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Every time I had a fever, my roommate always handed me a glass of boiled water in obscurity, although it was not a very expensive gift, but when a person is particularly uncomfortable, a glass of boiled water can really have a good effect.
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When I was a sophomore, my birthday happened to be the day of class activities, and I had dinner in the evening. While eating, I suddenly saw the cake outside, and I was still very disappointed (I didn't tell the other students about my birthday today, thinking that the cake was the same birthday as me). Later, the class committee members lit candles and carried a big cake to me (later I learned that it was bought by the class fee), and everyone wished me a happy birthday.
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At that time, my friend was working in a bank, and I borrowed 500 yuan from my friend to do something, but something happened halfway through and it dragged on for a year. I finally got enough, my father was sick, and he said that he had to give it to others, so he asked a friend to come over that day and had a casual meal at my residence. I gave him 500 yuan and told my friend that I had to go home to see my father immediately, and that he was in the hospital, but my friend left the money again and told me to use it first.
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One of the most memorable things of my life. When I was six years old, I took a bus from the countryside to my father's unit in the county seat, and when I saw that everyone else had gotten off the bus, I followed suit. I didn't know if I hadn't arrived at the station, but I could go straight to my dad's place.
But I got out of the car early that day, and for a six-year-old child, I couldn't find it anyway. I remember very well that it was the summer sun in the sky, I walked back and forth on the road for I don't know how long, sun, thirsty and lost, crying and walking, but I couldn't find my father's residence, and a kind big brother sent me to my father.
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Happiness is not used to show off, but it should always be remembered in the heart, and if there is warmth in the heart, it will not care about everything, who does more for whom, who takes care of whom more, let me praise you for your goodness, you are very important to me.
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I was working part-time during the summer vacation, and I went to deliver food under the scorching sun, and I sweated a lot, and then successfully delivered the food to my destination, and the customer handed me the water in the food and nodded at me, which was very touching. <>
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For example, something that had nothing to do with you was framed by others, but your friend trusted you unconditionally, and it was not you who did it.
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For me, there are many things that move me very much, but one of the things I remember most clearly recently is that a very ordinary little girl fell to the ground on a road with rows of shared bicycles, and there were more than a dozen newcomers left, only he stayed alone, and the shared bicycle helped up.
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Passing by a small flower shop that has not yet opened. Many of the small potted plants on the windowsill outside were blown down by the strong wind last night and lay crookedly on the platform. I carefully lifted them up one by one.
Although no one saw it, he consciously did a good deed, and hummed an unknown tune softly. <>
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This sentence was originally used to ask myself. In the summer of the year of twenty. Because of something, on some sweltering night. I asked myself. Why do you do a lot of things, but you can't move others?
When I was young, I didn't know what kind of good is good, and what kind of love is love. I feel that what I can be touched by is also touching and warm to others.
So. I'm good to people. Good for favorite friends. Good for the person you like.
And then one day. A friend you like suddenly leaves. Even people who liked me so much when I was young said that they didn't like me anymore.
For a long time after that, I repeatedly asked myself: Did I do something wrong?
Did you do it wrong? A year later. Twenty-one years old. I found the answer.
Caring too much about your own feelings, rather than loving others, is actually loving yourself. I have done too many things that I think can move the other party, but in fact, it is only myself who is moved.
Most of the time, our act of loving others is often to satisfy our own hearts. It is not known whether the other party was moved or not, but we did it, but they may not accept or understand. Often when we are rejected, it can be hard for us to believe it, and even wonder if the other party is cold-blooded.
For example, a pair of lovers. The girl always creates so-called surprises and touches for her boyfriend according to the plot in idol dramas, and while she does this, she also hopes that her boyfriend loves herself like the male protagonist. But she didn't think about whether her boyfriend liked all this.
We have moved ourselves, and we have invisibly forced the other party to be moved too.
Maybe it's too much about yourself, too much about yourself, and vanity is always at work. We are not allowed to be hurt, we make a fuss when we are hurt, feel that the sky is falling, and even feel that the other party does not appreciate it, or how sorry we have to be. Then get angry and distressed.
We imagined what a good outcome it would be if we followed the storyline set in our hearts. However, we never thought about whether the other party was willing to accept and cooperate.
I've done too many things that so-called touching and warmth to the other person and creating romance. I talked about myself in another tweet before, overly idealistic myself. Do things according to your ideals.
I thought that the other person might be moved to tears like me. I do it with joy, but when the result is contrary to what I thought, I am disappointed, uncomfortable, and sad more than anyone else.
Some people may say, "My friends and lovers love me very much, and I always think about them, why they don't feel it and don't respond to it." I saw a quote the other day that should explain such a situation very well.
Don't blame each other, like and love, everyone deals with it differently, has different abilities, don't force others to be as moved as you, and don't force others to get the same return.
No matter how many things we do that only move ourselves but cannot move others. If they love you too, then let's love it and don't demand it too much. If they don't love you, then take back all your giving.
In a word. Don't let yourself down. Don't let down the love.
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1.The learning atmosphere of the college roommate school is not good, and the students who are preparing for the graduate school entrance examination in their senior year have basically gone out to rent a room. I was originally supported by a scholarship, so I had to continue to live in the dormitory.
In the quadruple room of the dormitory, the other three roommates in the room expressed their support for my graduate school entrance examination. Originally, we took turns cleaning, but the three of them wouldn't let me clean in order to save me time, and the three of them took turns. We also had to go to the boiling water room to pick up the boiling water, and we also took turns to pick it up, because we were in Xinjiang, and there was ice everywhere in winter, and we walked very slowly and queued up, and it was estimated that it would take half an hour to go back and forth.
