When you get along with your children, is there any moment that makes you feel chilled?

I take him out to play every day, and I bring delicious food every day, but every time I ask her who she is kissing, he says that she is with her mother.

As parents, we all hope that our children can be sensible and become dragons and phoenixes, but not so thinking about children can make us worry, and when we educate our children, the children will be very sad and short-tempered, at this moment I will be very sad and disappointed in the children, but after all, the children are children in the black market, and we need to educate them well, and we can't be in a hurry.

If there is any moment that makes me feel cold about the world, it should be when I find that I don't know anything, the world still abandons me and doesn't give me a little special treatment, why can everyone get rich? But I could only fall into poverty, and I really felt very cold at that time!

That's when I dropped out of high school to go to work, and my parents were also mad at me at that time, obviously with such good grades but not working hard to study, at that time I didn't know if it was a brain convulsion or how to drop anyway, I just didn't want to study, every day in class is to watch **, although I also feel guilty, but people are very selfish, at that time I just wanted to make myself better, and I didn't take into account that my parents worked so hard to earn money for me to study, so I still did it...

When I came out, I just got a job, I could only make ends meet, and I couldn't live a good life at all! At that time, I was a waiter, and I smiled and bowed sincerely to others every day, but sometimes I even had to be scolded!

I remember very clearly that once a couple came to dinner, I handed them the menu, the result may be because I am still a little handsome, this woman has been staring at me, and smiling at me, in order to show politeness, of course I also smiled at this woman, but as soon as her husband saw it, he immediately got up and gave me a slap, I didn't know what was going on, the man began to scold: You little calf, you actually seduce my wife, are you tired of living?

I felt a lot of grievances in my heart at the time, I didn't say a word, tears couldn't stop flowing down, at this time the manager came to adjust, so I was fired!

In this materialistic society, there are always things that make people feel scared and heartbroken. In the aftermath of most extreme events, trust between people has drifted apart, and there is a sense of indescribable incomprehension. In the workplace, in the officialdom, there is too much deceit, right and wrong, and any means to achieve the goal.

Sometimes I feel disappointed in the world.

The phenomenon of whether to help or not in recent years has obviously become the focus, there are many comedy works, Shen Teng's support or not, and the funny revelations of various cross talk jokes really have to make people think deeply. Now, if you see an old lady falling on the road, people will wonder if it is touching porcelain, whether it is blackmail. People have seen too many similar cases in the news, kindly helping the elderly, but they didn't expect to be bitten back.

I remember a good man who helped people was asked for about 100,000 yuan, and he had to pay for the examination in advance. Trust has almost become a luxury, and at this moment, my heart is cold and cold.

Chatting with friends last night, he said that if he wasn't tired of the intrigues of officialdom, he would have become a director. Yes, it was because of his boredom that I saw that there was still a clear stream. He said that a few years ago, there were two people who tried their best to compete for the position of director, and it has become a habit to fight openly and secretly every day.

It is to let the leader see his own existence, let the leader remember himself, and pat the leader's ass. It is said that officialdom is like a battlefield, this is like Qi Tongwei in the name of the people, the moment I heard him speak, I felt cold.

There is also the current money worship, the principle of the supremacy of money. Money is important, but you don't lose your dignity for money. There is a middle school classmate who has been taught since childhood to find a rich man, and marrying well is the most important thing.

After receiving the influence for a long time, she will naturally form a belief in her heart to find a rich man, a car, a house, and a passbook. She used to talk to us a lot when she was in junior high school, and she succeeded. She was married to a man who owned several properties.

But it's not so pleasant, there is no emotional foundation, and it's actually not happy. I didn't spend my own money hard, and I would look at it when I took it out of someone else's pocket. The moment I had to ask about buying clothes, I felt that my heart ached, and I felt sorry for her.

Indifference to people, intrigue, and exhaustion of all means. It's a brutal truth. Sometimes, I wonder what's wrong, what's wrong with the world, and I see so many bad sides, dark sides.

But I also thought about it backwards, maybe it's because I have seen too many bad things that people will cherish their existing lives.

This world is always so realistic, without the slightest human touch, especially now, most of the people walking on the road can become puppets, and their lives are forced to have no pursuit of their own. But it could also be the great pressures of life that have changed them like this. Was there a moment when you felt chills in the world?

This is a news item I saw on TV before.

This news can happen for a long time, that is, a woman who lowered her head when crossing the street and didn't know why, but just paused anyway. Then he was hit to the ground by a taxi. The taxi drove away without the slightest pause.

After that, the woman seemed to be injured a lot, and tried many times, but it was unsuccessful. You can only tilt your head slightly. But there were a lot of cars and pedestrians coming and going on the road at that time, but no one helped her.

Everyone walked past her without stopping. I can't tell if they really didn't see it or if they deliberately pretended not to see it. But pedestrians didn't say anything, the cars coming and going must have been seen, and some of them temporarily turned to avoid her.

The whole surveillance lasted for several minutes, and then the woman was run over again by a later car before she was able to call the police and take her to the hospital, but because the rescue was too late, she died.

This incident really caused a lot of feelings to me, in recent years, all kinds of porcelain, the elderly to help or not to help the incident has been frequently reported, which has had a great impact on people. This world is too cruel, most people are puppets, they don't care about themselves, and they hang high. Although I don't dare to promise to help her, I will definitely do it by calling the police and 120.

