Always thinking about what to do with a stranger you can t meet? I encountered it once before on the

In fact, you don't know what his surname is or what he is called when you meet a stranger once, and you don't know him very well, so you don't need to miss others, or spend some time around the people you know, and make good relationships with the people around you, which is the most important thing.

I think the reason why people meet each other is fate, so if fate is still there, there will still be a chance to meet. But if fate is gone, then there will be no meeting. Anyway, I believe that a word of fate will eventually meet again, and those who have the opportunity will always see again.

You think about things that don't make sense, and don't do something to make you happy, and you have enough time every day. It's just a stranger we've met, so why bother thinking like that, right? That's like you are a simple stranger every day, so are you tempted by anyone every day?

Why waste your feelings on meaningless strangers!

After a long time, I forgot about it. Stranger, maybe it's a person who looks okay, but actually scumbags.

If you can get in touch, you'll see each other.

Why do you miss a stranger, it is actually not interesting to miss it like this once you have encountered it, why do you need to have such a mind, it is better to cherish the person you know and grasp the real person.

It is estimated that it was love at first sight, hehehehehe, I was impressed.

That's when you fell in love with that person at first sight, so there will be such a performance.

The experience is very anxious, I miss him very much, but I can't see him, and the missing in this situation seems to be more like an "imagination".

This kind of love mode is more like a kind of imagination that falls in love with yourself, the difference is that if it is pure imagination, you know that it is fake, and it is not easy to produce a real sense of substitution, but if you are chatting with a person online, you can project all your imagination and expectations onto each other, this process is sometimes better than real love in real life, because you talk and talk without scruples, loneliness, loneliness does not exist.

And in real-life love, you have to discuss the date time, the date location, and you have to consider whether to watch a movie or a karaoke? You will have a lot of opportunities for friction. But none of this exists in online dating, and you can even chat with your fox friend on your phone while partying with her.

At the same time, in the imagination, you will think that she really loves you and loves you because you have spent a lot of time together.

But if you like someone, you have to chase it hard, don't let yourself regret it, in such a big earth, it's not easy to meet a person you like, if you like it, chase it, life is very short, don't retreat from a little setback.

It's an endless desire to see him, and an endless fear of seeing him one day.

My favorite things to do are done by myself, such as reading and writing and exercising, but ah, after liking him, it suddenly becomes a small chatter, and there are countless daily things I want to share with him. Behind every daily sentence, there is actually a sentence that would be nice if you were there, but if you really say it, it's too stupid, my silly boy, have you heard it?

He was the spiritual pillar of my hard work, a refuge from my daily worries, and the object of my sexual fantasies.

After liking him, I always thought that I should study French and Japanese so that I could have a common language with him. He must insist on fitness, and he must become great, so that he will not be disappointed by the beautiful young lady.

But there will be a lot of burdens, such as when is the first meeting, and it must be my favorite little dress in the summer. For example, after going through all his updates, I want to know what he likes and what he has experienced, and I want to make up for all the things I missed. He seems to be very tall, but what can I do, I am so far behind him.

He said that he likes people who sing well, but what do I do not sing well. Don't you want to see him?

I think if someone had predicted a year ago that I would like someone I hadn't met, I would probably have walked away.

But fate is so magical, an irrelevant person, without even saying hello, broke into my life, and then found the most conspicuous place to settle down, and did not pay taxes.

So what, isn't the beauty of a relationship about the hope of becoming a better person for the sake of the other person?

I'm trying to stand by his side.

You will always fantasize about his voice, about the bits and pieces of his future life, and about countless possibilities.

To miss someone you have never met is to accept all the shortcomings that he may have in reality, to give him all your trust, and if you don't have this awareness, don't try to fall in love with someone you've never met. fell in love with him, and I always fantasized in my mind, ** what he was like at this moment, whether he was sitting or lying, smiling or depressed, I wanted to know it clearly, as if I was by his side.

Every day, I fantasize about what expressions, what actions, what eyes, and what words I should say to express my inner excitement when I see him, whether to give him a big hug, or give him a long kiss, whether to take the initiative to take his hand, or to hold his arm.

The first meal we had together, should it be Western food or Japanese food, the first movie we watched together, whose preference should we choose, and the early morning when we woke up together, did we look at him stupidly or get up to make breakfast for him. If I didn't make it to the end, I would have thanked him, thanked him, everything he had given me, and the love and care from afar. Distance is really not a problem, talent is.

So this is a relatively advanced long-distance relationship, the disadvantage of a long distance is that it cannot be guarded by the side, and this kind of longing is the influence of real substances that have nothing to do with appearance, money, etc., it is simply the most real and pure soul of two people who attract each other, this kind of love is relatively advanced, and it will not be broken because of the contrast in reality one day, the high degree of compatibility of two people's hearts will break all the imprisonment of reality, I believe, this is the most beautiful love in the world.

In fact, isn't this what chasing stars is, you've never seen him but you just like him, and you are excited and happy when you think about it.

It's an amazing experience to think of someone you've never met.

I have had such an experience before: when I was studying, because of the pressure, I once made a netizen online, and I would chat with him every day about what I did today; what was learned; What's interesting; What's upset; What are the troubles; I talk to all the pressures, and although it's a waste of time and my family doesn't want me to indulge in online dating, I still like to do it, and I will sneak online whenever I have time.