They also stopped asking me to boil water to save me time. I have a habit of taking a nap, and I have to go back to the dormitory to sleep for about 40 minutes at noon every day, but they don't have this habit, so as long as I am taking a nap, they don't go back to the dormitory if they are okay at noon, and even if they go back, they are very quiet. Because of the preparation for the exam, I was the last to go to bed every night and the first to wake up in the morning, and I knew that although it was very quiet, it would be noisy, but for a semester, they never complained to me.
Although nearly ten years have passed, it is very heart-warming every time I think about it. So, really, very much thanks to my dorm sisters, thank you! 2.
As mentioned earlier by my college friends, my university basically lives on scholarships, so there will always be a time when I will "run out of food", but as long as I squeak, my friends (including roommates) will temporarily lend it to me as long as they have it. I remember that it costs money to apply for graduate school classes, so for a while I was very tight, so I took 300 from my roommate, and then after a while my roommate used the money, I asked another friend, she was very happy to lend me 500, and then said that you have a good life, it is really to tear down the east wall and make up the west wall. . . I am very grateful!
Yes, this friend who borrowed money met him for the graduate school entrance examination, and they had been studying together at that time. I remember the exam, because the exam room is far away from the school, we live in the hotel together, her boyfriend also moved the microwave oven at home to the hotel, every morning to send the hot breakfast to our room, Chinese food is also early to order good dishes, and so we finished the exam Zhizheng Sell to eat it, full of emotion--- and finally we were admitted to the school we applied for.
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In fact, we often encounter some inadvertent details in our lives, and let ourselves feel a kind of warmth from the heart, for example, a kind act between strangers and inadvertently, will make you truly moved, will let yourself always forget, just take my past experience, although this matter has passed more than 20 years, but it has always made me unforgettable. It was when I was in junior high school, because the junior high school I attended was far away from my home, and I usually lived in the school, but every weekend I needed to take the bus home to stay for a weekend, and I was ready to take the bus home as usual, but when I was about to pay for a ticket at the ticket office, I suddenly found that my wallet was missing, at this time I was very anxious, repeatedly digging out my pocket, rummaging through my schoolbag and not finding my wallet. And an aunt in the queue behind me saw my situation and asked with concern, child, did you lose your wallet?
I nodded, but the aunt took the initiative to buy me a ticket and handed it to me, saying that the child should take the ticket home. I'm a little embarrassed, I said Auntie, you left an electric stove nonsense, I'll pay you back. Mom and Dad waved their hands and said that it wasn't much money, it wasn't easy for you to go to school outside, don't think so much, let's go home quickly, your parents are still waiting for you at home!
After speaking, the aunt left, although this is just a kind gesture of the aunt inadvertently, but it has always made me unforgettable, in our life, it is there are too many kind people like the aunt orange argument rock, so that our life is so beautiful.
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Here are some things that might move people::
1.Commitment to Love: When someone assures you and promises to love and care for you, this expression may move you, especially when you need it most.
2.Family and friendship: The selfless love and support between relatives and friends can also be touching. When the people around us bring strength and comfort, we feel extremely warm and touched.
3.Community mutual assistance: In a community or collective, people help and support each other to cope with difficulties and challenges, and this spirit of mutual help is also deeply moving.
4.Heroic deeds: The stories of many brave, selfless, compassionate, and other people who have saved lives and changed the world through their actions often touch people's hearts.
In short, the things that move people are often wide and diverse. Whether it's a promise of love, family and friendship, community mutual help or heroic deeds, people may feel the beauty and warmth of human manuscripts.
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In life, perhaps everyone has met some kind strangers.
They may just provide you with some, even seemingly insignificant care and help, but they will bring you great warmth and touch.
Two days ago, there was a kind act of a bus driver, Bi Buryinghong, which warmed many people.
It turned out that when a girl got into the car, the driver observed that the girl's white pants were dyed red through the rearview mirror of the car.
After repeated confirmations, the driver confirmed that the girl might have come for a "period".
So he immediately unbuckled his seat belt, took off his coat, handed it to the girl, and reminded the other party softly.
The girl tied her clothes around herself, thanked him repeatedly, and waited at the intersection the next day to hand him the washed clothes.
also wrote a post-it note: "Thank you for the care of the bus master." ”
Some people even mentioned that they hope that their daughter can also meet such a kind and good person outside the confession.
In many moments, a person's kindness does not need to be fanfare, nor does it need to deliberately do a great good deed.
One summer five years ago, I went to a public parking lot to park.
Although it has been several years since I got my driver's license, my skills in reversing are really limited.
On that occasion, I managed to find a vacant seat in a crowded parking lot, but when I drove over, I couldn't reverse the car into it.
At that time, I was so anxious that I was sweating profusely.
I reversed the car a little bit and came out a little bit, and the steering wheel hit left and right, and I didn't know what to do.
At this moment, the male driver who stopped next to me, who happened to be in the car, saw my expression, and then saw that my car was still there, as if he understood something.
So, he suddenly drove himself away.
At that time, I was secretly happy, and now I used two parking spaces to reverse, and there was no problem.
When I parked the car, I found that the driver was looking for a parking space in a circle in the parking lot, and it turned out that he was afraid that I would be embarrassed, so after I parked, he didn't come.
At that moment, I was deeply moved.
Many times, we go to help someone, maybe without words, without being discovered by the other person, or even without thanking the other person.
When you understand and understand others from the bottom of your heart, the kindness of thinking about others will always shine the brightest and warmest light at a certain moment.
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