The more you understand your life, the more lonely you feel, how to solve it?

People live in groups, with the family as a unit, with the countryside and the city as the gathering, on weekdays, they meet in the ** social interaction, happy and lively days are beautiful, but sometimes it is inevitable to fall into loneliness, the obvious difference between people and other animals is that people have thoughts, they will think if they have thoughts, they will enter the philosophical range if they have thoughts, and thinkers and philosophers are generally lonely, maybe they don't think that loneliness is just thinking at another level, and the outside world is not easy to enter. When I am lonely, I will calm down and read a book, run a distance, watch a scene, take a nap, taste a good music, watch a movie, etc., there are many ways to solve it, and sometimes call friends to get drunk and rest, loneliness is actually a kind of self-protection function of people, it allows us to empty ourselves and think about life. The lively life is festive, but the lonely companionship is not necessarily sadness, the mentality is very important, not much joy and great sorrow, life should be happy and die safely.

For example, when a person has nothing to do, he will be depressed and will also feel lonely. If you want to break out of this encirclement, it is to change yourself, bite through the barriers in your inferiority complex, set goals for yourself, and work hard to complete them, when you focus on doing everything well, you will not feel lonely. Communicate with friends and be open to others.

Don't worry about everything, often contact friends to chat, go shopping, gather more, read more books, listen to **, face life with an optimistic attitude, pass on positive energy, warm others and make yourself happy and happy. Work hard, study hard, and develop good living habits. Savor the beauty of nature with a grateful heart, and your heart will be filled with joy and happiness.

The older you get, the more you look down on everything, and you have no desires. All the accolades of yesterday have been turned into memories of today. There is nothing to be proud of today.

Youth is gone, the years are difficult to return, and I can't do it anymore! The past can only be recalled, and only in the repeated memories can we feel some comfort and satisfaction. Therefore, some elderly people always like to chatter and repeat the stories of the past, and the young people are upset to listen to them, but he still talks them with relish.

Those are some wonderful and unforgettable memories! You feel upset, he will feel that no one understands him, and he will feel more and more lonely.

With age. Children also have families and careers, and they all have their own careers! At this time, there is no time to take care of the parents who have worked silently for the family, their goal is to nurture their children and raise the elderly well, forcing them to run around and worry about toil.

As an aging parent, you should cultivate your own interests and hobbies at this time to enrich yourself. For example: walking, painting, singing, dancing, tai chi, etc.

If you have your own hobbies and participate in them, your life will be more fulfilling! That way it won't be too lonely.

When we were young, we would tell our parents that something unpleasant would happen, and as we grew older, we gradually understood that it was not easy for our parents to live, and we would no longer pour bitter water on our parents whenever we encountered grievances and setbacks. There is a good saying: "Filial piety must be regarded as obedience."

After a long time, negative emotions cannot be vented, and the more you gather, the more you gather, so you will feel more and more lonely.

A person's cheerful and introverted personality is also a big factor in loneliness. Cheerful people are gregarious, they are able to integrate into the big family of society, build deep friendships with friends or colleagues, and hold some interactions from time to time. For example:

Singing, clubbing, birthday parties and other activities, do you think he will be lonely? So whether a person's mood is good or bad determines the circle in which he lives, and if you can't adapt to it, maybe you will become very lonely.

Life is not all smooth sailing. There will be a variety of difficulties and challenges. We middle-aged people are lonely because there are old and young, you open your eyes and wake up, surrounded by people who rely on you, and there is no one you can rely on.

Therefore, middle-aged people are under a lot of pressure, and sometimes they have to face the failure of marriage and career. Especially middle-aged people who have failed in marriage. There is nowhere to say, and there is nowhere to complain about suffering.

You know that the world is colorful and lively, but you are willing to follow the shadow, watching the wind and the snow silent. Loneliness is to have a free soul, which can relieve many things, can hear your own heart, and can look down on all joys and sorrows. Loneliness is the mind can go to the place where it wants to go every second, and loneliness gives a person a sense of mission in life.

Because you feel that no one can stand on the same level as you, of course you will feel lonely.

There will always be a lot of powerlessness and helplessness in real life, but life is always difficult to be confused. When you think you have seen everything, but there is no one around you who can also see through everything, loneliness is your final destination.

Everyone is drunk and I am awake, this is undoubtedly a kind of loneliness. You can imagine a scene where a group of people go out drinking together, and everyone is already drunk, and some even run under the table, but you are the only one in the corner who is very sober, and you have no one to accompany you to continue drinking. Do you feel lonely?

In fact, when you feel that you have grasped the essence of life in life, it is the same state as when you drink with your friends. It's just that when you drink, you may be really sober, but when you think you grasp the essence of life, in fact, you don't stand at such a high height.

It is always easy for people to live in their own fantasies, and it is always easy to cover themselves with all kinds of halos, but everyone is just ordinary people.

When you have seen everything through, but everyone around you is still immersed in the fog, of course you will feel lonely. I've been thinking about what I want all these years since I graduated, but I haven't thought it through yet. In fact, most of my friends around me are in this state, we are just being pushed forward by life, and we don't know which direction we should go at all.

If one of us suddenly finds his purpose and motivation and suddenly starts to get angry. He will of course feel lonely until we find his next group of companions, because we all treat him as an outlier, and we will not let him into our circle again.

This is actually a lonely person who thinks he sees through everything, and the original life circle can no longer accommodate you, but you have not yet found a new life circle. Maybe you are like a person who is independent of the world, and no one can understand.

