What should I do when I reach marriageable age but I can t afford it?

I think if you have the right person and love him very much. Then when you reach the marriageable age, even if the financial conditions do not allow it, I think you should stick to your inner thoughts, that is, to get married immediately. If your financial conditions do not allow, you can borrow money first and get married first, I think the longer you delay, and you have no money, it will cause a lot of trouble.

Maybe you're going to fall out with your partner for some reason!

I think it's a good thing to get married quickly, as for money, you will earn a lot in the future, but if you want to find a very suitable partner, I think it will take a long time, after all, only two people will get married if they are fated! <>

If you don't have a partner, or if you think the two of you are unlikely, then even when you reach the marriageable age, I think you should focus on your career first. You can slowly look for your other half on the premise of focusing on your career. If you do, I think you'll end up with both family and career.

If you don't have a partner, in fact, you have reached the marriageable age and the financial conditions do not allow it, I suggest that you still do not think about getting married too early.

Because I think if two people are united without feelings, it will bring you unnecessary trouble! The relationship between you may become dull because of some kind of friction. I think that when you reach the marriageable age, if the economic conditions do not allow it, you have to make plans according to your personal situation, even if the environment is difficult and difficult, you must stick to your inner thoughts.

Other people can only give you some ideas and suggestions, and they can't really help you, so you still have to rely on yourself. If you accidentally make the wrong choice, you will regret it for the rest of your life.

The economic foundation determines the superstructure, if you want to have a good relationship, you can't go far without the support of bread, so you have to be financially independent, you have to make yourself better, and then find a person you love to marry, first calm, and then love.

You should work hard for your career and think about getting married when you have money.

If it were me, I would choose to work hard in my career, and when the economic conditions allowed, I was thinking about marriage!

I don't feel like what you do, but whether the other party can accept you when your conditions are not good, if you can, that's true love, cherish it.

When you reach the right age, you don't get married, and you haven't even talked about a relationship once, your parents start to keep urging on the side, your parents urge more, and the elders also talk about it a lot, which naturally causes invisible pressure on you, so that you don't want to go back to see your elders every year.

Even so, I won't choose to get married because the people around me are married, because I think marriage is a matter of two people, and you must meet a suitable person to live well together.

Marriage should be cautious, after all, it is about the second half of life, there is a saying that men are afraid of entering the wrong business, women are afraid of marrying the wrong man, and I think that for marriage, men and women are the same, and they should be treated with a cautious and serious attitude.

Don't jump to conclusions, or be hot-headed, and after a whim, you do something, and it may be really too late to regret it.

If you are very happy to be single now, and you don't have a suitable partner, then I think it will be good to live alone, and don't envy the lives of others, because even after getting married, you will be troubled by some things, so marriage has the benefits of marriage, and there are advantages of living alone, each has its own advantages, and there is no need to envy.

I can't find someone with the same conditions, so I don't want to get married.

Nowadays, there are many marriageable young men who do not want to get married. The main reason for this is that young people nowadays find that they are too busy with work to find a partner when they are looking for a partner. Nowadays, there are a lot of dating software, but the probability of young people using it is very small, and there are even many young people of school age who say that it is enough to respect themselves and live well when considering marriage.

It doesn't matter if you get married or not, and when boyfriends and girlfriends fall in love together, they don't have the idea of getting married. Young people of the right age don't want to get marriedFor today's young people, they are very open to the issue of getting married, thinking that it doesn't matter if they get married or not. As long as one person is happy, marriage will only cause trouble for two people.

There are even many young people who are reluctant to consider getting married when they see that their lives are not particularly happy after they get married. Even in the face of parents' urging, young people always use the excuse of being busy with work to avoid their parents' urging to marry. Young people can't afford to get married, and when young people are facing love, even if they really like it, in the face of the sky-high bride price proposed by their mother-in-law, many young people are discouraged.

Because when young people face such a sky-high bride price, most of them can't afford to pay.

It is true that people will have a different view of marriage at different ages, I think what age to choose to get married is mainly to see if you have met the right person? Have you ever met someone who you think is particularly good and would like to marry him? People who are willing to spend the rest of their lives with him, this age is not very important.

Most people want to get married at the right marriageable age, because there is actually a more suitable age for marriage, but the marriage within this age range is very good, and there is no need to get married too late or too early. It is not necessarily a very good thing to get married early, maybe both people don't know how to get along well, and they don't know how to get along in marriage, so it's easier to have problems.

Therefore, it is not recommended to get married too early, even if you meet someone who you think is very suitable, you don't think that getting married too early is a good thing, you can take a look at the run-in to judge whether the two people are really suitable?

Whatever it is? Marriage is a very important thing in life, and when choosing the other half, you must be cautious, as long as you think about how to manage your marriage with him, and think about all the hardships that the two of you will face together. Then I think the marriage can be done.

So no matter what age you choose to get married. As long as you meet the right person, really think through the problem and then choose to get married, I think the result is good.

Marriage is something that everyone will experience in this life. In ancient times, marriage paid attention to the right family and lived a simple life. Now, with the development of society, marriage is no longer simply a matter of being the right person, but more about being suitable for each other and pleasing to each other.