When we were children, we watched a lot of fairy tales, and we were exposed to them, and we always naively thought that "at the beginning of man, nature is good", the world is very beautiful, and the society is very harmonious. When we really grew up and began to get in touch with outside life, we realized that the world was not simple.

Since the "Peng Yu case" in Nanjing City in 06 years, people have begun to have a new understanding of morality in today's society, believing that there has been an obvious "moral decline" in today's society, and the "Peng Yu case" is a landmark event of "moral decline" in society. Although this case has been misinterpreted by people due to various factors, the negative impact it has brought is unexpected.

This is just the beginning, since then, so far in the past ten years, there have been nearly 100 vicious incidents in various parts of our country that kindly help the elderly and are falsely accused, and the bad impact brought by it has made the world ashamed, and people jokingly call the old man who falls down "can't help it". The warnings of the case again and again have made people begin to doubt the sinister nature of people's hearts. In front of the fallen old man, do you help or not?

What if I am falsely accused?

We feel cold because the old man fell and no one helped him up, but we felt cold because the old man was helped up by a kind person but turned back on the other party. Human nature is good, and no one is born without feelings. We have strongly condemned the incident of helping people to be slandered again and again, and our moral bottom line has been refreshed by the world again and again.

Is this world changing who we really are, or are we helplessly bowing our heads to this unreasonable world?

At this time, I just want to say, "If the world is too dangerous, only ** is the safest".

In the face of such an unreasonable "moral kidnapping", more and more well-wishers began to fade out of people's sight, and there were few incidents of enthusiastic help to the elderly who fell. Even if you do, be cautious and act in the presence of friends or passers-by to avoid getting into trouble. If you are not insured, now is the Internet era, take out your mobile phone, record the process of helping others, and let the old man personally determine that it is not himself who pushes to TA, and the whole process of helping people is over.

However, after thinking about it, I don't think this is a serious approach, but it gives people the feeling that it is a show, and it has lost the essence of being enthusiastic about helping, which makes people feel awkward.

The traditional virtues of the Chinese nation have been passed down to the present day, and the sons and daughters of the Chinese nation, with excellent moral character, fine national spirit, and noble national feelings, have now encountered obstacles and are struggling in the face of the "unsupportable" groups. "Help" and "not help" will be the topic of discussion we have been discussing. In the face of such a situation, people's indifference and indifference are chilling; And the helpless performance is even more chilling.

I remember when my child was in kindergarten, there was a Mother's Day when all of us parents were invited to participate in the school activities. At that time, there was a session called "I want to say to my mother".

My son was also elected to the stage, I remember that he slowly walked on the stage, he said into the microphone in a childish voice: Mom, I know that I am usually very disobedient and often make you angry, I will never disobey you in the future, I have grown up, I will help you with housework, I will protect you when I grow up... When I heard this, I burst into tears.

At that moment, I really felt that my son was sensible, and I really felt very gratified.

As my child grows up, I am most pleased that one day he will be able to arrange his own school activities independently. Before that, the child would need his parents to arrange everything for him every day, and as a parent, he was also very tired, and he had to listen to the little child complain about the school life every day after he was busy with work.

However, the little kid has been a little more sensible recently, and on Children's Day, the school organized a trip, and he had already planned what equipment to buy a few days ago. After taking me to the supermarket, he told me about his plans while picking up snacks, and he was going to have a picnic there with his friends when he got there.

When he does things, he will think about his parents, and when others say about his parents, he will stand up for his parents.

The child hugged my face and said, "Dad, I miss you."

I felt that my eyes were wet in an instant, and I wanted to fall into tears. If it weren't for the fact that the emotional control ability was not bad, I would have cried while guarding a group of people.

We are inexplicably moved and relieved that the child suddenly grows up, for example, you have not taught her how to do it, but she will do it herself.

When the child understands my difficulties and understands my hardships, I think I will be very grateful!

Being independent, knowing how to be grateful, and understanding the difficulties of your parents will make you feel very gratified

The most gratifying thing should be that before he knew it, he had grown up.

Every moment makes me feel very comforted, because children grow up watching from childhood to adulthood.

When my children grow up, they bring me water to wash their feet, and I feel very touched.

Personally, my family is very happy, because I am an only child, the family will be very spoiled, and I have never been beaten or scolded since I was a child. When everyone was comparing their children's grades with each other, my parents never said anything about me, they thought that I had worked hard and that there was no need to compare myself with others. I've always been proud to have such parents, and of course there are times when I'm frustrated by them.

1. When eating.

My mom is a good cook, and I especially like to eat my mom's cooking, so every time my mom cooks a lot of food. So when I was eating, my mother would keep clipping me and even push the plate in front of me, and I wouldn't listen to any refusal. Sometimes I say that I am full and very supportive, and they think that I am lying, and I don't eat for the sake of **, so they still give me a clip.

But I was really full at that time, and my stomach was round, but they just didn't believe it, and I was really helpless at that time.

2. When you go to school.

I'm in college now, I'm an adult, and I think I've been able to take care of myself. Even if you can't take care of yourself, then it's definitely no problem to go home by yourself, after all, my home is so close to the high-speed rail station, and there are so many bus rentals. But in the eyes of my parents, I just couldn't.

So every time I went to school, no matter how much I refused, they would give me away, saying that my suitcase was too heavy, that I couldn't get on the bus by myself, in short, it was just a bunch of excuses. They had to take time off to take me to work even when I was at work, which really made me feel very helpless, and made me feel that I had always been a child in their eyes.