What to do when you suddenly find yourself worthless?

Finding yourself good for nothing is a sign that you are improving. When a person who is good for nothing starts to find that he is good for nothing, he will force himself to be good and useful. Therefore, it doesn't matter if you find yourself useless, the most important thing is how you can improve your current situation, how to make yourself better and better is the most important thing you should consider at present, instead of being confused and frustrated, you have to believe that you can become stronger, only by believing in yourself, you can get better and better, and you can get rid of the situation where you are useless.

When you suddenly find yourself worthless, first of all, don't be depressed and sad, think about your current problems. You have to analyze your current strengths, even if you feel that you are worthless, but you will have advantages, right? Think about your own strengths, gradually expand them, you will slowly find that you will at least have a bright spot, after having a bright spot, you will slowly learn other aspects, slowly expand your strengths, you will find yourself more and more excellent.

In the process of gradually changing yourself, you may encounter the following problems: 1. There is no way to concentrate on one thing. 2. I often think about being lazy when studying.

In the first case, you should think about what you are doing, and don't push yourself if you don't want to do it, otherwise you will not be effective at all, and you will not be able to concentrate on how you can do a good job? So, think clearly about what you're doing, it's all for yourself, don't be wronged. In the second case, you can give yourself more segments to study, that is, shorten the time of one-time study and increase the number of times, but to ensure the quality of your learning, when you slowly get used to studying for a long time, you adjust your study time.

Believe in yourself, and change your actions, and in the end you will be able to become less useless.

When you find that you are good for nothing, you should work hard.

When you're useless, you should work hard, because people who are better than you work harder than you, so what reason do you have to keep yourself down? In this world, everyone is making unremitting efforts, and everyone has never looked back at you, at the former world, but you always stop to look back at the former world, and you can't get out of it. By the time you find that you are still standing still, others are already far beyond you.

You were left behind, and you became very lonely from then on, because everyone was better than you. Those who were once better than you are even better than you. You've been isolated.

So when you find that you are worthless, you should work hard, in addition to working hard, you should also find your own shortcomings and strive to correct your shortcomings! You have to know that everyone is imperfect, and only by working hard to improve yourself can you make yourself better and better! If you're always self-righteous and feel like there's nothing you can do to improve, that's when you start falling behind.

Good people will always like to communicate with good people, and if you are always stuck in the same position, then others will not communicate with you again. So when you find that you are worthless, you must try to improve your shortcomings, if you don't improve, you will find that you will have fewer and fewer friends.

So when you find that you are worthless, in addition to working hard, you must also try to improve your shortcomings, so that you can make yourself more and more perfect.

I'm sure a lot of people have a problem in their lives: they suddenly feel like they're worthless. However, some people can solve this problem quickly, while others have never been able to get rid of the trouble that this problem brings.

First of all, we have to adjust our mentality, we have to believe in ourselves. Everyone has their own strengths and weaknesses, but many people keep an eye on their weaknesses and fail to see their strengths. And many people like to compare themselves with others, but many people always compare their own shortcomings with the strengths of others.

Comparing one's own shortcomings with the strengths of others, the consequences can be imagined, of course, it is a "failure". Some people are prone to inferiority complexes, thinking that they are worthless and inferior to others. This approach is wrong, others are others, we make us, we also have our own strengths, we cannot replace others, but others cannot replace us either.

Then, change your mindset and make yourself happy. Sad emotions can easily bring some sad thoughts, while happy emotions can always bring optimistic thoughts to themselves. Changes in mood can also affect how we perceive certain things.

In the same way, when they see half a glass of water, pessimistic people will feel that there is only half a glass of water left, while optimistic people will feel that there is still half a glass of water, these two views are completely different, and this is the change that attitude brings to us.

Second, try to forget, forget something that makes you feel sad. Then I will think more about my own successful experiences and pictures. Think back to the excitement, joy, and confidence you felt when you were successful.

I'm not always useless, and I've had times when I've succeeded, so why can't I do it now?

When one day, you suddenly find that you are useless, don't be nervous, don't be sentimental, and don't feel that the world is unfair to you! Anyway, no matter how much you think about it, you can't hide the fact that you're useless haha

Well, no kidding! Although my joke is telling the truth.

Do you know what the meaning of human life is?

I think the meaning of life is not to constantly ask for others, but to keep working towards a direction that you think is right, and then create your own value, which is the meaning of life! Keep creating, keep showing your value.

Maybe you don't understand what I say, I'll explain it to you!

What I mean is that in this life, we are constantly creating, constantly showing ourselves, and constantly realizing our own value!

You now feel like you're worthless and worthless! That's normal, everyone has to go through a transition period of thinking, and then slowly find out their own direction, and then work hard to realize their self-worth.

Just like the phoenix nirvana is reborn, there will always be a time of pain and confusion.

You're probably not that old, are you?

It's normal for a young child to be good for nothing! Who was born to know everything? It's not Fang Zhongyong, he is a prodigy, and he can recite poems at a young age, but you are not!

Then you have to fly first, see what industry you are interested in, and learn more about technology and experience.

It's not terrible to be good for nothing now, I'm afraid that you won't learn, you'll be too lazy, and you'll be useless and useless for the rest of your life. That's the scariest thing!