It's easy to say, but it's hard to meet. It's not always easy to find someone who suits you. In the face of the high divorce rate and the pressure of the outside world to urge marriage, Pai Liang is unwilling to compromise, so many people are afraid of getting married.

1.Learn to adapt to a change in identity.

There is a first time for everything. The first time I became a mother, the first time I became a wife. But we need to learn to adapt to the change of identity.

For the change of identity adaptation, Xie Na gave us a good example.

Xie Na also suspended the hosting of the happy base camp for the sake of the baby, and raised the baby at home with peace of mind. Until after giving birth, ** will re-enter the first job.

The reason is very simple, just like when you change from a student to a working person, this change of identity also has time to adapt. The same is true for marriage, if you know how to adapt to the changes and manage them with your heart, your marriage will not be so terrible.

2.Do a good job of running in before marriage.

Before getting married, you must do a good job of premarital running-in. The main reason for the cracks in most marital relationships is that they don't know enough about each other, have too high expectations, and can't accept getting along for a long time after marriage, and always want to change each other.

Only through running-in can two people understand each other better.

Xie Na once said in "Wife's Romantic Trip" that she and Zhang Jie were also bumpy at the beginning. But after the two people got along with each other through time and understood each other's temperament, the two got along better and better.

1. The economic cost is too great, and the conditions do not allow it.

It always costs money to fall in love, and after a period of love, you always have to consider the long-term plan for the future, but the current housing prices are so high, big cities can't even afford a down payment, and there is not much left after buying a house with a salary in a small city.

When we knew about 1+1 "Mu Mo 2" from the beginning, I believe that most people would choose to be the lonely 1.

2. Love needs to meet, get along and operate, and there is no time at all.

How do young people live today? It's not 9 to 5, it's "996", "007". This group of young people is too busy, they want to go on a blind date, and they don't even have time to look for a blind date, but they have someone they like, and they have to take time to make a meeting and make a ** porridge, let alone long-term running-in and managing feelings.

This is the mode of love and getting along with modern people, how difficult life is, how difficult it is to solve this problem.

3. Young people's education level has improved, and their love needs have become clearer.

Modern young people generally read books and receive education, which leads to their no longer being blind to love, no longer for the purpose of inheritance, and they are more aware of their needs and standards for choosing a mate. For example, the three views should be matched, the personality of the sedan pants should be similar, the pursuit should be consistent, and the door should be right, etc.

So once young people no longer regard love as a trivial matter, but as a big thing to consider, and what they want is clearer and more precise, then the range of partners they can choose will continue to shrink until it is accurate to that group of people and that type of people. And this kind of person is actually not easy to meet in life, and young people who are unwilling to settle have to wait for singles in the end.

4. There is no opportunity to meet the opposite sex in the life of two o'clock and one line every day.

In addition to not having time to meet the opposite sex, there is also an important reason why young people are single, that is, there is no opportunity to meet the opposite sex. Many times, as long as you have enough excellent people of the opposite sex around you, even if you want to be single, you may not be able to hold on.

I'll give you a simple example, if you are in the entertainment industry with a lot of beautiful women and handsome guys, or if you can contact all kinds of excellent people of the opposite sex by the nature of your work, your chances of being attracted will be greatly increased. If there is another secret message to you among them, then unless you have no need for love at all, you will have the urge to fall in love every minute.

In order for human beings to multiply, they need to marry and have children.

This is the law of nature.

A person has the right to marry and the freedom not to marry.

But if everyone doesn't get married, don't have children.

People come and they become extinct.

It's inevitable.

Therefore, getting married and having children are important matters related to the continuation of people.

Because if you get married at the trial age of marriage, you can have a stable family earlier, and if you have children early, it is also faster for women to recover and have the energy to take care of their children and family. Therefore, most elders want their children to marry at marriageable age, but for individual children, if they marry too early, the financial pressure is relatively large, and the sense of responsibility and self-management ability are poor, and parents need to give financial support. Therefore, there are advantages and disadvantages to the term marriageable age, and we should judge when we should get married according to our own situation, rather than using external judgment as a standard to ask ourselves when to get married.

I hope that when you get married, you will marry because you want to get married, not because you are forced to agree with the outside world.

In today's era, most of them tend to marry later. It is nothing more than financial pressure, upbringing costs, family concepts and other issues, so they are still single after the age of 30. Most of the elders were born in the early years, and they generally married early.

Therefore, they always hope that when their children are older, they can have a marriage partner as soon as possible, so that they can hold their grandchildren as soon as possible and complete the responsibility of passing on the lineage. As for whether to get married or not, it is actually a legal guarantee for both men and women. If one day, there is any involvement between each other, at least the law can help each other solve the problem.

Otherwise, there are so many unmarried men and women in society, who have children but can't take on this responsibility and push each other, how cruel it is to an innocent child! Or when it is impossible to solve the problem for the sake of financial aspects, it is even more necessary for the law to coordinate. In other words, how long can a person's loyalty last?

How many years can you love someone? If you promise to love each other for a lifetime, you will never abandon and be loyal forever! So why not give the other party a marriage certificate and a legal guarantee?

Of course, if the true goddess has not appeared in your life, no matter how much everyone cares, it will only cause trouble to the other party. Fate is a thing that comes naturally, and when you encounter it, others don't urge you, and you want to get married soon! View the original post