with your own heart, if you feel that people, things, time is not suitable, you have to refuse the other party, if the other party's request is very unreasonable, then directly refuse, express your reluctance, Let the other party know that you are dissatisfied, there is nothing to be embarrassed about, the more embarrassed you are, the more embarrassed others will be to you, if you feel that others have made a lot of courage to speak to you, then measure your ability to do your best, let the other party know that you did your best, even if the final thing is not done, the other party will thank you.