Life is always rare to be confused, even if you really see through everything, don't put yourself at such a high height, the height is unbearable.

Because when you've seen everything, it's boring. There will be a lot of experiences to lose.

I don't think anyone can accompany me. When you see everything through, that is, you don't care about anything, but you will find that there is no one around you who can be like you.

It's because I find that there is no one around me to trust, and there is no one to talk to, so I feel lonely.

When you see through everything, you recognize yourself, and the people around you can feel it, no one can empathize, and no one can really be good to yourself, so you will feel very lonely.

Why do people feel more and more lonely, first let's look at what the reasons are. There are usually two things that hinder our well-being: 1. Close yourself. Sometimes, everyone is praising a thing, but you think that other people have too low taste, although they are also praising in their mouths, but in their hearts they feel that I am perfunctory.

If this is the case, it is really your own reason, obviously you are also very happy, but deliberately comforting yourself is perfunctory, you always close your heart, for a long time, your coldness will always pay the price.

2 Negative emotions. In life, some people are particularly negative, and when they encounter something, they don't think about how to solve it, but first think about what the worst consequences are. This emotion has continued into interpersonal communication, and before I have integrated into the group, I wonder if others will not accept me, whether they will isolate me, and after a long time, the feeling of loneliness will linger.

Therefore, if you want to get rid of this loneliness, you can be brave enough to communicate with others, don't take yourself too seriously, and actively experience happiness.

In fact, people will have a feeling of loneliness, not all of which is bad, and when we are used to being alone, we will also find the benefits of loneliness. Learning to be alone can help us sort out our thinking, after all, there is too much information in this society and it is too complicated, and having a time to think alone can also help us effectively distinguish the advantages and disadvantages of this information and clarify our thinking; In addition, many people now have an inferiority complex, mainly because the outside world can not determine the reason for their identity, if you are used to being lonely and alone for a long time, it can also help you temporarily leave the distractions of the outside world, have a correct analysis of yourself, and make yourself more confident.

Why do some people feel lonely, it is only a small part of the people in life, most people still talk more and more fulfilling, most of the people who feel lonely are divorced, widowed or far away in remote places, like with children, busy all day long still feel lonely.

Because you are always forgotten by the people you care about the most, whether it is love, friendship, or family affection, they have not given you the warmth you want, and you have lived in a lonely world for a long time. In the laughter of the crowd, you can force yourself to smile with them, and when others laugh, you laugh louder than them. That kind of deliberate disguise makes them seem to be only an empty shell, their happiness unintentionally ironizes their loneliness, at that time, they want to hide back in their own world, no need to deliberately disguise, lonely but not harmful.

The more people live, the more lonely this is not complete, only those old people, the society and the family have no faith in the self-closed, no joy, their world is getting smaller and smaller, the sense of happiness is gradually disappearing, and the sense of loneliness and loneliness is getting stronger and stronger, so we must often go home to see, care about them, talk more with the elderly, go outdoors more, breathe fresh air, and let them spend their old age happily.

It's just your personal feeling. As long as you have an optimistic attitude and face whatever you encounter positively, you will feel that life is actually very fulfilling, and you will live more and more exciting. Sunshine is always after the wind and rain, please be friendly to the people around you, and live every day seriously.

Dear, there is no tragedy and comedy in the world, if you can come out of tragedy, it is comedy, if you indulge in comedy, then it is tragedy. If you just wait, what will happen will only be that you get old. The meaning of life is not to take a good hand, but to play a bad hand.

Whether you are lonely or not depends mainly on your state of mind

Hello! Are you a boy or a girl.

There is a good saying, dragons give birth to nine sons, and the sons are different. The difference in personality creates the same brothers and sisters, some kind, some treacherous; Some take care of the overall situation, while others are selfish. Since the social distance between relatives is significantly smaller than the distance between friends, the friction between each other due to interests is more than that of friends, and if you do not know mutual humility, the conflict will be more intense.

Friends, on the other hand, have much less real division of interests, and rarely involve substantive issues, so they are easier to get along with, sometimes more amiably than relatives.

Sometimes, we tend to be friendly to our friends, and we can think of our friends in our own ways, but we seem to be more mean when we treat our relatives, and we can't even treat our relatives like friends, which leads to estrangement in the relationship.

Family affection and friendship are two indispensable feelings in a person's life, although they are both feelings, but the relationship and role of family and friendship are very different. As the saying goes, distant relatives are not as good as close neighbors. Sometimes, family affection is not as good as friendship in front of different occasions and things.

Any kind of relationship needs to be maintained, and the feelings between people can only be slowly established and deepened in the process of continuous communication, friendship needs to be like this, and family affection is also needed. When many people maintain friendship, they often ignore the interaction with family affection, resulting in friendship getting better and better, but family affection getting farther and farther away.

Family affection is innate and innate, and friendship is acquired through one's own hard work. Therefore, people tend to have higher requirements for family affection, and family affection may not think that it will help them a little, and if they can't help themselves, they may complain in their hearts. Friendship is not so demanding, often a little favor, will be grateful.

Because of the excessive requirements for family affection and cannot be satisfied, it will be considered that family affection is not as good as friendship.

There are great differences between family and friendship in terms of economic conditions, abilities, and so on. There may be a big difference between family affection and oneself in all aspects, and many times it is not that family affection is unwilling to help, but that they are not able to help. Friendship is the opposite, as the saying goes, things gather by like, people by groups.

Friendship is usually closer to oneself in all aspects, even better than oneself, so it can help oneself when there is difficulty.

Therefore, there may be times when it feels like family is not as good as friendship.