The other party is also a very talkative person, he will always talk to me when he has time, and he will channel my bad emotions; It will encourage me to be positive; will say some positive words to motivate me, although most of these words are like chicken soup for the soul in retrospect, but for me who was confused at that time, it played a role like a bright light shining ahead, so that I would not be so sleepy and confused.

During that time, because of my frequent contact with him, I would always involuntarily think about this person I had never met, and I would think about what kind of person such a patient and organized person would be in real life, would he be a psychiatrist, or a people's teacher, judging from the feeling of his earnest teachings between the lines, whether he himself still looks like a confidant brother, or looks like a learned elder ......

Unfortunately, in the end, for various reasons, I didn't see him in real life, and after graduating and entering the society, I basically didn't have much contact with him when I was busy with work, but, in general, the experience of thinking about a person I had never met before, I still think it was a very wonderful experience, and I think that when I recall this experience in the future, I will also feel very wonderful.

An ethereal experience, imaginary characters are always perfect, but such perfect people in reality do not exist.

Your question has to do with your social view of what is the nature of the relationship between people and people, this is a big topic, so it is not a sentence or two that can be solved, but I would like to say the following:

1. Diversity makes up a rich and colorful world. The question of how many kinds of trees, how many kinds of grasses, and how many kinds of flowers there are in the world, which one is not necessary and which one is necessary, is very complicated. If we start from Darwin's theory of ecological balance, all plants, animals, and even each other are interdependent, in this sense, which plants are bad?

Good and bad are only relative. If a person wants to breathe, it is only oxygen, but it is not only oxygen that is inhaled, but some gases that are not conducive to the human body are conducive to antibacterial, so it seems that he is also beneficial. The same is true of human society.

All human beings have a reason for their existence and a reason for their existence. To deny this is to deny society, to think that the world is lovely. Is there such a society in the world?

Can such a social person survive? Can society progress? China's economic take-off is largely the result of learning from the West, which is militarily different from its own.

And not like the Soviet Union, which at that time tried to exhaust the system. In this sense, diversity, like hybridization, can have good results. Diversity must therefore be allowed.

By recognizing the rationality of the objective existence of society and its significance to us and society, we will be able to understand people correctly.

2. People who really lack public morality should also treat him correctly. They can be educated well, and once they do, they can become an important force for doing good. If we blindly look at them angrily, they may become our opposites, at least not conducive to the improvement of the social atmosphere, and even make more and more bad people, and our society will become more and more chaotic.

3. Conclusion, look at everything you say with a correct attitude, that is, in the benefit of society and others, rather than being emotional.

Alas, the same kind, I'm the same as you, and even I thought of a lot of ways to solve it, I want to make myself think about the attitude around me from a different angle, maybe our mentality is extreme, I don't understand why I have such thoughts, I think it's incredible, now my situation is that a good friend is getting better and better, but I can't like them with new friends I met for the first time, I always feel that they have bad intentions, I always feel that they don't have the heart to be friends with me, I crave sincere friendship, It's also because the more I eager, the result becomes disappointment, I always feel that there is no one that meets my thoughts, that is, because my old love thinks too much about something, thinks too much, and the more contradictions, the more difficult it is to get along, I'm just an ordinary girl, I really can't adapt to these strange eyes, I don't know if you're in the same situation as me, I always feel that others are friends with you for some purpose, and I always feel that the other party doesn't really want to be friends with you, and sometimes I even see some people who I hate. ,I don't even bother to look at it.,Let alone talk to each other.,So I've always been with old friends.,And there's never been a new friend.,A lot of times I feel that my concept is very bad.,The mentality is very wrong.,But it's that inexplicably disgusted with the surroundings.,Maybe it's because I can't get used to the practices of those people.,Let me not be able to treat that kind of friend normally.,Thinking about such people.,One less is good.,So as not to hurt yourself.,Don't pay attention to too much.,Always get used to telling yourself that those who don't care about him or don't care about him., I'm used to saying it doesn't matter when I encounter this, so now I can't ,,, understand it, maybe this world owes us all my life.

To be honest, you and I are a bit like hey, but I'm not as extreme as you, although I don't like strangers, but I won't say that I always think about other people's bad places, I will scoff when I see other people's immoral places, just like I hate others running red lights, I don't cross the street at red lights even if I don't have a car, in fact, it's nothing, just be yourself, don't pay attention to people who have nothing to do with you, hate that person, as long as you don't have too much conflict of interest with that person, don't be friends with him, But for those who have a conflict of interest, they have to endure it, to put it simply, learn to be a man, don't write all their emotions on their faces, now there are few friends in society, if you really want to find such a dissatisfaction, just be a friend of mine, she tells me every time I want me to say her shortcomings, she will also say mine without scruples, if you can't accept it, you won't be a good friend, but you also have to learn to observe words, not everyone can listen, some people may be jealous, then there is no need to put forward opinions, anyway, this kind of person is not worth handing. Don't worry too much, try to discover the advantages of people you know, find your own shortcomings, no one is perfect, don't be too demanding of others, first of all, you have to do it yourself.