Look at Fang Zhongyong, he was born a prodigy, but he didn't continue to study and work hard, and in the end he didn't become an ordinary child! Therefore, as long as you are willing to work hard, you are not afraid that you are useless now, the world is so big, there will always be a place for you!

Go for it!

Each of us will have the feeling that we are inferior to others everywhere, or appearance, or personality, or family background, or intellectual ability, in this world, there is indeed no shortage of people who are a hundred times better than us, but I am born to be useful, and everyone will have their own value.

When I first went to college, I really found out how many talents there are, nearly half of the students in the class are children's skills, they began to contact music theory at a very young age, contact with sight-singing, musicality has been much better than ordinary people, and their piano level, is not as simple as the exam, so they just entered the school and quickly found a job, and the salary is not expensive, in addition to not having to ask for living expenses with the family, you can also buy gifts for your parents every month, suddenly felt, They live so glamorously, of course, the effort behind them is also unknown to us.

At that time, I deeply felt my humility, and even felt that there was nothing in my whole body, from the inside out, to hold my hands. Although my major is vocal music, but the piano can not be left behind, so after the beginning of my sophomore year, I began to practice the piano on time and on time every week, and the kung fu has never disappointed the people, and I finally succeeded in learning the course of improvisational accompaniment under the intensive training of a whole semester.

Therefore, when we realize that we have a lot of shortcomings, that is, we are about to transform, because we are not as good as others, so we have to work harder, although it is difficult to catch up, but we are fully capable of making the gap smaller little by little, and making a little progress every day is the greatest progress.

The most important point is to have confidence in ourselves, no matter what others think of us, we must believe that our potential is unlimited, if we look down on ourselves, then how can others afford it?

When I was a child, my teachers would often ask us what we wanted to do when we grew up, and my dream when I was a child was to earn a lot of money, so that I could eat and drink well every day in the future, and time passed day by day, and I changed from a child to an adult.

Although I am in college, but I have already become an adult, in the blink of an eye, time flies, friends who went to junior high school together, some of them have already gone out to work, some of them have also married, everyone has their own career, and I am still in school, I have lived for so many years, but I can't make my own money to support myself, I think this is the biggest failure of my life. <>

Sometimes I fall into meditation when I'm alone, why can't I support myself when I'm so old, is it because I'm studying, isn't it, because I'm not smart enough? No, it's because I'm too lazy. That's why I'm useless now, although it's not the time to make money, but in my opinion, there is already an opportunity to make money, and I'm useless, and I have to rely on my parents to support myself, I often blame myself alone, I hate myself and blame myself, why don't I stick to the dream in my heart, every day is just a daydream.

But I can figure it out now, it proves that it's not too late, I want to study seriously first, do what I should do perfectly, and then think about making money, because I want to make money not only requires hard work, but also some luck, a famous person said, genius needs 99% effort and 1% luck, I want to do the things in hand well, and then think about those things other than studying, and strive to be able to support myself first. Strive to realize my dream as soon as possible.

I'm in my senior year at the beginning of the summer vacation, and it's been a month now, and I'm still not used to it, and I wake up every day feeling dazed, complaining about why I can't afford to be early, but I don't know what to do after getting up early? People who want to find a job are slow to make a good resume. More than three years have passed, and I suddenly found that the job and major I am interested in are completely wrong, and I want to go to the southern city to find a job alone next year, but I envy those students who have signed a contract in the north.

The result of hesitation back and forth is that he is useless.

Don't worry, don't stay in the corner and ignore the scenery.

Set a goal for yourself, a weighty life needs to be pushed by pressure, and hard work can move forward. This is not chicken soup, it is the true knowledge of practice. Roommates used to get together to play cards, hang out, hang out in school, and often discuss what the future would be, how confused and helpless they were.

They made me see the importance of goals, and I also made up my mind to start my own plan, and now I also have my own goals, stick to the original choice, take advantage of the last year of college to improve myself, only the stars themselves take the initiative to shine will others find you in the vast sky.

Once you've set your goals, start making a plan! Think carefully about what you need to achieve your goals, what qualifications do you need to obtain or what kind of work experience do you need? I want to find a job related to interior decoration in a southern city, and the success rate is too small for me as a liberal arts student and majoring in economics, so I decided not to blindly follow the trend and go out like a headless fly to try my luck at various job fairs, first of all, I listened to online lectures to learn basic decoration knowledge, quit Korean dramas and selectively watched some "Exchange Space" programs, and found an internship in a decoration company during the winter vacation, so as to enrich my resume in advance.

Decoration is also a fashion, improve your English and lay the foundation for dealing with various customers in the future.

If this is not the case for you, and you just feel that life is boring, and if working 5 to 9 makes you feel hopeless in life and laments that you are worthless, do what interests you. You can learn the art of flower arrangement, practice yoga and self-cultivation, precipitate the soul will make you relax, you can also play basketball, play billiards, mountaineering and other outdoor sports to sweat, empty your brain, exercise will make your brain secrete dopamine, the whole person will become excited, enthusiastic, and efficient, comparable to doping.

Please believe in yourself, you just haven't shined yet, after all, some people are young and successful, and some people have accumulated a lot of money.